My gf still lives with her family at 28 + doesn't have her own car.(When did you move out ur fam?)

[Bulletproof Wallets]

Keep her!!!!

 

[CracceR]

18 but moms kicced me out

id prolly still be there and eat delicious food from the fridge

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

INB4 t/s is drivin ole girl and her mama to her mama's doctor appointments like Cedric did Lavita.

 

[theBlackbeard]

Do you see a future with her? If no let her go or continue to climb the ladder to her bedroom till you bored, if yes let her know seriously in a non confrontational way she needs to leave the nest.

 

[Alkinduz]

What is her fam background? If theyre south east asian for example, there is a good chance her fam aint letting her go out the house untill shes married.

her sis/mom text her all the time? She rarely spend the night at your place? Always going home before 12 and shit? There is a good chance she might be a bird in a cage still....wise that you talk with her about if thats the case

Yea she's Hakka chinese. Chinese but born and bred in Pakistan, somehow she looks more brown, looks filipino ish. That's why I'm easy going too, I know that family culture.

ok fam. This can be a difficult situation then, Ive been there. Married my wife (indonesian) last year(shes 25,Im 26).

my wife is/was similair to your chick, basically got all signs of independency(job/finances/state of mind). But her fam(mother/father,sister) kept her in a cage.

your girl might be trapped between her fam culture and yours. Might be very emotional and tense for her to talk with you about...

try to be cool with the mom, she might influence the dad in a positive way.

I dont know man, if you dont love her and see yourself marrying her, it would be wise to let her know and get out...

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Lmfao niggas will find their perfect girl but cause she semi-traditional be ready to throw her away. I guess fam, I say you dump the bitch and wife up a sckrippa that got a car.

 

[Melqart]

to me, that seems like a whole lot of positive aspects to be moved by such a little thing imo. if shes such a catch personality wise, which is rare, why dont you work with her on her flaws? i mean if shes open to that, then you have a winner for sure.

 

[MasterJayN100]

material things shouldnt be a reason you love someone.

 

[kzzl]

It's was usually accepted for women to be living with they family till Mr. Right comes along. The whole "independent" woman thing is relatively new.Her family maybe old school like that. I mean, she don't sound bad... just out of place by today's standards. I'd scoop her up if I was ready to commit. Sounds like she'd love your dirty drawers to the end.

On the flip side you need learn her ass inside and out. I understand a lot of these niggas ain't shit out here, but make sure her being a late catch isn't because of some deep personal issues.

 

[Alkinduz]

The only way he can live with her is through marriage. Her pops probably still believes she is a virgin lol. In their fam culture, her pops is responsible for her untill she gets married.

she is 28, there is a chance her mom already tried to get her an arranged marriage and shit.

moving out and living with the threadstarter is a possibilty, but then she could get banned from her fam or worse.

she being independent etc are signs she wants to break free.

shit goes deeper then it looks at first glance if she is hakka chinese bros.

 

[Knock_Twice]

I wouldn't put much energy into her state, if she's doing her part, as you say, I wouldn't even look at where's she's at, just try and understand what she wants in her future,

long as she aint staying at home because she's lazy..she will catch the bus, don't know too many chicks that will catch the bus for a dude

 

[LPast]

Fellas, where do you come in as a man? Dudes always want to these perfect women, wrapped up in the perfect package.

Get her to buy a car. This is your chance to be a leader and you are going to sit back and complain.

 

[deadeye]

Lmfao niggas will find their perfect girl but cause she semi-traditional be ready to throw her away.

I guess fam, I say you dump the bitch and wife up a sckrippa that got a car.

 

[shit happens]

Now she works, she makes her own money, full time job at the bank, and she lives comfortably thanks to being with her fam, but I'm wondering if she plans to move out or plans to just get wifed up and move out. She doesn't have her own car either. She drives her dad's car time to time.

She's a fun girl, she's a dancer, she works out, dresses well, well read, well cultured, friendly to people, squeaky clean from head to toe, classy, and sweet loving. But she's a traditionalist, she seems to talk about other ppl around her getting married a lot these days, like often. She never asks for shit, she buys me food, we split bills, she's very caring and never dips into my pocket, she'll try to pay for my gas, and all that. Take bus to come see me so I don't have to drive every time back and forth.

Now I got my own crib and car paid for, she didn't know that until we dated well over a month, and personally I'm in no rush to get married, maybe another 5 yrs or so, I got shits to accomplish. But something about her not seeming to looking for her own spot by now or her own car even by now really bothers me. I've always been around independent women who had their own pad, or drove their own car, things like that. This bothers me abit, should it?

the bitch got narcolespy if you must know

So her driving isn't a great idea

 

[A Talented One]

It's stupid to hold it against someone that he or she doesn't have a car, especially in a city where you don't need one.

 

[ElQueefo]

It's always interesting that people say, I want to get married after I get things accomplished. IMO, the goal is to marry someone that will help you accomplish your goals.

I don't think most successful people have this mindset. I guess it's a generational thing.

I want my successes to be my own

Also as a man the more successful you are the greater selection of women you have as far as dating goes. It works reverse for women though.

 

[thegreatunknown]

28 yrs old still living with her parents? Flip the scenario around and see what people would say...hell yea you should be concerned. If your damn near 30 still living with your parents and you're not a caretaker or its not a house you bought that's a problem.

 

[BelovedAfeni]

U got a good thing and UEENO

Smmfh

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

Lmao she sounds wack.

 

[Negro_Caesar]

Bounced when I was 19