Name An Experience(s)That Made You Look At The Opposite Sex In A Different Light

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JadaRoss;2315325 said:
my story is kinda rough to post but imma do it anyway...fuck it!!

when i was a youngsta growing up having crushes on girls was the norm

when all my niggaz were getting the girls i wasnt,i was always the nigga females overlooked and dogged out

i use to defend black girls no matter how bad my lil homies shiited on them

i shouldve listened.Females stayed dissing me to high hell no matter how nice i was

i said i will never defend another woman ever again

it was the biggest mistake i ever made.

when i was in elementary,to highschool i stayed getting shitted on

even after school was over i still experienced that BS

i couldve went on to the sad parts i just wanted to keep it PG

it wouldve been too long

that's why i look at black women in a whole different light

ill never in hell look at black women the same

even if i get married or have kids by one i wouldnt totally love her but ill love my kids more than i would her
Make a thread and discuss your experiences and issues in detail B. Just be real and candid about it.
 
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JadaRoss;2315466 said:
that's cold to say nigga

it takes some heartless ass nigga to say some shit like this

For those of you who don't know, this is a KTULU alias. Feel no sympathy for this fake ass story
 
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cuttadc13;2315545 said:
^^^^^this in like the 6 or 7th grade lol

and when I went with this chick who was still with her abusive baby father when i met her...told me that she left him to be with me...took in her and her daughter and eventually introduced them to my fam so they could take them in too...gave this bitch everything only for her to turn around and go back to her abusive baby father cuz "she wants her baby to grow up with both parents" ...smh I was like...Lmao u serious??? didn't ever talk to her again for 2 years even when she tried to contact me repeatedly...came to find out dude started beating on her all over again like a month after she went back to him and still is...smh dumb ass broad

SMDH...these bitches are dumb as shit
 
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blakfyahking;2315596 said:
^^^^well this titangraph explains a lot

hopefully you in therapy working them issues out:(

the same chicks who dissed me etc..now their lives are fucked up and in abusive relationships

revenge is so sweet
 
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MAKAVELI25;2315658 said:
For those of you who don't know, this is a KTULU alias. Feel no sympathy for this fake ass story
Proof. (Probably don't have it)
 
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Hendrix;2315471 said:
Its a long story but I just wasn't feeling it. She was physically attractive but something about her neediness turned me off. After I told her I didn't want to be more than friends, her whole reality was shattered. She used sex for power (like a lot of women) and she couldn't handle the fact that a dude wasn't interested in her in that way.

I didn't think taking my attention away would make her more thirsty, but it did. That's when I realized that a lot of women need attention and validation more than anything else in life. They would completely embarrass themselves to get those two things. Not all women, but a lot.

That also made me realize that most women can't handle rejection.

All of this. But anyway...my story

Was out havin drinks with one of the fellas, and a random cute chick comes through the spot. I take it upon myself to approach her cold off of nothing and strike up conversation. Best random encounter ever...great non-generic conversation, things in common etc...I try not to overstay my welcome so I go back where I was...she invites me back over to finish the bottle her and her friends had bought. Im thinkin it's my lucky night.

A few days later I ask if she's tryna come out again. She says yes...hit her up later than night to go out, no answer. Text the next day...no answer. I run into her at an event later and she invites me to sit with her. Again she's cool as a fan and we're choppin it up just like the first time. I text after lettin her know I had a great time and Ill be in touch. She says she can't wait to hear from me.

Hit up her up a week later....no answer. So I deleted all her info out my phone. Of course I left a buncha details out, but it's the first time I ever had 100% confidence in how things were going and still got shut down. Learned that no matter how well you think ish is going with a female, always move forward with zero expectations.
 
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dominique19;2316125 said:
Watching men in my family father,brothers, uncles cousins lie and cheat to the women in their lives.

wmen accept those type of men.as long as the sex is good and he's paying the bills why should a woman care what her man does

i know fellas personally who treat they wives and gfs like trash but they still around
 
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this conversation i had with my bro at 12 years of age:

"pussy is a warm, dark, indiscriminant hole. most niggas don't give a fuck who its attached to. and for the most part, unless you out here fuckin hoes that just had babies or with that loose puss, it all feels the same. and i'm the type of nigga that can make himself nut. the bitch that's laying there really ain't that important. don't be like these bitches who put this value on their pussy like a nigga is just going to die if he don't fuck her. and don't run round here talking bout pussy ain't free when hoes is handing it out like samples at sams. in fact, i got a bitch that will cook for a nigga, throw me a couple hunnid && let me hold the food stamp card if i slide thru and fuck her."

humbling.
 
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JadaRoss;2316355 said:
wmen accept those type of men.as long as the sex is good and he's paying the bills why should a woman care what her man does

i know fellas personally who treat they wives and gfs like trash but they still around

You are absolutely right the women let themselves be treated that way and if they like it I love it . I learned some hard truths about my sex as well as the oposite sex but this thread is about the opposite sex.
 
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raevanaa;2316388 said:
this conversation i had with my bro at 12 years of age:

"pussy is a warm, dark, indiscriminant hole. most niggas don't give a fuck who its attached to. and for the most part, unless you out here fuckin hoes that just had babies or with that loose puss, it all feels the same. and i'm the type of nigga that can make himself nut. the bitch that's laying there really ain't that important. don't be like these bitches who put this value on their pussy like a nigga is just going to die if he don't fuck her. and don't run round here talking bout pussy ain't free when hoes is handing it out like samples at sams. in fact, i got a bitch that will cook for a nigga, throw me a couple hunnid && let me hold the food stamp card if i slide thru and fuck her."

humbling.

thats real spit.
 
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was in the military me, the wife, the kid all in japan. me n the wife split the deal was (i still had 2 more years left, but i was getting out after) she would take my son keep him the first year, and me the second.

i wanted him to stay and i get him the first year.. but mainly because we had a big crib jobs cars he was already in daycare etc etc.. and she was gon have to comeback to the states and start over again.. on her own... when our son was already set in Japan

basically i wanted him to stay for her benefit more than mine

we talked several times made plans made agreements and everything . i made her promise that there was not going to be no bs when it came for me to get the kid

basically when it was my time to come get my son she went completely back on her word and told me "well i was lying when i said you could get him... i mean you should know when i lie to you"... SMH.. and vowed to disappear if i flew back to come get him.

i ended up not seeing my son for 2 years over that shit... im not salty... but most def a epiphany
 
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jusdre313;2316762 said:
was in the military me, the wife, the kid all in japan. me n the wife split the deal was (i still had 2 more years left, but i was getting out after) she would take my son keep him the first year, and me the second. i wanted him to stay and i get him the first year.. but mainly because we had a big crib jobs cars he was already in daycare etc etc.. and she was gon have to comeback to the states and start over again.. on her own... when our son was already set in Japan

basically i wanted him to stay for her benefit more than mine

we talked several times made plans made agreements and everything . i made her promise that there was not going to be no bs when it came for me to get the kid

basically when it was my time to come get my son she went completely back on her word and told me "well i was lying when i said you could get him... i mean you should know when i lie to you... SMH.. and vowed to disappear if i flew back to come get him.

i ended up not seeing my son for 2 years over that shit... im not salty... but most def a epiphany

damn females trip me out and they complain men arent there for their kids cmon you tried being there and she completely shut you out
 
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raevanaa;2316388 said:
this conversation i had with my bro at 12 years of age:

"pussy is a warm, dark, indiscriminant hole. most niggas don't give a fuck who its attached to. and for the most part, unless you out here fuckin hoes that just had babies or with that loose puss, it all feels the same. and i'm the type of nigga that can make himself nut. the bitch that's laying there really ain't that important. don't be like these bitches who put this value on their pussy like a nigga is just going to die if he don't fuck her. and don't run round here talking bout pussy ain't free when hoes is handing it out like samples at sams. in fact, i got a bitch that will cook for a nigga, throw me a couple hunnid && let me hold the food stamp card if i slide thru and fuck her."

humbling.
Its a good thing he told you that. Did you take what he said seriously? I bet if more females learned this they wouldn't start wildin' out when a dude rejects them.
 
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Hendrix;2316841 said:
Its a good thing he told you that. Did you take what he said seriously? I bet if more females learned this they wouldn't start wildin' out when a dude rejects them.

hell yea
i do value myself
but i do know that pussy is pussy, its a dime a dozen
shit ain't that serious
 
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raevanaa;2316924 said:
hell yea
i do value myself
but i do know that pussy is pussy, its a dime a dozen
shit ain't that serious
Good shit. If I have a daughter then I'm definitely gonna tell her what your brother told you.
 
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JadaRoss;2316770 said:
damn females trip me out and they complain men arent there for their kids cmon you tried being there and she completely shut you out

yeah man i agree... it took me some time.. but i realized i married a retarded person and didnt realize it @ the time........SMH.......... shit happens
 
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when i found out all females weren't as strong and selfless as my moms. I came out the gate with a bunch of respect and expectations for women, both were shattered numerous times
 
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