LateToDaParty
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You both are vets on the site so I'm comfortable with either one of ya to choose the format
ineedpussy
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im still trying to get answers. they say the game is to be sold not told but i need to be told or die alone
I don't subscribe to it. That's another form of Karma, which I also don't believe in. You can influence your situations for the better or worse, YES, that's a fact BUT the world also can and will respond as it chooses.
How many preachers have been preaching this and the people not Christians & Christians blast them for prosperity preaching?
How many INSPIRATIONAL get rich public speakers tour on this very theory?
I have a friend now who has believed whole heartedly in this for 2 years dedicated to it. He's one of the most positive people I know. I've had to pay his rent twice bc he has a wife and kids and I ain't want him or them to go hungry.
Before he got fired from his job he was also one of the happiest people I knew.
I've tried finding him over 15 jobs he couldn't get. He has a Master's Degree and has been unemployed for a year and a few months. He keeps saying it's the best thing that ever happened to him and then talks about how he can't feed his children and how they got kicked out the house and his cell phone was cut off and now he has to home school his kid because they can't afford public school without the child being ridiculed.
He keeps talking positivity on a gullible naive level and really that shit's getting on my nerves. It's not realistic and I'm wondering if he's delusional. Sometimes just acknowledge reality BUT hey if it works for him.....what can I say besides I don't believe in it.
Also he keeps saying have you heard about this book called THE SECRET and how he believes in it. And how he knows something big is coming around the corner for him and that this current position he is in financially is only temporary.
Also: before he got fired from his job he saw a psychiatrist and was telling me everything is great.
Sometimes I say just ignore the "everything is great. Beautiful. Other people have it worst than me. I don't ever complain. Everything is positive." You'll end up in a nuthouse wondering why everyone else is able to cope with their problems WHILE you ignored or tried to false positive your way into a delusional world that doesn't exist but you wanted it to exist.
How many preachers have been preaching this and the people not Christians & Christians blast them for prosperity preaching?
How many INSPIRATIONAL get rich public speakers tour on this very theory?
I have a friend now who has believed whole heartedly in this for 2 years dedicated to it. He's one of the most positive people I know. I've had to pay his rent twice bc he has a wife and kids and I ain't want him or them to go hungry.
Before he got fired from his job he was also one of the happiest people I knew.
I've tried finding him over 15 jobs he couldn't get. He has a Master's Degree and has been unemployed for a year and a few months. He keeps saying it's the best thing that ever happened to him and then talks about how he can't feed his children and how they got kicked out the house and his cell phone was cut off and now he has to home school his kid because they can't afford public school without the child being ridiculed.
He keeps talking positivity on a gullible naive level and really that shit's getting on my nerves. It's not realistic and I'm wondering if he's delusional. Sometimes just acknowledge reality BUT hey if it works for him.....what can I say besides I don't believe in it.
Also he keeps saying have you heard about this book called THE SECRET and how he believes in it. And how he knows something big is coming around the corner for him and that this current position he is in financially is only temporary.
Also: before he got fired from his job he saw a psychiatrist and was telling me everything is great.
Sometimes I say just ignore the "everything is great. Beautiful. Other people have it worst than me. I don't ever complain. Everything is positive." You'll end up in a nuthouse wondering why everyone else is able to cope with their problems WHILE you ignored or tried to false positive your way into a delusional world that doesn't exist but you wanted it to exist.
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Alpha_Ambition
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So one person makes the law invalid? Sounds like he isn't coming to terms with his reality and not taking action towards his goals. Number 2 his book isn't finished.
Do nothing and think everything will be great isn't law of attraction. At least his mind state is positive could be the other way and just be homeless.
Do nothing and think everything will be great isn't law of attraction. At least his mind state is positive could be the other way and just be homeless.
Alpha_Ambition ;c-9586548 said:
One person ain't gonna disprove it. Maybe going from country to country examining billions of people with the same story will. I'm sure positive thinking is better than negative. I'm never against that or arguing that. If you work hard toward something then typically discipline breeds success. However, just your positive thinking isn't the only energy at work. Many people like Trump think negative and succeed. Many people like myself who make plans and pray and prepare for the worst and will speak of the bad as well as the good succeed. Those people I enjoy the most who can cry when they are hurt and honestly communicate when they are happy or when things are just normal and are observing a situation critically.
Education, discipline,attitude (which you are calling positivity) and opportunities help drive laws of attraction.
Depending on what you possess versus what you need to receive to get something you are trying to achieve-- has A GREAT deal of influencing what will happen.
If you are around a critical thinking group then you will NOT succeed with only positivity.
IF you are positive and can't produce results on a performance based job that is grading your accuracy then you will not attract positivity. If there is a tragedy and you are positive then you'll look like an idiot and contribute to negativity by getting on everyone's damn nerves.
POSITIVITY VS INCOMPETENCE
Can you be positive all the time and remain completely honest and realistic?
Basically are you fake or not?
Just because your positive doesn't mean your negative or neutral. You can just make comments about situations on the way they appear realistic from any perspective.
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Lol. . What's funny is that, it doesn't matter if you believe it or not, it still works either way.
Remain negative and negative will remain.
The debate of right or wrong is futile. Do what makes you happy.. that's it at ALL TIMES. think positive! That's it!! Believe you are the master of your universe and act accordingly. Haha that's it!
All the extra is for the bored and miserable.
Remain negative and negative will remain.
The debate of right or wrong is futile. Do what makes you happy.. that's it at ALL TIMES. think positive! That's it!! Believe you are the master of your universe and act accordingly. Haha that's it!
All the extra is for the bored and miserable.
2stepz_ahead
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negative- nobody hiring. I getting tired. I guess I wasn't meant to work.
positive- somebody gonna hire me. just gotta go a bit further than the quitters. I was meant to work.
positive- somebody gonna hire me. just gotta go a bit further than the quitters. I was meant to work.
VIBE;c-9587266 said:
Maybe. He doesn't seem lazy to me, but the evidence is pretty convincing. I think he just works slow. That's why I was mentioning performance. He old me how his bosses kept saying he had to finish projects quicker.
Overall on this whole thread this is my view, there's a time for negativity (depending on what type.) and positivity and balance.
Knowing noone gives a damn what I subscribe to or like I will throw up a quote that's interesting to me SINCE we're talking about positivity serving on some basis as a predetermining factor on outcomes:
Amos Tversky and Daniel Kahnemanfrom the Undoing Project: (A book based on the results of two world known psychologists who did tons of tests on people's behaviors producing certain results)
-People predict by making up stories
-people predict very little and explain everything
-people live under uncertainty whether they like it or not
-people believe they can tell the future if they work hard enough
-people accept any explanation as long as it fits the facts
-the handwriting was on the all, it was just the ink that was invisible
-people often work hard to obtain information they already have, and avoid new knowledge
-Man is a deterministic device thrown into a probabilistic Universe. In this match, surprises are expected
-Everything that has already happened must have been inevitable.
FOR THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN THE HOLY BIBLE:
1. I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all.
2. For in much wisdom is much grief: and he that increaseth knowledge increaseth sorrow.
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PapaDoc223
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This I'd a dope thread. It's a fact that if all you do is have negative thoughts negative shit will happen to you as well as negative energy that follows you. If you have a positive attitude and add action to thing you want it will happen.
Guess I'll keep going in on this thread since this one inch of ice has shut down ATL.
When there is a war going on I guess it's good to address it positively?
When injustices happen at work, I guess it's good to accept it and look towards the better day INSTEAD of acknowledging the negative and challenging it by confronting it by any means (example:hiring a union or suing).
When people do not have rights I guess we should smile and say things are meant to be. When a woman is raped I guess we should remind her she still has life.
If a positive person fails at constructing buildings but never addresses his own faults YET a negative or not negative but a critical person challenges others, challenges thoughts and builds buildings that never fall then when you need a building built who will you call? Substitute building for a doctor or a lawyer. Do you really want a lawyer in court only saying positive things about the defendant?
No. Sometimes you want someone who can address the negative, show others its negative and force them to see it negatively so that a problem can be treated either with a negative response if it is needed or positive.
Yes. Let's all live in this world in denial thinking the only feeling that serves a purpose is a positive energy. This is much better than standing up for yourself or being honest on how a situation might make you feel or fighting. Why? Because others will fight for us when injustices hold power and will bow to you smiling. Yes. That makes since.
Again, I'm never in favor of negativity unless it is the best way to handle a situation. There's just more ways to handle things than fooling yourself that reacting to everything positively will bring back positive energy.
BUSINESS
One example doesn't disprove anything but billions have do: My tax lady fucked up my taxes and the IRS came after me. Ok. I handled it nicely with her and told her I understood. Cool. She did nothing no matter how many ways I talked to her and kept everything positive. Nothing was done and it got to two weeks passing and her not returning my calls. Once I threatened to turn her in she did everything I wanted her to do in one day.
State Farm. Wouldn't replace a roof that caved in on a property I owned and rented out. They said it wasn't their fault. I accepted it and moved positively in conversation because I don't like to argue. They did nothing to replace a $7,000 roof. At work a friend told me to threaten them (and there are no positive threats) to go to Georgia's Commissioner office. I wrote the commissioner and the office threatened a lawsuit against State Farm in my favor and State Farm apologized to me and paid for everything.
This doesn't change everything. But it worked for me. Call it whatever type of energy, I am happy.
When there is a war going on I guess it's good to address it positively?
When injustices happen at work, I guess it's good to accept it and look towards the better day INSTEAD of acknowledging the negative and challenging it by confronting it by any means (example:hiring a union or suing).
When people do not have rights I guess we should smile and say things are meant to be. When a woman is raped I guess we should remind her she still has life.
If a positive person fails at constructing buildings but never addresses his own faults YET a negative or not negative but a critical person challenges others, challenges thoughts and builds buildings that never fall then when you need a building built who will you call? Substitute building for a doctor or a lawyer. Do you really want a lawyer in court only saying positive things about the defendant?
No. Sometimes you want someone who can address the negative, show others its negative and force them to see it negatively so that a problem can be treated either with a negative response if it is needed or positive.
Yes. Let's all live in this world in denial thinking the only feeling that serves a purpose is a positive energy. This is much better than standing up for yourself or being honest on how a situation might make you feel or fighting. Why? Because others will fight for us when injustices hold power and will bow to you smiling. Yes. That makes since.
Again, I'm never in favor of negativity unless it is the best way to handle a situation. There's just more ways to handle things than fooling yourself that reacting to everything positively will bring back positive energy.
BUSINESS
One example doesn't disprove anything but billions have do: My tax lady fucked up my taxes and the IRS came after me. Ok. I handled it nicely with her and told her I understood. Cool. She did nothing no matter how many ways I talked to her and kept everything positive. Nothing was done and it got to two weeks passing and her not returning my calls. Once I threatened to turn her in she did everything I wanted her to do in one day.
State Farm. Wouldn't replace a roof that caved in on a property I owned and rented out. They said it wasn't their fault. I accepted it and moved positively in conversation because I don't like to argue. They did nothing to replace a $7,000 roof. At work a friend told me to threaten them (and there are no positive threats) to go to Georgia's Commissioner office. I wrote the commissioner and the office threatened a lawsuit against State Farm in my favor and State Farm apologized to me and paid for everything.
This doesn't change everything. But it worked for me. Call it whatever type of energy, I am happy.
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2stepz_ahead
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luke1733;c-9591389 said:
nigga?
a lawyer has a job to do. he can do his job with pride and try to be the best.
a raped woman can be thankful she wasn't killed or maimed. the act is terrible but could have been worse. chicks raped in africa get shot in the genitals or plastic melted on their genitals. raped with sticks and brooms and firearms.
thinks happen to everyone and everyone has a story.
will you choose to allow it to control or be thankful it wasn't worse?
I'll be wait for your response. @luke1733
be thankful ATL wasn't hit with a hurricane.
ole cant drive in one inch ass niggas
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2stepz_ahead;c-9591447 said:
Response is there in the edits at the bottom of the examples. Plus, You don't sound to positive in your message. Proof evident, contradict. Things are based on how you look at it, different perspective.
I'll add what you missed again lower in quotes, which makes this a TITANGRAPH.
Basic point is according to the "Secret" and staying true to that positive theory that states many ways to stay positive and the belief in staying positive by all means then YOU have to keep on that belief. Positive at all times. I can see where Positive at all times can lead to side effects and attract negatives.
If you believe in anything else then we actually aren't in disagreement.
Anyone who disagrees with me is negative.
But seriously,Such as when you say it is okay for some people according to their job to be negative. THat's what I've been saying the whole time.
What I subscribe to is there is a time to consider everything honestly and sometimes it is not necessary to put a positive spin on EVERYTHING, but when you can try-try to be positive. If you can be positive sometime and then be neutral or informative or sometimes only when absolutely necessary you are critical in acting negatively to others trying to take advantage of you (which sadly in this way positive people draw from negative people negative energy because to negative people they view positive people as easy to take advantage of because they don't fear any retribution) or when nothing else will work then THAT is exactly what I agree with being okay.
You say with passion that you don't include positivity in so many words in things like:-- except for during your job or except for when your defending yourself or except (insert anything that contributes to looking at it self-righteously). Actually your excuse is wrong. Regardless of one's job position your BELIEF states positivity at all times will yield positive results. My belief states under certain conditions this belief has not held true. It's been tested by the military and conducted by three countries randomly on people, but apparently proof on that doesn't mean much.
Here's what I wrote before:
"One example doesn't disprove anything but billions have do: My tax lady fucked up my taxes and the IRS came after me. Ok. I handled it nicely with her and told her I understood. Cool. She did nothing no matter how many ways I talked to her and kept everything positive. Nothing was done and it got to two weeks passing and her not returning my calls. Once I threatened to turn her in she did everything I wanted her to do in one day.
State Farm. Wouldn't replace a roof that caved in on a property I owned and rented out. They said it wasn't their fault. I accepted it and moved positively in conversation because I don't like to argue. They did nothing to replace a $7,000 roof. At work a friend told me to threaten them (and there are no positive threats) to go to Georgia's Commissioner office. I wrote the commissioner and the office threatened a lawsuit against State Farm in my favor and State Farm apologized to me and paid for everything.
This doesn't change everything. But it worked for me positively by reacting to them harshly and threatening. Call it whatever type of energy, I am happy."
examples of positivity not always working: performance based jobs, forcing people trying to cheat you or take advantage of you to act accordingly, confronting unjust laws or policies, saying stupid things to people like after their mother died "at least your Dad isn't dead too" or any situation where positivity might not be as useful as neutrality or telling people sometimes things aren't always going to get better. We have to deal with problems by first addressing there is a problem.
So basically, be positive unless a situation calls for you to be negative and most importantly be realistic and critical.
AND
Anyone who disagrees with me is negative.
hahaha
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