1. The Dominicain Republic is right there next to em and they didn't get messed up. And the earthquake as well as just Haiti's desparate poverty and political corruption and the numerous problems there only shows that God has indeed cursed that land for their wicked practices.
2. It has to do with what you surround yourself with. Jesus said that we should walk according to the spirit and not the flesh. So when people are at the club, getting drunk, cursing and lusting but then going to church the next day or after church going to the club and doing said things only proves one thing. THey are hypocrites and not christians or at the very least backslidden.
3. How are we not listening to Jesus. Nations that practiced the same kind of wickedness in the bible normally were destroyed by God in the bible with disasters, economic downfall, wicked rulers etc. The only thing keeping america afloat aside from its role in the endtimes scenario is that (atleast I believe) we send out the most christian missionaries in the world. But as you can see Americas time is dwindling. We aren't "hating" anybody but as far as judging them. If Jesus didn't want us to judge why did he say "Judge not in appearance but JUDGE RIGHTEOUS JUDGEMENT". I'm sure you will pull out Matthew 7 "Judge not lest ye be judged" but read on to Matthew 7:5, we see Jesus is talking about judging HYPOCRITICAL judgement. I can't be in the club getting drunk and then the next night go out and street preach against that.
4. 1 Corinthians 1:10 - Now I beseech you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you; but that ye be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment.
Cult no, but should we all believe nad speak the samethings. ABSOLUTELY.
5. That doesn't mean that every american is a chrisitan. Christians should not be sinning.