My gf still lives with her family at 28 + doesn't have her own car.(When did you move out ur fam?)

[ConflictSucks]

this sounds like the plot for a Judd Apatow movie

 

[DarcSkies]

If she'd still be with you if you were living with your Mother at that age then OK...but most females wouldnt date any man who are on their own level.

Bitches be swiping EBT cards talking about they want a man doing something with his life. But hey...if she'd be with you if you had her circumstances then more power to both of you.

 

[Cinco]

+No kids

+Never lived w a nigga

Seem like that pussy got low miles, gone and cuff

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Now she works, she makes her own money, full time job at the bank, and she lives comfortably thanks to being with her fam, but I'm wondering if she plans to move out or plans to just get wifed up and move out. She doesn't have her own car either. She drives her dad's car time to time.

She's a fun girl, she's a dancer, she works out, dresses well, well read, well cultured, friendly to people, squeaky clean from head to toe, classy, and sweet loving. But she's a traditionalist, she seems to talk about other ppl around her getting married a lot these days, like often. She never asks for shit, she buys me food, we split bills, she's very caring and never dips into my pocket, she'll try to pay for my gas, and all that. Take bus to come see me so I don't have to drive every time back and forth.

Now I got my own crib and car paid for, she didn't know that until we dated well over a month, and personally I'm in no rush to get married, maybe another 5 yrs or so, I got shits to accomplish. But something about her not seeming to looking for her own spot by now or her own car even by now really bothers me. I've always been around independent women who had their own pad, or drove their own car, things like that. This bothers me abit, should it?

...soooooo what's the problem here? You know what, g'on head and pass her to me. Go get you a nice rachet lookin broad who comes with the drama you're lookin for.

Smh.

 

[dallas' 4 eva]

Has she ever existed on her own?

I would be hesitant to commit to a person that has never stood on their own two feet before.

She's going to be running to daddy everytime a crisis arises..

Gotta co-sign this. Dealing with this shit with my girl on a regular basis. She always run to her mama and sister whenever any little thing comes up. Shit is WOAT.

 

[Purr]

So there's sn issues with a woman who is traditional?

 

[DarcSkies]

So there's sn issues with a woman who is traditional?

I think there is an issue with women period on this site.

Mostly cuz these hoes aint shit though...

Word to Sterling's Side hoe

 

[Chitlin_Carajo]

+No kids

+Never lived w a nigga

Seem like that pussy got low miles, gone and cuff

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

If she doesn't have a curfew, can spend the night or go out wherever without her parents being strict and in ya'll business then it's cool. She seems very considerate and family oriented.

 

[FourEfil]

I would only pull the loser card if she's in the lower jobs (retail, mcDonald, grocery), spends most of the time on FB/Twitter/Gram, weekend drinker/cluber, etc.

 

[Ghostdenithegawd]

So none yall asked what state is this in just started firing iff bs opions huh?

 

[S2J]

It's always interesting that people say, I want to get married after I get things accomplished. IMO, the goal is to marry someone that will help you accomplish your goals.

I don't think most successful people have this mindset. I guess it's a generational thing.

Say bruh...Tha fuk does that even mean tho?

Not every ngga needs a 'you can do it' pat on the back. If anything I'd guess that marriage will sap that motivation and make you comfortable. Hence they call it settling down...it aint called turning up.

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

Everyone should be comfortable and successful then find someone who's the same way so you two can grow together. At least they chicks puts in money for things, a lot of broke bitches wouldn't do that. She'll be a loser if she didn't pitch in.

 

[LPast]

It's always interesting that people say, I want to get married after I get things accomplished. IMO, the goal is to marry someone that will help you accomplish your goals.

I don't think most successful people have this mindset. I guess it's a generational thing.

Say bruh...Tha fuk does that even mean tho?

Not every ngga needs a 'you can do it' pat on the back. If anything I'd guess that marriage will sap that motivation and make you comfortable. Hence they call it settling down...it aint called turning up.

It can be a stay at home and watch the kids. It can be anything.

Successful people don't wait because being successful should be a life long goal. We can talk about Kings, athletes, modern entrepreneurs, Presidents.

None Of them said I want to wait until I get married or stopped after getting married. I don't think there is anything wrong with waiting, but it isn't a reason not to.

 

[lighthearted26]

My dad's wife lived with her parents until he married her. She was in her late 30's. She works full time just like him and contributes to the household. I always thought it was strange but it seemed to work and i think some people are just raised like that.

 

[S2J]

It's always interesting that people say, I want to get married after I get things accomplished. IMO, the goal is to marry someone that will help you accomplish your goals.

I don't think most successful people have this mindset. I guess it's a generational thing.

Say bruh...Tha fuk does that even mean tho?

Not every ngga needs a 'you can do it' pat on the back. If anything I'd guess that marriage will sap that motivation and make you comfortable. Hence they call it settling down...it aint called turning up.

It can be a stay at home and watch the kids. It can be anything.

Successful people don't wait because being successful should be a life long goal. We can talk about Kings, athletes, modern entrepreneurs, Presidents.

None Of them said I want to wait until I get married or stopped after getting married. I don't think there is anything wrong with waiting, but it isn't a reason not to.

Well, i def disagree but ok...

On a related tangent i watched the Steve Jobs movie last night and that ngga was damn near bout tokill his g/f when he found out she was pregnant Lol This ws before he made it big

Ngga said 'how can you do this to me! Get out!' Lmao Only linked back up w/ her n the kid after he rolled out Apple and made millions.

Extreme example, but i think the jist of it is accurate. Usually you atleast get on your path to your goals before taking on a wife/kids.

 

[jill]

19 and I was out

 

[LPast]

It's always interesting that people say, I want to get married after I get things accomplished. IMO, the goal is to marry someone that will help you accomplish your goals.

I don't think most successful people have this mindset. I guess it's a generational thing.

Say bruh...Tha fuk does that even mean tho?

Not every ngga needs a 'you can do it' pat on the back. If anything I'd guess that marriage will sap that motivation and make you comfortable. Hence they call it settling down...it aint called turning up.

It can be a stay at home and watch the kids. It can be anything.

Successful people don't wait because being successful should be a life long goal. We can talk about Kings, athletes, modern entrepreneurs, Presidents.

None Of them said I want to wait until I get married or stopped after getting married. I don't think there is anything wrong with waiting, but it isn't a reason not to.

Well, i def disagree but ok...

On a related tangent i watched the Steve Jobs movie last night and that ngga was damn near bout tokill his g/f when he found out she was pregnant Lol This ws before he made it big

Ngga said 'how can you do this to me! Get out!' Lmao Only linked back up w/ her n the kid after he rolled out Apple and made millions.

Extreme example, but i think the jist of it is accurate. Usually you atleast get on your path to your goals before taking on a wife/kids.

Jobs is a good example. He had wife and kids. His last decade was his most successful.

 

[twatgetta]

 

[aneed123]

Women can do that with no backlash cuz society says they have to be taken care off.... Anyway it's all about ur situation. I graduated college and came back home to help my mom out.While doin it iI went back to school. It helped me save money. I dipped when I was 26. Every situation is different. Had I lived there trying to leach with no plan then I'd be a sorry individual.