:( My friend is cheating on her bf of 10years...

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SixSickSins;5241858 said:
My opinion on the matter is a cheater is a cheater is a cheater. Gender, circumstance, etc doesn't matter. Smh at turning a great man bitter due to cheating...and vice versa a man doing a good woman wrong by cheating. Any and every cheater is a lame. Point, blank, period. And if you aid and abet in their lies, help them sneak around and cheat, or don't alert the slighted person by telling them the truth then you're a lame, too.

Cain1;5241590 said:
charlie_danger;5241578 said:
sweetheart93;5241549 said:
He's probably cheating on her anyways. She's just paying him back, Let her live.

Naw... hes a good dude. Takes care of of kid, work, and school.

What does that supposed to mean? Niggas cheat everyday whilst being a great dad and hardworker don't get fooled Chuck.

Do you have a story for this? :|

True a cheater is a cheater. I tired to talk to her about letting him go because she doesnt want to marry him, have kids by him, and just using him. You can only talk to a person so much about their ways. Do I help her cheat on him? No, not at all. I keep my distance because I hate looking a very good man in his eyes and knowing the truth of his relationship. I tired to tell him but its really not my position to tell him flat out.

Her bf goes to the same school as I, works for the same company as my man, and hes a great father to his son when he gets him.

 
charlie_danger;5242325 said:
SixSickSins;5241858 said:
My opinion on the matter is a cheater is a cheater is a cheater. Gender, circumstance, etc doesn't matter. Smh at turning a great man bitter due to cheating...and vice versa a man doing a good woman wrong by cheating. Any and every cheater is a lame. Point, blank, period. And if you aid and abet in their lies, help them sneak around and cheat, or don't alert the slighted person by telling them the truth then you're a lame, too.

Cain1;5241590 said:
charlie_danger;5241578 said:
sweetheart93;5241549 said:
He's probably cheating on her anyways. She's just paying him back, Let her live.

Naw... hes a good dude. Takes care of of kid, work, and school.

What does that supposed to mean? Niggas cheat everyday whilst being a great dad and hardworker don't get fooled Chuck.

Do you have a story for this? :|

True a cheater is a cheater. I tired to talk to her about letting him go because she doesnt want to marry him, have kids by him, and just using him. You can only talk to a person so much about their ways. Do I help her cheat on him? No, not at all. I keep my distance because I hate looking a very good man in his eyes and knowing the truth of his relationship. I tired to tell him but its really not my position to tell him flat out.

Her bf goes to the same school as I, works for the same company as my man, and hes a great father to his son when he gets him.

That's terrible. Instead of letting this guy find a girl who really loves him she just wants to use him and waste his time smh. I will never understand people like that. People playing with people's feelings ain't right

It's a Low down dirty shame
 
Update: been a whole 45 seconds and this heffa aint texted not a one name... not a muthafukkin initial out this bitch...

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All yall saying she´s foul for not telling, how would yall feel if u was the friend that cheated on your s/o and she told, or there was something u didnt want your s/o to know and she told, would that be ok too? Or would she be a snitch?
 
YoungGoldie;5242413 said:
All yall saying she´s foul for not telling, how would yall feel if u was the friend that cheated on your s/o and she told, or there was something u didnt want your s/o to know and she told, would that be ok too? Or would she be a snitch?

but my nigga when you cheat NO ONE should know. not your bestfriend, not yo moms, not the dog. everyone is a potential snitch. i'm 007 with mines

 
Pretty face. My HO-Dar went off when I saw her she just has that look about her. That "nasty evil bitch that can rationalize any fucked up thing she does behind a dude's back" type look to her.

I dont feel sorry for dude for the same reason I dont feel sorry for females in this situation. There are always things that a bitch says or does that if you're paying attention you'll know they aint shit. It's your choice to ignore those signs.

 
Skyler White;5241477 said:
To me, it's more of a grown up thing than a female thing.



The people you sincerely consider your friends are a reflection of you. You gotta keep positive people around you to uplift and encourage you...not bum ass people who stir up negativity in their own lives and relationships. If they're willing to stir up shit in their lives you best believe they wouldn't hesitate to stir up shit in yours

With age and experience comes lowered tolerance for the fuckshit.

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Darxwell;5242450 said:
Pretty face. My HO-Dar went off when I saw her she just has that look about her. That "nasty evil bitch that can rationalize any fucked up thing she does behind a dude's back" type look to her.

I dont feel sorry for dude for the same reason I dont feel sorry for females in this situation. There are always things that a bitch says or does that if you're paying attention you'll know they aint shit. It's your choice to ignore those signs.

 
I used to have a friend that was very free with who she er, associated with. She had reasons behind that. Sex was her way of relating with men and mantaining her self esteem.... But the thing is she kept doing this shit after she got married. It bugged the hell out of me. I couldn't respect her after she was flirting the valet at her hotel when she came to visit me, hung out with some dude all night, and told me she was still talking to her ex boyfriend.

When she told me that, I just answered, "So?"

Like I'm supposed to commiserate with her and tell her she should start talking to her ex boyfriend again when she's MARRIED.

Ugh. I stopped talking to her after she went back to Dallas, and I've never heard from her again either.
 
Covet;5242506 said:
I used to have a friend that was very free with who she er, associated with. She had reasons behind that. Sex was her way of relating with men and mantaining her self esteem.... But the thing is she kept doing this shit after she got married. It bugged the hell out of me. I couldn't respect her after she was flirting the valet at her hotel when she came to visit me, hung out with some dude all night, and told me she was still talking to her ex boyfriend.

When she told me that, I just answered, "So?"

Like I'm supposed to commiserate with her and tell her she should start talking to her ex boyfriend again when she's MARRIED.

Ugh. I stopped talking to her after she went back to Dallas, and I've never heard from her again either.

these hoes ain't shit
 

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