Ladies, please help Conflict come to terms with his homosexuality

[Punisher__]

A woman can't raise a man because she can't teach a young boy confidence like a man can. This is why its very important to choose wisely who you produce children with because the ultimate victim of the parents choices is the children, and if a young man doesn't see a stable man living life the right way, he'll be easily influenced by lesser "representations" of masculinity......

Semantics..........

 

[caddo man]

well.. From what I've seen a man can raise a great woman but a woman can't raise a man because Men aren't raised, they're made. You can take a male with stand up parents and he can still turn out to be a piece of shit or you can take a male that never had nothing in life, mom strung out and it's up to him to decide he wants better and tries to achieve it. That's when the male becomes a man. Also, you can have a girl who daddy didn't show her enough attention and she ends up out there. Or, you can take a girl and have daddy teach her some self worth and she'd be straight. It's not a diss or nothing it's just mothers tend to be the nurturing type and a man doesn't need to be nurtured he needs to learn the value of hard work and the sooner the better and a female needs to be loved and adored and be shown attention by the opposite sex so that she gets the real attention she deserves before she gets the fake attention from the first thing with a penis and gets rolled.

A man cannot raise a women. Case in point, Aunt flow! But I get what you saying and appreciate the input.

 

[goat334]

My mom did a good job....and many mothers have....so your statement isn't totally true.....

 

[betterthenu84]

I totally agree with you! I just had this discussion last night with my younger brother, there are just certain things a woman can not teach a man and thats just simple as that. We have no f8cking idea how to be a man so we can not raise a young man. Yes we can nurture him and teach him how to treat a young lady but to actually raise a man he needs a father. And this is exactly whats wrong with our community to many women thinking they can raise a young man. smh

FYI I hope everyone goes on Showtime and watches the documentary "Diary of a Tired Black Man"

 

[iAMNOVA]

A woman can't raise a man because she can't teach a young boy confidence like a man can. This is why its very important to choose wisely who you produce children with because the ultimate victim of the parents choices is the children, and if a young man doesn't see a stable man living life the right way, he'll be easily influenced by lesser "representations" of masculinity......

co fucking sign

 

[iAMNOVA]

I totally agree with you! I just had this discussion last night with my younger brother, there are just certain things a woman can not teach a man and thats just simple as that. We have no f8cking idea how to be a man so we can not raise a young man. Yes we can nurture him and teach him how to treat a young lady but to actually raise a man he needs a father. And this is exactly whats wrong with our community to many women thinking they can raise. smh

FYI I hope everyone goes on Showtime and watches the documentary "Diary of a Tired Black Man"

i saw it on netflix...it was aight...

 

[Punisher__]

My mom did a good job....and many mothers have....so your statement isn't totally true.....

This is why semantics is important.

Generally speaking, this thread may be valid.

But there are exceptions to every rule, and this one is no different. Frankly, I'm offended.

 

[nuri]

I totally agree with you! I just had this discussion last night with my younger brother, there are just certain things a woman can not teach a man and thats just simple as that. We have no f8cking idea how to be a man so we can not raise a young man. Yes we can nurture him and teach him how to treat a young lady but to actually raise a man he needs a father. And this is exactly whats wrong with our community to many women thinking they can raise a young man. smh

FYI I hope everyone goes on Showtime and watches the documentary "Diary of a Tired Black Man"

Talkin bout this bullshit?

 

[goat334]

This is why semantics is important.

Generally speaking, this thread may be valid.

But there are exceptions to every rule, and this one is no different. Frankly, I'm offended.

I never under estimate or doubt people.......My mom raised me, so I don't know what the hell they talking about.......

 

[betterthenu84]

i saw it on netflix...it was aight...

I mean it wasn't anything major but the points they brought up were so true especially about black women raising young men, just like sdrawkcabseh said "if a young man doesn't see a stable man living life the right way, he'll be easily influenced by lesser "representations" of masculinity". Its the truth! How can I as a woman teach my son to be man that doesn't even make sense. Thats like a rabbit teaching a lion how to roar.

 

[middleman]

I totally agree with you! I just had this discussion last night with my younger brother, there are just certain things a woman can not teach a man and thats just simple as that. We have no f8cking idea how to be a man so we can not raise a young man. Yes we can nurture him and teach him how to treat a young lady but to actually raise a man he needs a father. And this is exactly whats wrong with our community to many women thinking they can raise a young man. smh

FYI I hope everyone goes on Showtime and watches the documentary "Diary of a Tired Black Man"

I saw that last night....I don't condone hitting a women for anything other than self-defense, but had dude touched her I would've completely understood

 

[betterthenu84]

@Nuri yes the acting was HORRIBLE but the points they brought up was sooo spot on

 

[powerman 5000]

This is why semantics is important.

Generally speaking, this thread may be valid.

But there are exceptions to every rule, and this one is no different. Frankly, I'm offended.

I agree with this. TS is pretty set on this not ever happening ever in life like it's impossible when in reality it probably happens more often than any of us realize. Plus I'm a believer in the old saying, " it takes a whole village to raise a child." Now what happens when your village is beat to shit? What hope does one have then? Where would we all be if we all only knew what our parents taught us? No learning on your own, no teachers, no leaders?

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

I actually own "diary of a tired black man". The film does a great job of exploring what good black man experience not only in relationships but also in society. Fathers are important because historically they're meant to set the standard, and lead the family............

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

I mean it wasn't anything major but the points they brought up were so true especially about black women raising young men, just like sdrawkcabseh said "if a young man doesn't see a stable man living life the right way, he'll be easily influenced by lesser "representations" of masculinity". Its the truth! How can I as a woman teach my son to be man that doesn't even make sense. Thats like a rabbit teaching a lion how to roar.

Cosign............

 

[Punisher__]

I agree with this. TS is pretty set on this not ever happening ever in life like it's impossible when in reality it probably happens more often than any of us realize. Plus I'm a believer in the old saying, " it takes a whole village to raise a child." Now what happens when your village is beat to shit? What hope does one have then? Where would we all be if we all only knew what our parents taught us? No learning on your own, no teachers, no leaders?

Basically.

If you ask my mother right now about raising two boys by herself, she'll tell you EMPHATICALLY, "I don't know how I did it." But she did it...and many other single mothers have done it, too.

This thread (and some of the comments in here) is not only offensive, but it's incredibly condescending...

It's not the gender of the parent...it's how good they are at their job.

 

[goat334]

Basically.

If you ask my mother right now about raising two boys by herself, she'll tell you EMPHATICALLY, "I don't know how I did it." But she did it...and many other single mothers have done it, too.

This thread (and some of the comments in here) is not only offensive, but it's incredibly condescending...

It's not the gender of the parent...it's how good they are at their job.

I don't get offended.....just let me know that niggas don't know what they're talking about......No Menendez Brothers

 

[betterthenu84]

I actually own "diary of a tired black man". The film does a great job of exploring what good black man experience not only in relationships but also in society. Fathers are important because historically they're meant to set the standard, and lead the family............

It really did, its rare to see movies like that were men aren't bashing women but actually expressing how they really feel about women and how women treat their men. It was one point were this African guy said American women don't submit to our men. It is soooo true we don't it goes back to the Willie Lynch letter where they killed the strong black male in front of the pregnant mother and son to cripple the son and teach the mother to not to let her son be strong....as u can see over time its generated a mindset that women don't need men and that will never be true. We are the rib without men there would be no us.We're not built to lead we are built to support and its just that simple.

 

[aneed123]

It can be done. u just gotta have discipline and other male role models to help. there are things moms wont be able to teach

 

[caddo man]

It can be done. u just gotta have discipline and other male role models to help. there are things moms wont be able to teach

With the help of a man can a woman truly raise him correctly. This is almost a /thread post but ummmmmmmmmmm............................................

Lets keep the party going!