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Trillaaaaaa;5241970 said:
I'm not "pro-cheating", sweetheart. I'm pro minding my own bizz

And the title of this thread is "My friend is cheating on her bf of 10years". For Charlie to even consider snitching on her friend....

That's why I think she has ulterior motives of smashing said friend's bf.

So yall can miss me with that "I just wanna do the right thing" talk

You're missing the point, beezlebub. The term "friend" is obviously a misnomer in this case. A girl that would cheat on her significant other, someone she's been with for 10 years and "loves"...what do you think she would do behind the back of a mere "friend". You gotta get outta this "snitching" mindset. Plus, Charlie only likes mutts and wetbacks..and she already got one so she don't want her "friend's" dude.

Bottom line is: Telling someone they're being done wrong behind the scenes is not player hating or snitching. It's the right thing to do. You'd want someone to tell you and if you say otherwise you're lying. I'd tell one of my friends they were being cheated on, male or female...doesn't matter. Doesn't mean I don't "mind my business"...it means I'm a real ass friend.
 
Trillaaaaaa;5242036 said:
Alright fellas, let's say you been cheating on your girl and your friend of 10 years tells her about it

Are you seriously gonna try and tell me that you friend of 10 years isn't trying to slide into the good graces of your girl and potentially smash?

How good of a friend to you is he really if he tells your s/o about your extracurricular activities?

If I'm the one cheating, who can I really be mad at but me? Even if that's his ulterior motive, by cheating I made it easier for him or any nigga to come along and do right what I was doing wrong. The blame still would lie on me for doing what I did to even give something to be told in the first place. At that point I wouldn't care about his ulterior motives because regardless of WHY he told, the main issue would be him having something to tell to begin with.

This thread is a prime example of why you do dirt and keep that shit to yourself. You don't put your friends in awkward positions to have to be quiet while a good person gets done wrong, and you lessen the chance of someone else being the cause of you getting caught out there.
 
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blackrain;5242024 said:
I'll add this shit too...if I'm going out with a woman and she knows her friend is cheating on her man and she's co-signing that shit her character instantly become suspect too.

exactly.. its not how she look telling.. its how she look NOT telling...

 
blackrain;5242056 said:
Trillaaaaaa;5242036 said:
Alright fellas, let's say you been cheating on your girl and your friend of 10 years tells her about it

Are you seriously gonna try and tell me that you friend of 10 years isn't trying to slide into the good graces of your girl and potentially smash?

How good of a friend to you is he really if he tells your s/o about your extracurricular activities?

If I'm the one cheating, who can I really be mad at but me? Even if that's his ulterior motive, by cheating I made it easier for him or any nigga to come along and do right what I was doing wrong. The blame still would lie on me for doing what I did to even give something to be told in the first place. At that point I wouldn't care about his ulterior motives because regardless of WHY he told, the main issue would be him having something to tell to begin with.

This thread is a prime example of why you do dirt and keep that shit to yourself. You don't put your friends in awkward positions to have to be quiet while a good person gets done wrong, and you lessen the chance of someone else being the cause of you getting caught out there.

I can't argue with this logic and I actually agree with you.

I just think people should mind their own beeswax when it comes to other people's relationships (unless your friend is the one being cheated on not doing he cheating). Also it's hilarious to watch from the sidelines.

But I do think Charlie may not like her "friend" very much and wants to fuck some shit up under the guise of "doing the right thing".

 
Trillaaaaaa;5242036 said:
Alright fellas, let's say you been cheating on your girl and your friend of 10 years tells her about it

Are you seriously gonna try and tell me that you friend of 10 years isn't trying to slide into the good graces of your girl and potentially smash?

How good of a friend to you is he really if he tells your s/o about your extracurricular activities?

I got a friend who's doing some dumb shit to his wife. But he's my boy and I'm not snitching and it's not my place to do so. My thinking on that stuff is that what happens in the dark will eventually come to light on its own. And when it does. You damn right I'm making a move on her
 
SixSickSins;5242055 said:
Trillaaaaaa;5241970 said:
I'm not "pro-cheating", sweetheart. I'm pro minding my own bizz

And the title of this thread is "My friend is cheating on her bf of 10years". For Charlie to even consider snitching on her friend....

That's why I think she has ulterior motives of smashing said friend's bf.

So yall can miss me with that "I just wanna do the right thing" talk

You're missing the point, beezlebub. The term "friend" is obviously a misnomer in this case. A girl that would cheat on her significant other, someone she's been with for 10 years and "loves"...what do you think she would do behind the back of a mere "friend". You gotta get outta this "snitching" mindset. Plus, Charlie only likes mutts and wetbacks..and she already got one so she don't want her "friend's" dude.

Bottom line is: Telling someone they're being done wrong behind the scenes is not player hating or snitching. It's the right thing to do. You'd want someone to tell you and if you say otherwise you're lying. I'd tell one of my friends they were being cheated on, male or female...doesn't matter. Doesn't mean I don't "mind my business"...it means I'm a real ass friend.

Of course I ould want someone to tell me, no matter who it was...but I'm a hypocrite
 
charlie_danger;5240666 said:
jonlakadeadmic;5240648 said:
First of all PICS

Second she better not ask him to buy her anything for a while if she was supposedly getting paid 20 an hour

No Pics cause ya'll niggas are sleuths. However, she is a GRADE A LA Standard Dime. Lightskin, fit, with a degree.

...BRUH! What the fuck!?
 
nah but really you should prolly tell him if he's a good guy. because if you told us and then say "poor guy" you obviously do give a shit about the situation. fuck it i'm in cali, gimme the address and i'll show up to his doorstep with his bitch.
 

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