7fIG;3453084 said:
and if we didnt leave it to tradition .. women would be playing in the nba and nfl
fact is you are a man LOL ... a woman will follow your lead unless you make way for her to do otherwise
you cant have it both ways
you cant say "you will control whether we have a kid or not"
and then when she says "we are having this kid"
you say "how the fuck you gonna have this kid!!!"
nigga .... you put her in control!! ... then you crying about niggas taking 55% of your check in child support???? reallly??
thats like driving a car with out using the steering wheel and then getting mad at the car when it veers off into the river smh LOL
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Yummy.Lix;3453157 said:Exactly.That's why I don't see how anyone is more
to blame when it comes to this.The only way to absolutely
know you are not going to become a Mommy or Daddy
is to not have sex at all. Safest sex is no sex.
Women need to take responsibility for all they power they have but choose not to use.
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Yummy.Lix;3453157 said:Exactly.That's why I don't see how anyone is more
to blame when it comes to this.The only way to absolutely
know you are not going to become a Mommy or Daddy
is to not have sex at all. Safest sex is no sex.
while thats true oprah...the point hes trying to make I think is that there are alot of women who soley blame the man for thier situation and dont take any of the blame for themselves I know plenty...but yes ur right
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Mindstarter
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UPTOWN (CONNEXX);3453066 said:
I have to co-sign this. This is why so many black children are without fathers....because of this simple-mindedness thought process. Black and latino men are the only group of men who use, "she's a hoe" or "that bitch crazy" as some sort of excuse to not take care of their responsibility. If you knew she was a hoe/ratchet and u still fucked her then ur more to "blame" than her....if u want to go that route.
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Mindstarter
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UPTOWN (CONNEXX);3453147 said:
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7fIG;3453198 said:
The Maury show...lol...
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Mindstarter
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7fIG;3453093 said:
If u are real about what u say then go get a vasectomy
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Mindstarter
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Matter of fact, to all the "men" out here complaining, why dont all u dummies get vasectomies and freeze ur sperm for later use....then u wouldnt need to have any more of these convos....except when it comes of course to STD's....then I guess women would be blamed for that too...
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Niggersauce
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ocelot;3453063 said:
Cosign this powerful post and close this thread....
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Niggersauce
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7fig;3453183 said:
lmfao!!!!!
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JokerzWyld
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People in here catching mad feelings. The T/S isn't speaking of himself personally so the ad hominem posts can stop. He makes a valid point. One chick i used to work with has a college degree, but her dumbass decided to try and "trap" a hustla to "husband up". Now dude is avoiding her, is she going to abort.... HELL NO. People lack judgment out here. We act like fatherless homes are such a problem in the black community but yet women continue to do dumb shit with terrible niggaz and now a child has to suffer for it.
Her problem could have been solved with a condom. It could have been solved if she had actually taking her birth control pill instead of pretending she did. It could have been solved with a Plan B pill. It could have been solved with an abortion. Instead, it's not solved at all, the problem is growing and she will have to share all her problems with a baby. She was the last line of defense and she completely fucked up.
Her problem could have been solved with a condom. It could have been solved if she had actually taking her birth control pill instead of pretending she did. It could have been solved with a Plan B pill. It could have been solved with an abortion. Instead, it's not solved at all, the problem is growing and she will have to share all her problems with a baby. She was the last line of defense and she completely fucked up.
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Conscious__Nkechi
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7fIG;3453345 said:This ain't about me
If I was the one gettin' pregnant, best believe I would do what I had to do.
See, that's what wrong with folks.
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