Ladies, If Your Baby's Daddy Ain't About Shit.......

[StillFaggyAF]

i can't tell if lechic is trolling or not

 

[Ajackson17]

This a man who wants to achieve dreams not a man who doesn't or cares for one.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

why not support the niggas thats doing something with they life....

fukk you support a hobo ass nigga for?

did shit get that hard for some of you chicks....maybe you aint that fine if you gotta settle for that.

I don't get these feelings? hobo niggas need love too. why the hate?

Don't tell me that Charolette was on some, "Power Girl," Wonder Woman," "Supergirl," "Storm," "Rogue," shit and had her cape on way too tight and she was on some trying save unworthy niggas shit. Rex is laughing his muthafucking ass at the thought of Charolette trying to convince some gangbang nigga from Grape to get his GED, then go to the local CC over dinner, shit is hiliarious.

every black man needs a strong black woman to hold him down.

if he ain't got his G.E.D, I will help him get it. if he ain't got his masters, I will support him.

sorry yall ain't used to domesticed women.

yall be coming home to a microwave meal. stop hatin

damn time is hard....

if you a grown woman and gotta build a nigga.

ole dr frankenstain ass

 

[Lurker6]

HOH movement still as strong as ever on here....if a chick dont fuck with a dude cuz he doesnt make a lot of money or is going through hard times, the bitch aint shit but a gold diggin ho. If a chick is with a dude that doesnt have much going for him but she still stays with him cuz she loves him for w/e reason, shes a dumb ass bird

 

[Crude_]

aint-shit men are usually good at charming people, drawing attention and getting what they want. a lot of women find them fun to be around.....at first. thats how they draw females in, in the first place.

whereas guys who are on top of their shit, are real with their lady, and dont need attention everywhere they go dont present themselves as much of a challenge and thus arent as fun to the lady who doesnt feel like she has someone's bullshit to keep up with or drama she might subconsciously crave.

thing is tho, there are just as many men who fall for the female counterpart. and when the nice, humble, responsible dude is struggling to keep his relationship balanced with some bird, he doesnt catch as much shit for being a blind idiot as a female does.

also has a lot to do with an individual's upbringing and life experiences. that goes for both the aint-shit spouse and the responsible spouse and the shit they choose to deal with.

^^^ Well said and quoted for emphasis

 

[Maximus Rex]

why not support the niggas thats doing something with they life....

fukk you support a hobo ass nigga for?

did shit get that hard for some of you chicks....maybe you aint that fine if you gotta settle for that.

I don't get these feelings? hobo niggas need love too. why the hate?

Don't tell me that Charolette was on some, "Power Girl," Wonder Woman," "Supergirl," "Storm," "Rogue," shit and had her cape on way too tight and she was on some trying save unworthy niggas shit. Rex is laughing his muthafucking ass at the thought of Charolette trying to convince some gangbang nigga from Grape to get his GED, then go to the local CC over dinner, shit is hiliarious.

every black man needs a strong black woman to hold him down.

if he ain't got his G.E.D, I will help him get it. if he ain't got his masters, I will support him.

sorry yall ain't used to domesticed women.

yall be coming home to a microwave meal. stop hatin

Charlie, how are you going to compare a high school dropout nigga to a dude that's going for a post graduate degree? You're not a dumb chick, so you can't sit here and tell me that the two gentlemen you speak of are on completely divergent paths in life and one of definitely more deserving of suport then the other.

If a nigga is 23 or 24 years old hasn't gotten his G.E.D. of his own volition, he's doing it wrong and is has a lot of character flaws. Also, Charlie, (and correct ole Rex if he's wrong,) you strike me as a extraordinarily feminine "girly girly" type of chick so I find it extraordinarily hard to believe you would even be attracted to this type of dude for the following reasons:

1) Girly girlys need strong dudes to counter their emotional tendancies. You need them to be the pillar of strength in your life. The rationale being, "If this nigga's life is in such a state of disrrary now, what's going to happen when I need help with something? Ooooo huh huh, I can do bad by my damnself."

2) You'll slowly start to perceive this nigga as being weak and nothing more than a "manchild." Once you perceive the nigga as being weak, you're going to become resentful, when you start become resentful, you'll start to disrespect the nigga with the disrespect gradually worsening.

Charolette, I'm sure that pretty face of yours, those luscious lips, that amazing rack and those savory meals have gotten you many things in life, shoes, purses, bill payments, and etc, but regardless of how pretty you are, how inviting your lips maybe, the greatness of your rack, fact your can cook the fuck out of boneless ham isn't enough to motivate nigga to get his life together.

 

[deadeye]

Charolette, I'm sure that pretty face of yours, those luscious lips, that amazing rack and those savory meals have gotten you many things in life, shoes, purses, bill payments, and etc, but regardless of how pretty you are, how inviting your lips maybe, the greatness of your rack, the fact you can cook the fuck out of a boneless ham isn't enough to motivate nigga to get his life together.[/b]

@lechic

Charlie, I'm ready to turn my life around and become a better man.

 

[Purr]

smh we black women can't win with yall.

we ready to grow a nigga like a beautiful rose blossoming from the concrete. and there is still strife?!

what the blimey fuck?! word to @struggle_cat

 

[Ajackson17]

smh we black women can't win with yall.

we ready to grow a nigga like a beautiful rose blossoming from the concrete. and there is still strife?!

what the blimey fuck?! word to @struggle_cat

Black men cannot be surpassed cause they some independent queens ;

 

[Maximus Rex]

smh we black women can't win with yall.

we ready to grow a nigga like a beautiful rose blossoming from the concrete. and there is still strife?!

what the blimey fuck?! word to @struggle_cat

Okay, I'm going to actually entertain the thought you're actually into mothering, babying, ,coddling, and dominating, (and that's want it boils down to, you want to dominate a muthafucka,). Most chicks don't want to and most importantly, DON'T KNOW HOW TO, make a dude into a better person. If dude allows a woman to do this, the woman will wonder why the man has allowed himself to be emasculated so. It's analogous to why a pimp can't fuck his hoes and hound them for pussy, once he does that he's nothing more than a common trick. Women are with men for their protection, security, instruction, and to a lesser degree sex. If a woman has to do a "Steve Austin," and rebuild a nigga into something that he was better than what he was before, then that relationship is headed for disaster.

 

[Go figure]

smh we black women can't win with yall.

we ready to grow a nigga like a beautiful rose blossoming from the concrete. and there is still strife?!

what the blimey fuck?! word to @struggle_cat

Okay, I'm going to actually entertain the thought you're actually into mothering, babying, ,coddling, and dominating, (and that's want it boils down to, you want to dominate a muthafucka,). Most chicks don't want to and most importantly, DON'T KNOW HOW TO, make a dude into a better person. If dude allows a woman to do this, the woman will wonder why the man has allowed himself to be emasculated so. It's analogous to why a pimp can't fuck his hoes and hound them for pussy, once he does that he's nothing more than a common trick. Women are with men for their protection, security, instruction, and to a lesser degree sex. If a woman has to do a "Steve Austin," and rebuild a nigga into something that he was better than what he was before, then that relationship is headed for disaster.

thing is tho, some people (man or woman) have a need to feel needed. personally i see that as a mental disorder but it has a lot to do with the way u grew up. some people purposely (yet subconsciously) deal with pieces of shit because a) it makes them feel better about themselves and/or b) they want someone who needs them. it makes them feel important. this goes for the lady who's working 2 jobs while the bf stays unemployed for no reasonable reason and the man who's holding down the fam while wifey cant help but stay out all nite every night.

some ppl are just more comfortable in that situation because over time and experience they've been wired that way. just like a woman who goes from one abusive man to the next. she will probably respect a man who beats her ass before a man who treats her like a queen because her reality is that an abusive man is a real man whereas a gentleman is weak.

of course there are variations to all reasoning and circumstances but one's perspective and where theyre coming from is the underlying factor in all the choices they make.

people who take abuse from one spouse to the next are probably just as mentally handicapped as the person distributing the abuse.

 

[BelovedAfeni]

then why were you cooking him savory meals, buying him clothes, let him drive your car, (to which he was sporting the next chick around in, on top off not refilling the tank,) encouraging him to pursue his goals and get some "act right," in his life, played "step mama," to his other kids, lent him a empathetic ear when he was down, let him blast off in your weave or face, tittie fucked him, gave him anal on his birthday and that menage action with your cute, chesty, nice ass having best friend of yours for Christmas.

Most importantly, if your child's father is such an uncaring, selfish, inattentive, immature, irresponsible muthafucka with a little dick who rarely, if ever gave you an orgasm, why did you continue to suck and fuck this little dick having non-orgasm giving nigga and let him bust off in that thang raw, not once, not twice, not thrice, but to ad infinitum?

 

[Purr]

smh we black women can't win with yall.

we ready to grow a nigga like a beautiful rose blossoming from the concrete. and there is still strife?!

what the blimey fuck?! word to @struggle_cat

Why you think I changed my s/n @lechic? The struggle is real out chea. Can't win for nothing smh.

I love your sn @struggle_cat I was paying homage to where you're from cause yall say blimey fuck right?

 

[twatgetta]

To be fair, a lotta times it's not the baby daddy that ain't about shit, it's the baby mama

 

[dwade206]

..and you just had to mention the dick was little. Pause nigga

 

[blacktux]

Charlie in rare form in this here thread.

 

[ImTheKangRoundHere]

women love aint shit niggaz.when a woman is full of shit herself,she will marry and shack up with a aint shit nigga

you are who you attract

 

[alvarez_313]

I've found that lots of women (black and white) love having a man that they have to "fix" or nurture.. For them it seems like they take it on like if they change him for the better it's some sort of accomplishment.. My question for them is ok after you've "fixed" him, now what? Maybe getting an opportunity to focus on someone else's fucked up life gives them a reprise from focusing on their own? Of course this doesn't apply to all women but I've always been perplexed by the one's that are like this..

 

[Purr]

I've found that lots of women (black and white) love having a man that they have to "fix" or nurture.. For them it seems like they take it on like if they change him for the better it's some sort of accomplishment.. My question for them is ok after you've "fixed" him, now what? Maybe getting an opportunity to focus on someone else's fucked up life gives them a reprise from focusing on their own? Of course this doesn't apply to all women but I've always been perplexed by the one's that are like this..

Stop being jealous!

 

[alvarez_313]

LMAO jealous of what though? I'm not saying don't support someone you care about, I'm saying don't classify dudes as being "ain't shit" because you chose to support the wrong ones.. Some women will spend 10 years waiting on a dude to "get it together" then in year 11 when he leaves her suddenly "niggas ain't shit"..