Ladies, please help Conflict come to terms with his homosexuality

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We got to remember, this came out at a time where it wasnt fashionable to downgrade niggaz (u member? I member)

now it seems so right. and i hate to say that its because of Obama, but it prob is.

The first time i seen this, i was in the air force, and kinda was in a zone where i WISHED i was around niggaz.

But at 34, this makes so much sense.

I dont want to be around no niggaz nor no dumb azz black womens.

it dont do nothing for my life. and i got a daughter now. how else am i gonna break the cycle of ignorance unless I try to raise her the right way.

and that dont mean raising her the WHITE way. It means..... AWWW SCREW IT!

ITS 2010. We know the right and wrong.
 
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Cleveland7venty6;362753 said:
We got to remember, this came out at a time where it wasnt fashionable to downgrade niggaz (u member? I member)

now it seems so right. and i hate to say that its because of Obama, but it prob is.

The first time i seen this, i was in the air force, and kinda was in a zone where i WISHED i was around niggaz.

But at 34, this makes so much sense.

I dont want to be around no niggaz nor no dumb azz black womens.

it dont do nothing for my life. and i got a daughter now. how else am i gonna break the cycle of ignorance unless I try to raise her the right way.

and that dont mean raising her the WHITE way. It means..... AWWW SCREW IT!

ITS 2010. We know the right and wrong.

Preach.. It means the right way
 
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I had discussion the other day with my wife about bow a women cant raise a man and vice versa. She was down with everything I said. She even threw in some good points.

So i took the same convo to my homegirls at work. Chicks lost they minds when I said that shit. BTW they are all single mothers. They started saying how men raised by there mothers are best and how they would rather be with a man raised by a single parent. So I chalked it up to them chicks being sensitive to the situation.

So since I know that half of the IC were raised in a single family home or are single parents themselves. Do you think my statement is true about a woman not being able to raise a man and a man being able to raise a women better or equal than the status quo.
 
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my mama raised me
i don't think that's the best way to raise a lil boy
i ain't have no positive male role models and discipline was non existent
i mean
when you bigger than your mother when you're like 9 what's a whoopin to you?
 
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MOST women cant raise a man...they raise mamas boys...Like Chris Rock said when talkin about women saying they dont need a man to raise a kid..."You can drive a car with ur feet if u want to,that dont make it a good fuckin idea"
 
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i had both my parents growing up...theyre still married to this day. i dont think a woman can raise a man like a man can, because a little boy needs a man to set the example of how he should act/become. just my opinion though
 
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My Momma raised me just fine.

Shit she was the only one around to teach me how to properly tie a tie.

Besides it ain't like niggas had a choice.
 
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nuri;653556 said:
My Momma raised me just fine.
Shit she was the only one around to teach me how to properly tie a tie.
Besides it ain't like niggas had a choice.

Now when you say just fine do you think a man, any man, in your life would have helped in your adult development. Because parenting is preparation for when you are out the house.
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Plus you gotta consider the alternative.

Most of the time it's better that the father no be a part of their lives.

Children might turn out way worse with an abusive, disrespectful, dead beat, alcoholic in the picture.
 
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A woman can't raise a man because she can't teach a young boy confidence like a man can. This is why its very important to choose wisely who you produce children with because the ultimate victim of the parents choices is the children, and if a young man doesn't see a stable man living life the right way, he'll be easily influenced by lesser "representations" of masculinity......
 
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well.. From what I've seen a man can raise a great woman but a woman can't raise a man because Men aren't raised, they're made. You can take a male with stand up parents and he can still turn out to be a piece of shit or you can take a male that never had nothing in life, mom strung out and it's up to him to decide he wants better and tries to achieve it. That's when the male becomes a man. Also, you can have a girl who daddy didn't show her enough attention and she ends up out there. Or, you can take a girl and have daddy teach her some self worth and she'd be straight. It's not a diss or nothing it's just mothers tend to be the nurturing type and a man doesn't need to be nurtured he needs to learn the value of hard work and the sooner the better and a female needs to be loved and adored and be shown attention by the opposite sex so that she gets the real attention she deserves before she gets the fake attention from the first thing with a penis and gets rolled.
 
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My mother raised both me (and my brother) by herself.

But cases like mine and Nuri's are what you'd call exceptions to the rule.

For the most part, I have to c/s this thread.
 
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caddo man;653582 said:
Now when you say just fine do you think a man, any man, in your life would have helped in your adult development. Because parenting is preparation for when you are out the house.
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I've had a couple.
Mostly male friends of my Momma's.
But my Momma was the main one preparing me for life outside the nest.

Heh.. You know, people say this and that about how a woman can't raise a man, but when a woman raises 5 kids on her own in a small 3 bedroom apartment while the man runs away from his responsibility, one tends to think a statement like that is bullshit.
 
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nuri;653604 said:
Plus you gotta consider the alternative.
Most of the time it's better that the father no be a part of their lives.
Children might turn out way worse with an abusive, disrespectful, dead beat, alcoholic in the picture.

I see what you saying but I tell you this. In my case my pops was a drug addict, alcoholic, always broke, always late fool, that until he got remarried never was around alot. But his father was always around him growing up. My grandfather told him to never touch a women in a violent way irregardless of the facts. I respect that about him to this day. And his flaws have made me a better person because I see what not to do. My thing is a man in your life can tell you how to deal with a situation a women would do totally different. Like dealing with a women that wants to fight you. Hell even peeing. Cheerios in the tiolet bowl only tell you how to pee straight. Youre pops tell you to shake your shit before you put it up. A woman might tell you to wipe if off. Ya feels me.
 
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