Let's Talk About Chicks, Mane

[MistyKnight]

meh.

My advice for everyone is to stay single, get money, and travel the world.

 

[ReppinTime]

Sex is not something that is earned, owed, or purchased with good behavior.

It is a vital part of a respectful relationship.

Freely, willingly, and enthusiastically offered.

 

[BlackCat]

only reason @SolemnSauce dont hit his wife is cause his wife is stronger than him

It's that Allergies poster right? No wonder his wife beats his ass. I hope his cute ass babies know karate too and go Jackie Chan on his ass when he open his mouth during dinner too.

Disclaimer: I don't support domestic violence unless it's against such basic ass egotistical maniac with entitlement issues. I consider that to be self defence.

 

[BlackCat]

You a fukboi so I'm going to ignore the messenger and how you bring it on yourself and I'm only going to speak on the merits of your message itself.

I don't want to get too in depth because I think I'm going to write a book on this subject but..

One thing you're going to realize if you haven't already is women do not regress in lifestyle. Not without clawing and scratching to fight it. That baseline grows every time they experience something and get comfortable with it. For example you said she controls the finances freely....try to adjust that now and it will cause hell in your relationship...unless you can get her to think it's her idea. You have to pick and choose wisely and sparingly on what you want to change after she's become accustomed to it because you can only do so many before she gets bitter and starts sabotaging the relationship. Now if you change it by giving MORE of it or something even better they love it and accept it easy, it's when you try to change it in a sideways motion or worse backwards where they lose their mind. Not sure why theyre like this I have a theory that it's because their weaker physicals make them feel less in control of the environment so they are terrified of losing ground.

On another note trying to explain the sense of entitlement women have to women is in my experience a waste of time. It's pretty much like white peoples entitlement they have no idea or comprehension it's there and that makes it even more agitating. They also lack fundamental understanding of manhood so how could they understand the effort it takes to do what they think is a given. Men don't take other men for granted nh because we know that entitlement sh1t can get you punched in the face...women don't exist in the real world to the level we do...they don't even think about how behavior can get you physical repercussions. Women don't realize their man could kill them with his bare hands so how could they give that reality the proper respect. They don't realize they bring very little tangibly to the table beyond sex and they take way more tangible things than they provide. They don't realize the sense of entertainment women naturally have in western culture multiples all this and those things that they think are so little that they should be a given are not actually a given but massive efforts. On top of that they do get the right to withhold the one unique thing they bring to the table and still EXPECT you to maintain their baseline AND not smash other women lol...they objectively out they mind

See how ridiculous it sounds when all measured up objectively? You honestly get more tangible benefits from having a pet dog.

But that's what manhood is. How well you deal with their insanity, your impulses (that they wont ever understand) and still lead and provide.

If you don't get your clown ass outta here with that Dr.Phill dissertation...writing a book about this subject? Lmao

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

I too watch The Soup.

 

[Kai]

That's how I know you don't know what you're talking about. The divorce rate hasn't been 50% for decades. It's like 20% for college educated couples. Are you even married? Cuz I have been for 10 years and with him for 13. I'm gonna stop going back and forth with your rambling ass, how about that

Clearly you should cause not one number I put up there was supposed to be "the" divorce rate. You should work on your reading comprehension skills.

I see that now lol, excuse my speed reading. You still kinda rambling tho

 

[SolemnSauce]

This whole thread has made me me appreciate my wife that much more...

 

[2stepz_ahead]

ok..... @kai

@Peace_79

@Arya Tsaddiq

yall niggas ready to fight

 

[2stepz_ahead]

all this what a man shoulddo and shouldnt do is bullshit.

why should man who goed above and beyondbe on the sameplane as a man who stays on the couch all day.

if a woman is fukking her man and he does nothing for thr relationship but take...then the women is stupid

if a man keep a woman around strictly for fukking without her adding to the household is stupid.

you are better off single.

i really hate when people think a person that does alot more than usually for their mate as " what you want an cookie, your doing what your supposed to do"

but people never clarify what that means.

if my wife takes me to the supermarket is that whats she supposed to do...because i want mangoes....

if my wife takes me to florida because she wants me to relax because she sees im stressed at work...is that what shes supposed to do...or should they be looked at as different...

one sounds selfish and the other sounds going above and beyond for you mate...but third some people will look at them as the same...

if we are speaking about the third....why be in a relationship, if we are talking about the first....why be in a relationship.... only the second if wifey material because she sees your struggle and wants to preserve her mate and thier mentality and keep them fresh for their job and family. but i am sure people can even see that as selfish.

why be in a relationship if your not going to do what you can to make the person happy or supported. now they should already be happy with themselves. i am speaking of doing this just for them to enjoy whether its giving you man head when he comes home or buying her a new pocketbook shes been looking at .

the question is whats your purpose for being in the relationship.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

How do you feel about black men being praised for being "good fathers" in public because "there's not a lot of good black fathers."?

It's a backhanded compliment meant to degrade black men.

True.

And why do people feel as if we want praise for doing what we are supposed to do as father's? I aint doing it for admiration...

Kinda like how being a good husband works...

im bout to jump in this shit soon.....

stop it bruh

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[Peace_79]

If you believe the only thing a woman has to offer is her vagina...

Relationships aren't for you.

 

[playmaker88]

Id agree expectations beyond the building blocks of a meaningful relationship are just icing on the cake..many will trade the richness of the cake for the frivolity of the icing.. His treatment of you his respect for you should be demanded and not traded on for the "pretty things"

Eat the cake ladies

 

[ReppinTime]

That feel when you cannot be rebutted so they slander instead

 

[i ro ny]

Lol @ the responses.

How did this thread do numbers

 

[Alpha_Ambition]

Bruh the title change lmao nh

 

[SolemnSauce]

@BoyPussy

 

[yellowtapesport]

nh ^^^

 

[SmashinYourWaifu]

Read the title just to be disappointed

 

[SolemnSauce]

So Allergens wants duty pussy. Call me crazy but I'd rather get sex from someone cuz they want to rather than them doing it out of some sort of "duty" cuz I treat them so well.

Which brings me to another point; this appears to be a case of how men think vs women think(not all but in general) I think men are more inclined to want to sex a woman because of how much she does for him but women don't necessarily have the same reaction when a man does a lot for her. "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"

Which brings me to my other point, I think Allergens wants a woman who thinks like a man. That's why I think he pokes jokes at me, cuz I come across as masculine in my way of thinking/behavior, emotionally detached, more objective than subjective etc. and he finds it attractive. And I KNOW I have internalized misogyny as Kai called it, being feminine wasn't a strong survival skill when I was growing up and I'm working on loving my feminine side and not critical of women unlike how I've been in the past. Those with understanding will realize I've been attacking myself the whole time in attempt to keep the woman in me down/repressed.

that's a real dope breakdown about why I like you. I've never really put to much thought into the why. More like I find you witty, smart, and easy going. but that is really something I'll give thought to.

 

[SolemnSauce]

and ain't no jokes here, me you, a bottle of Canada's best