Let's be real, the buck stops with the female.

[Mindstarter]

i bet if the laws were in mens favor and women didnt have a backup plan if shit didnt go her way, women would be more responsible with whom they fuck

So you're basically saying that the laws arent in men's favors and that men dont have a back up plan. So my question to you is why arent men more responsibile with whom they fuck with????

 

[Niggersauce]

People in here catching mad feelings. The T/S isn't speaking of himself personally so the ad hominem posts can stop. He makes a valid point. One chick i used to work with has a college degree, but her dumbass decided to try and "trap" a hustla to "husband up". Now dude is avoiding her, is she going to abort.... HELL NO. People lack judgment out here. We act like fatherless homes are such a problem in the black community but yet women continue to do dumb shit with terrible niggaz and now a child has to suffer for it.

Her problem could have been solved with a condom. It could have been solved if she had actually taking her birth control pill instead of pretending she did. It could have been solved with a Plan B pill. It could have been solved with an abortion. Instead, it's not solved at all, the problem is growing and she will have to share all her problems with a baby. She was the last line of defense and she completely fucked up.

Damn that last paragraph goin to touch alot of souls!!!! POWERFUL!!

Cosign this whole shit...my exact stance

 

[7figz]

.... just saying that women are the last line

....

Her problem could have been solved with a condom. It could have been solved if she had actually taking her birth control pill instead of pretending she did. It could have been solved with a Plan B pill. It could have been solved with an abortion. Instead, it's not solved at all, the problem is growing and she will have to share all her problems with a baby. She was the last line of defense and she completely fucked up.

..............

 

[Mindstarter]

What's wrong with the person who has the ultimate responsibility actually ultimately being responsible ?

Isnt that what single mothers all about??? Ya'll men just want to fuck and just want women to have abortions like it's a trip to the spa....well, keep dreaming bitches...

 

[shawnbrown]

It takes two pieces of bread to make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich

 

[Mindstarter]

People in here catching mad feelings. The T/S isn't speaking of himself personally so the ad hominem posts can stop. He makes a valid point. One chick i used to work with has a college degree, but her dumbass decided to try and "trap" a hustla to "husband up". Now dude is avoiding her, is she going to abort.... HELL NO. People lack judgment out here. We act like fatherless homes are such a problem in the black community but yet women continue to do dumb shit with terrible niggaz and now a child has to suffer for it.

Her problem could have been solved with a condom. It could have been solved if she had actually taking her birth control pill instead of pretending she did. It could have been solved with a Plan B pill. It could have been solved with an abortion. Instead, it's not solved at all, the problem is growing and she will have to share all her problems with a baby. She was the last line of defense and she completely fucked up.

How do u know having a child is a problem for her???

 

[Dakari]

i dont understand females that clearly see the father isn't ready to raise a child and neither are they together but refuse to stop the pregnancy and bring the kid into the world fatherless and poor anyways

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

It takes two pieces of bread to make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich

Not if it's open faced. True story.

 

[Mindstarter]

i dont understand females that clearly see the father isn't ready to raise a child and neither are they together but refuse to stop the pregnancy and bring the kid into the world fatherless and poor anyways

Why does the child have to be fatherless, just because the man isnt ready to be a father? He should've keep it in his pants if he wanst ready to deal with the consequences from having sex.

 

[Copper]

alot of women out here...(educated women) just pick the most irresponsible man to chase..then when shit goes down hill there quick to point the finger at him for being irresponsible

 

[Mindstarter]

alot of women out here...(educated women) just pick the most irresponsible man to chase..then when shit goes down hill there quick to point the finger at him for being irresponsible

Maybe because there is a lack of responsible men to choose from....lol

 

[7figz]

Isnt that what single mothers all about??? Ya'll men just want to fuck and just want women to have abortions like it's a trip to the spa....well, keep dreaming bitches...

Can I give you another analogy ?

-------------------

Suzie has stick of dynamite. Johnny has a book of matches. Suzie is holding the stick of dynamite but doesn't want it to blow up in her hands. What's the least effective way to make sure the dynamite doesn't blow up ?

A. Soak the dynamite in water.
B. Remove the fuse from the dynamite.
C. Remove all the gun powder from the dynamite.
D. Tell Johnny not to use the matches.

If Suzie wants to keep her hands, she better not leave it up to Johnny.

 

[ocelot]

Why does the child have to be fatherless, just because the man isnt ready to be a father? He should've keep it in his pants if he wanst ready to deal with the consequences from having sex.

no one forced the girl to open her legs and no one forced the girl to have the child

in the end of the day women have the power if they want the kid or not...

and women will only have the kid if they see potential in the father... whether it be looks, money, or status...

men never had a chance...

 

[shawnbrown]

Not if it's open faced. True story.

Whuuuuuuuuuuuut??

 

[JokerzWyld]

How do u know having a child is a problem for her???

Is this a real question?

One minute being a fatherless child is a problem, but now all of a sudden it's not? C'mon son.

Anyway to answer your question: This female is obviously to dumb for a child right now. She's the same idiot who willfully had unprotected sex with a known drug dealer. I think this witless woman will have all types of troubles with her child.... and i pity her.

 

[thekillingjoke]

Ladies, let me give you some advice coming from a guy that used to play women all the time. First off throw away all those stupid chick-lit, self help, "why doesn't he love me" books. Here's what you need to know about men: Men will treat you the way you let them. There is no such thing as "deserving respect", you get what you demand from people. If you let a guy fuck you, cum on your back, eat your food, borrow your money and/or car and leave, he'll do it. But if you demand respect (and have respect for yourself) he'll either respect you or move on to another sucker. It's that simple. And stop looking at every man you meet as a potential boyfriend/husband. Some are boyfriend material, most aren't.

 

[T. Sanford]

when a father walks out on his son, he basically hinted that he want his son to be a man early

giving him ahead start in life amongst his peers.thats why it be messed up when a a teacher get in trouble with the laws for messing with her students. shid he was brought up to be a man early, so let that woman teacher go

 

[Mindstarter]

no one forced the girl to open her legs and no one forced the girl to have the child

in the end of the day women have the power if they want the kid or not...

and women will only have the kid if they see potential in the father... whether it be looks, money, or status...

men never had a chance...

In the end of the day men have power too, they can decide if they want kids or not. They can impregnate women, if she looks, good, has money or status.

Women never had a chance.

 

[Copper]

Maybe because there is a lack of responsible men to choose from....lol

wrong........................

 

[Copper]

In the end of the day men have power too, they can decide if they want kids or not. They can impregnate women, if she looks, good, has money or status.

Women never had a chance.

wrong again...dr.phil