Ladies: So you only give your man sex 1-2 times a month and you expect faithfulness?

[2stepz_ahead]

now watch some chick come in hear and say something dumb like,,,,cheating is never ok

 

[haute]

She can't give you sex 1-3 times a month AND fuck Tyrone 3 times week

The pussy needs a rest

 

[JadaRoss]

sometimes...i say this strongly...sometimes when a female aint giving her man enough sex,another man is taking your time

 

[American.Loo]

there are many reasons why the sex can decline.

but as a woman, you gotta be realistic and know your man.

if, when you met this nigga, yall was fuckin 3 times a day, and a few years later you "too tired" to do it more than once a month, the end is near.

 

[nex gin]

now watch some chick come in hear and say something dumb like,,,,cheating is never ok

I guarantee somebody will say it.

So are women really expecting a man to stay w/ them for the rest of their lives and be neglected sexually?

 

[blakfyahking]

what about if wifey got the herp t/s?

you should be thankful that wifey don't want you to risk skidding across her braille during the time she is bumped up cause her valtrex game is low for the month

seems like she really care about you fam :shrugs

 

[Gnawledgeable]

Needs to be communication on how much each person wants it. I think even if both were satisfied with the right amount, somebody can still cheat anyway.

 

[American.Loo]

I guarantee somebody will say it.

So are women really expecting a man to stay w/ them for the rest of their lives and be neglected sexually?

believe it or not. some are. i made a similar thread to this recently.

have you seen "i think i love my wife"

dude was happy with his family ....except he was getting NO pussy. so it made him vulnerable to the advances of another woman.

 

[nex gin]

there are many reasons why the sex can decline.

but as a woman, you gotta be realistic and know your man.

if, when you met this nigga, yall was fuckin 3 times a day, and a few years later you "too tired" to do it more than once a month, the end is near.

I completely agree w/ this, but apparently a lot of women don't understand the concept of consistency. I've heard too many stories recently where dudes are completely fine w/ their s/o in all areas except for the bedroom. The lack of sex has driven them all to adultery. You can't give a nigga mind blowing sex 4 times a week while yall are dating then drop down to 1-2 every 2 months once he says "I Do".

 

[nex gin]

believe it or not. some are. i made a similar thread to this recently.

have you seen "i think i love my wife"

dude was happy with his family ....except he was getting NO pussy. so it made him vulnerable to the advances of another woman.

Yeah I saw that movie and the whole time I was looking at my wife like "you better be taking notes". Another woman will always be willing to do what yours won't.

I think what is bothering me is that I've been hearing a lot of women trying to justify their actions lately. They all say roughly the same thing.....emotional connection over physical connection. I completely understand that a deeper connection is required for a long lasting relationship. However, that doesn't negate the fact that we have physical needs as well. It's like once they got the man this "Mission Complete" alarm fires off in their heads which simultaneously cuts off the sex drive.

 

[blakfyahking]

believe it or not. some are. i made a similar thread to this recently.

have you seen "i think i love my wife"

dude was happy with his family ....except he was getting NO pussy. so it made him vulnerable to the advances of another woman.

that movie is the reason why I got divorced

 

[American.Loo]

Yeah I saw that movie and the whole time I was looking at my wife like "you better be taking notes". Another woman will always be willing to do what yours won't.

I think what is bothering me is that I've been hearing a lot of women trying to justify their actions lately. They all say roughly the same thing.....emotional connection over physical connection. It's like once they got the man this "Mission Complete" alarm fires off in their heads which simultaneously cuts off the sex drive.

yes that happens some times. they say men use love to get sex, women use sex to get love.

then you have other women that live for the 'emotional high' they get from connecting with a new person, which is impossible to sustain after you've been with your mate for a while because, lets face it, their just not new. so, if thats what she needs to feel any sexual attraction, shit wont end well.

 

[louis the great]

No point in being married then

 

[CMac]

Cheating is never right but if a women anit giving up the puss then that nigga needs to leave her ass. Women need to be more understanding to a mans needs and stop putting themselves over the entire relationship.

1-3 times a month anit shit, in a real committed relationship I should be getting it 3 times a week and on the off days some good head.

 

[American.Loo]

that movie is the reason why I got divorced

Tell us your story.

and by the way, i'm experiencing whats going on in this thread right now in my personal life. the sex has decreased dramatically as we try to rebuild our relationship. that, plus a baby has made it difficult. i held out for a while, but last thursday night this chick that likes me fucked the SHIT outta me. hadnt had a screw like that in a LOOOONG time. really didnt feel bad, either.

 

[nex gin]

She can't give you sex 1-3 times a month AND fuck Tyrone 3 times week

The pussy needs a rest

See.....now you trying to get a chick shot.

 

[King Erauno]

this is why im in no rush to get married. ive heard from many diff married people that sex declines. smh

 

[American.Loo]

its funny. things arent so simple as "well if your wife aint fuckin you, just divorce her"

what if this man is in a situation where he genuinely loves his wife, and doesnt want to break up his family over some pussy. i keep going back to the chris rock movie because you rarely see it depicted from the perspective of a genuinely good guy in a tough spot.

 

[nex gin]

Tell us your story.

and by the way, i'm experiencing whats going on in this thread right now in my personal life. the sex has decreased dramatically as we try to rebuild our relationship. that, plus a baby has made it difficult. i held out for a while, but last thursday night this chick that likes me fucked the SHIT outta me. hadnt had a screw like that in a LOOOONG time. really didnt feel bad, either.

I can't even feel bad for chicks any more when it comes to this. The fact that they aren't even concerned about their man's needs speaks volumes to the level of selfishness. I could understand if there was a legitimate medical reason, but outside of that....they asking for problems. I been in my relationship 15 years so I know exactly how you feeling bruh.

 

[CMac]

i wouldn't think it's out of the realm of possibilities that a man will stray if he ain't gettin none. but i would never do that. i mean where are these women that just stop liking sex all of a sudden. if my man is layin it down, why wouldn't i want dick all the time? i've been with my man for almost 7 years and married for 4, and i can not go more than a few days w/o sex. i mean the sex is great and a lot of fun, why on earth would i want to deprive myself? if he's not gettin any that means i'm not gettin any either. i can come home from a long day at work, be tired as hell, but you better believe i'll wake up out my sleep for that dick. we're still in love, but more importantly still in lust and that def helps keep the spark alive

That's some real talk Kai you sound like a good wife, if you can cook and clean that nigga married someone really special LOL. But on a serious note sadly a lot of women don't feel that way about sex and only think of themselves.