Let's be real, the buck stops with the female.

[7figz]

do yall niggas have dads up in here?? LOL

the lack of manhood is amazing up in here LOL

* Raised by both parents post *

So expecting females (as well as men) to do eveything they can to prevent unwanted children is a lack of manhood.... smh

 

[1of1]

Our safeties are dumb as fuck

 

[1of1]

Oh wrong thread

 

[UPTOWN]

I'm going to venture out and say -

• The stretch marks ....... if its a pet peev for you i can understand that, is not a garuanteed occurance tho. also remember that you arent exactly chisled either cuzzo
• The baby daddy who she "will always care about" what youre speaking is more myth than reality. anyone who understands women will see that she's not into you like that if she is still holding on to him. so she wont be trying to settle down with you knowing damn well she's still saving room for that man to come back. yall would just be fucking which you shouldnt have a problem with.a woman could have lost her virginity to a nigga who "she will always care about" with out having a kid to him. its the same shit and has nothing to do with a kid. in fact, a child is more likely to detach her from him then bring her closer in a situation where she is struggling(emotionally and/or financially) because they are not together
• The rebellious kid saying "you ain't my daddy" dude your on some tv shit right now LOL. yes this does happen. its not anywhere near a sure thing to happen. if a kids dad is in his life. it wont be an issue, and if he's not in his kids life, most children dont truley have an understanding of whats really going on until they are mature enuff to handle it anyway. that only happens when you discipline other ppls kids. dont try to be step daddy and this is a non factor
• The weekends where it's "his turn" to get the baby and the awkward moments around that. listen to this one man LOL ... you sound like a kid who didnt get to go to disney land or some shit. if dude doesnt get his kid or what have you ... she can get a baby sitter and if she cant ... oh well nigga tough break. you act like you have to be involved and inbetween her situation. if she's your girl you will get your smashes in .... if yall are just dating and the shit is that bad, then it wont get too far and you'll still have your other babes anyway... LOL
• The *baby wuz here!* pussy. i have no idea what youre talking about here. if youre saying that girls who havent had kids have better pussy then i must lol at you ... that shit is case by case basis
• ... and so on.

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[UPTOWN]

* Raised by both parents post *

So expecting females (as well as men) to do eveything they can to prevent unwanted children is a lack of manhood.... smh

no ,,,, but allowing a woman to have total control over things that affect you is. fact is ... if you dont want a kid and she does, but she doesnt listen to you....... then she didnt ever respect you as a man in the first place. yall shoulda been had that arguement .... wayyyy before any pregnancy. so you would have to be a push over to not stand your ground just for some pussy.... you couldnt get other pussy???

 

[blakfyahking]

no ,,,, but allowing a woman to have total control over things that affect you is. fact is ... if you dont want a kid and she does, but she doesnt listen to you....... then she didnt ever respect you as a man in the first place. yall shoulda been had that arguement .... wayyyy before any pregnancy. so you would have to be a push over to not stand your ground just for some pussy.... you couldnt get other pussy???

no disrespect doggy, but I thought we were talking about jumps in this thread

and if we talking about jumps, then when are you supposed to earn that "respect" like you claim before smashing

I think the premise of this thread is that at the end of the day, a female has more ways to deal, and has the ultimate choice of having a kid

it doesn't seem like there is any type of legitimate debate that can refute this issue........

 

[Copper]

so is a woman with a child damaged goods or just not your preference??? LOL

a chick like pinky and cherokee etc ... thats damaged goods ... and they dont even have kids LOL

fact is yall just dont think sometimes before you post. if you want a chick with no kids etc ... thats cool ... cause i really frown on more than 1 kid. but a womens mentality is key. ill take em with or without .... but alot of women are dumb as shit until they have a kid. thats an often overlooked aspect.

i just find it funny how niggas got all these random rules that have nothing to do with choosing a good mate and typing like they on some real shit or something

if youre not basing it on your/her immediate situation then you cant be winning. your just generalizing

shes not my preference b/c shes damaged goods

and both of my parents have been married for 35 yrs with no outside kids so yeah my expectations might be high....for this day and age but who cares. and its not generalizing if u dont want a woman to be free of kids....its better to know that now that u dont want a woman with kids than to get in a relationship and find out later..

why u worried about if though...u should be happy dudes is passing on the babby moms...that means more fetus used vagina for u

 

[Copper]

no disrespect doggy, but I thought we were talking about jumps in this thread

and if we talking about jumps, then when are you supposed to earn that "respect" like you claim before smashing

I think the premise of this thread is that at the end of the day, a female has more ways to deal, and has the ultimate choice of having a kid

it doesn't seem like there is any type of legitimate debate that can refute this issue........

.....this..............

 

[UPTOWN]

no disrespect doggy, but I thought we were talking about jumps in this thread

and if we talking about jumps, then when are you supposed to earn that "respect" like you claim before smashing

I think the premise of this thread is that at the end of the day, a female has more ways to deal, and has the ultimate choice of having a kid

it doesn't seem like there is any type of legitimate debate that can refute this issue........

if you seed up a jumpy ... then what does that say about you??? LOL

and yes a woman does have more ways to prevent/terminate pregnancy than a man does. considering the baby is in her body this is common sense. but that has nothing to do with the principle of it. fact is responsibility is doing things you dont always want to do.... like going to work everyday, paying bills, etc

you gotta take the good with the bad ..... because if you dont want to have a kid and you bounce, but she keeps the child and names it after you and that kids ends up going to the nba or some shit i bet you wont tell him to change his name!! LOL

the bottom line of yall arguement is that if both parties dont want to be a parent a woman shouldnt take things into her own hands. but the real outlook on the situation is that if YOU dont want to be a father then you dont have to put yourself in that situation

yall dudes sound like a drug dealer who wants the fun of driving a bmw and getting bitches , partying and wearing ill clothes with money in ya pockets .... but you blame society when you get sent to jail. yall dudes is thinking on some happy fun world shit. some magical place where things dont go wrong LOL

if you gonna play the game then play it ... but dont be mad when the other team scores with 30 secs left in the 4th quarter

you dont even have to blast in a broad to get her preggo if you really wanna get technical. she could do a condom recovery on ya ass and pour the semen inside of her self while you wiping your nutz off LOL

thats your seed young man .... you cant have it both ways.

 

[T. Sanford]

do yall niggas have dads up in here?? LOL

the lack of manhood is amazing up in here LOL

lol so we lack of manhood because we dont wanna raise another man's child like Blazini?

 

[UPTOWN]

shes not my preference b/c shes damaged goods
and both of my parents have been married for 35 yrs with no outside kids so yeah my expectations might be high....for this day and age but who cares. and its not generalizing if u dont want a woman to be free of kids....its better to know that now that u dont want a woman with kids than to get in a relationship and find out later..

why u worried about if though...u should be happy dudes is passing on the babby moms...that means more fetus used vagina for u

this is a dumb post tho ...... im not tryin to change your mind. im just merely displaying the childish nonsense that is your "preference". yall not pulling virgins so yes you are generalizing ... you basically saying that you would pick pinky xxx over alicia keys because alicia has a kid and pinky doesnt LOL ... me and you both know you wouldnt do it so basically youre just speaking out of some kind of feeling of being plan b for a chick or something. yall dudes is typing like damsels in distress right now lol ... its more a display of insecurity than anything

 

[UPTOWN]

lol so we lack of manhood because we dont wanna raise another man's child like Blazini?

if you meet a bad chick with a kid, and you try to play step daddy ... you have failed. if she demands that you be a father to someone else's child .... you are pussy if you do LOL

i just think its funny that yall think this applies to all women with kids ... the shit is funny as hell. the women i meet with a kid or two are more likely to have a cordial relationship than these childless women who have this sense of entitlement

maybe it depends on what kind of women youre dealing with.... ive never gotten a woman preggo by accident

 

[Copper]

this is a dumb post tho ...... im not tryin to change your mind. im just merely displaying the childish nonsense that is your "preference". yall not pulling virgins so yes you are generalizing ... you basically saying that you would pick pinky xxx over alicia keys because alicia has a kid and pinky doesnt LOL ... me and you both know you wouldnt do it so basically youre just speaking out of some kind of feeling of being plan b for a chick or something. yall dudes is typing like damsels in distress right now lol

who said anything about virgins or picking pornstars over someone b? u taking ur bullshit to a whole nother level by assuming and putting words in niggas mouths....

 

[politicalthug202]

this is a dumb post tho ...... im not tryin to change your mind. im just merely displaying the childish nonsense that is your "preference". yall not pulling virgins so yes you are generalizing ... you basically saying that you would pick pinky xxx over alicia keys because alicia has a kid and pinky doesnt LOL ... me and you both know you wouldnt do it so basically youre just speaking out of some kind of feeling of being plan b for a chick or something. yall dudes is typing like damsels in distress right now lol

i wouldnt date neither pinky nor alicia keys if she had kids.

as a blk man i got to many options to settle for a chick with kids.

not saying that there are not any single moms that are wifey material,but im just

not gonna even try and give my self a potential head ache.

single moms can get the dick and freinds treatment.

 

[desertrain10]

Y'all are the ones that actually get pregnant and y'all have the power to prevent it with birth control pills, diaphragms, shots, and all kinds of shit. Then disregarding all that, y'all could still abort that shit and the man can't even stop you.

So who's more to blame for all these fatherless children ?

ok, but how can a mother be any more to blame for her child having an absentee father than the father himself?

isn't it ultimately his decision to be a part of his child's life???? he did help to make the child...right???

women do need to start making better decisions in the future, we all can agree on that.....however the damage is done so lets focus on the present, men today, especially black men, need to start stepping up to the plate and start doing their parts. this may sound naive or corny but maybe once these fathers begin to father so many fatherless children will stop looking for love and guidance in all the wrong places .....

and whether these dead beats wanted the child or not, they made the decision to have unprotected sex ....no matter the circumstances, i have no respect for a person who could turn their backs on their own child who didn't ask to be here...shit is beyond low

 

[UPTOWN]

who said anything about virgins or picking pornstars over someone b? u taking ur bullshit to a whole nother level by assuming and putting words in niggas mouths....

no im not ... im just putting examples out there that contradict your generalizing

 

[blakfyahking]

if you seed up a jumpy ... then what does that say about you??? LOL

and yes a woman does have more ways to prevent/terminate pregnancy than a man does. considering the baby is in her body this is common sense. but that has nothing to do with the principle of it.

but the real outlook on the situation is that if YOU dont want to be a father then you dont have to put yourself in that situation

thats your seed young man .... you cant have it both ways.

LMAO @ young man.........I'm most likely older than you champ

seeding a jump doesn't say anything about a person...............accidents happen

the thread premise isn't talmbout fatherly responsibilities, so all of what you are saying is pretty irrelevant because no one is advocating not taking care own their own kid(s)

the bottom line is if me and shorty both playing the same game, but this chick gets 75% more choices on how she wants to carry it....................but yet somehow we still both share 50% of the responsibility for whatever happens

that math is fucked up haha

legally and medically the woman gets more safeguards and opportunities for recourse, period point blank

if you think that's fair, then you might want to find a coach that can train you to stop simpin

don't feel bad about it fam, it happens to the best of us sometimes LOL

 

[UPTOWN]

i wouldnt date neither pinky nor alicia keys if she had kids.

as a blk man i got to many options to settle for a chick with kids.
not saying that there are not any single moms that are wifey material,but im just
not gonna even try and give my self a potential head ache.

single moms can get the dick and freinds treatment.

this is a waiting for miss right post LOL!!!

but yo ... dont get it twisted ... like i said ... it would take alot for me to be with a chick with more than one kid

but read the last sentence of your post .... you'll trust your seed with a single mom ... and you'll trust her to not have the kid too???? LOL

and thats not a contridiction???

how do you fuck and bust nuts around chicks who arent your preference and then blame her when the ball is in her court and she goes in for the lay up .... just saying tho

 

[Copper]

no im not ... im just putting examples out there that contradict your generalizing

your examples have nothing to do with the topic and doesnt prove or disprove anything.....and u used contradict wrong

 

[UPTOWN]

LMAO @ young man.........I'm most likely older than you champ

seeding a jump doesn't say anything about a person...............accidents happen

the thread premise isn't talmbout fatherly responsibilities, so all of what you are saying is pretty irrelevant because no one is advocating not taking care own their own kid(s)

the bottom line is if me and shorty both playing the same game, but this chick gets 75% more choices on how she wants to carry it....................but yet somehow we still both share 50% of the responsibility for whatever happens

that math is fucked up haha

legally and medically the woman gets more safeguards and opportunities for recourse, period point blank

if you think that's fair, then you might want to find a coach that can train you to stop simpin

don't feel bad about it fam, it happens to the best of us sometimes LOL

good post .... but at the end of the day, you're arguing that life should be fair ... how logical is that??? LOL

you're arguing that its unfair that shaq cant shoot 3's but dirk novitski can even tho theyre both big men

maybe i am arguing apples and oranges ... cause youre arguing how things SHOULD BE and im arguing how thing really are

good post tho (no sarcasm)