Let's Talk About Chicks, Mane

[Dupac]

There should be no percieved rewards for doing what's natural for you to do.... If you're programmed to be a certain way in a relationship.... Then that's who you are....

You don't get special treatment or consideration for being the person you are.... You get the treatment and consideration based on your actions and behavior towards others...

If you feel you ain't getting your due.... Seek inwardly first... Before you start blaming others especially if you know you got your shit with you too

Basically... Man up and stop crying

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

All jokes aside @SolemnSauce

Have you ever asked your wife why she acts that way towards you? If so, what was her response?

 

[SolemnSauce]

them feminist done got you Du..

they got u b

 

[blackgod813]

There should be no percieved rewards for doing what's natural for you to do.... If you're programmed to be a certain way in a relationship.... Then that's who you are....

You don't get special treatment or consideration for being the person you are.... You get the treatment and consideration based on your actions and behavior towards others...

If you feel you ain't getting your due.... Seek inwardly first... Before you start blaming others especially if you know you got your shit with you too

Basically... Man up and stop crying

If u a good dude u a good dude

 

[SolemnSauce]

All jokes aside @SolemnSauce

Have you ever asked your wife why she acts that way towards you? If so, what was her response?

she tells me I've gotten her accustomed...

and feels like the above and beyond is the baseline.

it's like, in America we have a lot to be thankful for. Kids will say I grew up in the ghetto where I got one pair of shoes a year. a kid in an impoverished place will be like..." u got shoes?"

some times we get accustomed till it seem normal, till it seem insufficient. and some times we gotta be woken up to that shit.

told her last night.."you know how lucky you is to have a nigga like me"

I mean, that ain't end well,..but it needed to be said

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

All jokes aside @SolemnSauce

Have you ever asked your wife why she acts that way towards you? If so, what was her response?

she tells me I've gotten her accustomed...

and feels like the above and beyond is the baseline.

it's like, in America we have a lot to be thankful for. Kids will say I grew up in the ghetto where I got one pair of shoes a year. a kid in an impoverished place will be like..." u got shoes?"

some times we get accustomed till it seem normal, till it seem insufficient. and some times we gotta be woken up to that shit.

told her last night.."you know how lucky you is to have a nigga like me"

I mean, that ain't end well,..but it needed to be said

Sounds like yall both need to put things in perspective.

And i dont know if you answered my question, or the lack of details has me confused. Im going to assume you feel unappreciated. And that you are gauging how much your wife appreciates you based on how many sexual favors (or lack therof) she does for you?

Has something changed? When you said she said she is "accustomed" does that mean she no longer does things she used to because she feels content where yall are at now?

 

[Kai]

So t/s is allergens? If so nigga, she not fucking you cuz that gut makes your already small dick even smaller.

Period, point, blank if you're hitting it right, there's no way she would not be fucking you. And you don't get props for doing the bare minimum to be a decent person. You don't even sound decent either

 

[Kai]

if you doing everything as a man that you should, and your lady playing with giving up the pussy and expecting you to do more, then that means you're in a relationship above your league

You never be with a woman at or above your level

Where they get fewer and farther between... decent men.

Fuckin man whores .

#ventcomplete

Are you a woman? Bitch that whole throwing all your fellow women under the bus, like you speak for all of us, to ingratiate yourself with men reeks of internalized misogyny

 

[SolemnSauce]

So t/s is allergens? If so nigga, she not fucking you cuz that gut makes your already small dick even smaller.

Period, point, blank if you're hitting it right, there's no way she would not be fucking you. And you don't get props for doing the bare minimum to be a decent person. You don't even sound decent either

you know nothing of my work

 

[SolemnSauce]

and this ain't just about my significant other, women in general do this shit

 

[SolemnSauce]

if you doing everything as a man that you should, and your lady playing with giving up the pussy and expecting you to do more, then that means you're in a relationship above your league

You never be with a woman at or above your level

Where they get fewer and farther between... decent men.

Fuckin man whores .

#ventcomplete

Are you a woman? Bitch that whole throwing all your fellow women under the bus, like you speak for all of us, to ingratiate yourself with men reeks of internalized misogyny

are we bein real or are we clicking up?

feminism folks...

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

and this ain't just about my significant other, women in general do this shit

Man lock this s**t lol

 

[iron man1]

@SolemnSauce I've got some bad news for ya...

 

[SolemnSauce]

I love y'all act like this don't happen, when a celeb gives a woman the world and she cheats, and y'all go it's his fault for wifing a Thot.

That's when y'all agree, woman do this shit daily b..they on the facebooks, instagrams, twitters, posting memes about what it means to be a man to a woman. but can't keep a man for shit..

Tom Brady can tell you how to throw a spiral and dot it 99.9% with ever throw. Cause he knows what he's talking about. how you gone not have somethin but know how it should work

if y'all don't wanna be real that y'all mane

 

[Kai]

if you doing everything as a man that you should, and your lady playing with giving up the pussy and expecting you to do more, then that means you're in a relationship above your league

You never be with a woman at or above your level

Where they get fewer and farther between... decent men.

Fuckin man whores .

#ventcomplete

Are you a woman? Bitch that whole throwing all your fellow women under the bus, like you speak for all of us, to ingratiate yourself with men reeks of internalized misogyny

are we bein real or are we clicking up?

feminism folks...

I'm a real feminist, none of this third wave shit. But I identify with and champion first and foremost for blackness

Now on to the topic, let me put it like this, I don't want my husband doing shit for me cuz he "owes" me, I want him doing for me because he wants to. Because I go out of my way to make him happy, cuz his happiness is what really brings me joy

And I hope pursuing my happiness is what drives him to do for me. I want everything from him to come from a place of love and a desire to please me, not because we're keeping a tally of owes and what

Do you and your wife even like each other as people? Like could you be friends with her if she wasn't your wife? Work on building a genuine closeness with her, instead of just looking at her as on obligation

 

[SolemnSauce]

if you doing everything as a man that you should, and your lady playing with giving up the pussy and expecting you to do more, then that means you're in a relationship above your league

You never be with a woman at or above your level

Where they get fewer and farther between... decent men.

Fuckin man whores .

#ventcomplete

Are you a woman? Bitch that whole throwing all your fellow women under the bus, like you speak for all of us, to ingratiate yourself with men reeks of internalized misogyny

are we bein real or are we clicking up?

feminism folks...

I'm a real feminist, none of this third wave shit. But I identify with and champion first and foremost for blackness

Now on to the topic, let me put it like this, I don't want my husband doing shit for me cuz he "owes" me, I want him doing for me because he wants to. Because I go out of my way to make him happy, cuz his happiness is what really brings me joy

And I hope pursuing my happiness is what drives him to do for me. I want everything from him to come from a place of love and a desire to please me, not because we're keeping a tally of owes and what

Do you and your wife even like each other as people? Like could you be friends with her if she wasn't your wife? Work on building a genuine closeness with her, instead of just looking at her as on obligation

we are speaking the same languages, just explaining it differently

 

[SolemnSauce]

Kai's wit me yall

 

[2stepz_ahead]

How do you feel about black men being praised for being "good fathers" in public because "there's not a lot of good black fathers."?

It's a backhanded compliment meant to degrade black men.

True.

And why do people feel as if we want praise for doing what we are supposed to do as father's? I aint doing it for admiration...

Kinda like how being a good husband works...

im bout to jump in this shit soon.....

stop it bruh

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

How do you feel about black men being praised for being "good fathers" in public because "there's not a lot of good black fathers."?

It's a backhanded compliment meant to degrade black men.

True.

And why do people feel as if we want praise for doing what we are supposed to do as father's? I aint doing it for admiration...

Kinda like how being a good husband works...

im bout to jump in this shit soon.....

stop it bruh

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[Melqart]

if you doing everything as a man that you should, and your lady playing with giving up the pussy and expecting you to do more, then that means you're in a relationship above your league

You never be with a woman at or above your level

Where they get fewer and farther between... decent men.

Fuckin man whores .

#ventcomplete

Are you a woman? Bitch that whole throwing all your fellow women under the bus, like you speak for all of us, to ingratiate yourself with men reeks of internalized misogyny

are we bein real or are we clicking up?

feminism folks...

Now on to the topic, let me put it like this, I don't want my husband doing shit for me cuz he "owes" me, I want him doing for me because he wants to. Because I go out of my way to make him happy, cuz his happiness is what really brings me joy

And I hope pursuing my happiness is what drives him to do for me. I want everything from him to come from a place of love and a desire to please me, not because we're keeping a tally of owes and what

These 2 paragraphs seem to ellude me... consider yourself lucky if you have this in your relationship