In the words of Shawn Carter..."It ain't for everybody". Marriage is a beautiful thing...but as much as I see men criticize women for their Disney fairytale view of what marriage should be alot of men go into marriage with a similar distorted view of it as well. People go into marriage thinking certain things they dont like about their partner will change...they wont. People dont understand its normal to still have a life outside of your spouse. They're supposed to be a huge part of your world but not the entire thing. You still have to know how to exist without them. And also ridding yourself of the toxic mentality that someone is trying to get one over on you. If you're that suspect of your spouse why even be with them? A huge part of being married, hell loving somebody in general, is being able to put blind trust and faith that they wont fuck you over. If you can't do that then not only will a marriage never work but a relationship on any level will always fail.
From what I've seen from older men who are divorved or regret getting married it mostly boils down to the woman\women they married not being the kind of wife they thought she should be...which often translates into them ignoring red flags that were clear from the jump they should have addressed at the beginning of the relationship. It aint marriage that's the problem its the people getting married not understanding how to make an actual relationship work.
From what I've seen from older men who are divorved or regret getting married it mostly boils down to the woman\women they married not being the kind of wife they thought she should be...which often translates into them ignoring red flags that were clear from the jump they should have addressed at the beginning of the relationship. It aint marriage that's the problem its the people getting married not understanding how to make an actual relationship work.
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