aint-shit men are usually good at charming people, drawing attention and getting what they want. a lot of women find them fun to be around.....at first. thats how they draw females in, in the first place.
whereas guys who are on top of their shit, are real with their lady, and dont need attention everywhere they go dont present themselves as much of a challenge and thus arent as fun to the lady who doesnt feel like she has someone's bullshit to keep up with or drama she might subconsciously crave.
thing is tho, there are just as many men who fall for the female counterpart. and when the nice, humble, responsible dude is struggling to keep his relationship balanced with some bird, he doesnt catch as much shit for being a blind idiot as a female does.
also has a lot to do with an individual's upbringing and life experiences. that goes for both the aint-shit spouse and the responsible spouse and the shit they choose to deal with.
whereas guys who are on top of their shit, are real with their lady, and dont need attention everywhere they go dont present themselves as much of a challenge and thus arent as fun to the lady who doesnt feel like she has someone's bullshit to keep up with or drama she might subconsciously crave.
thing is tho, there are just as many men who fall for the female counterpart. and when the nice, humble, responsible dude is struggling to keep his relationship balanced with some bird, he doesnt catch as much shit for being a blind idiot as a female does.
also has a lot to do with an individual's upbringing and life experiences. that goes for both the aint-shit spouse and the responsible spouse and the shit they choose to deal with.
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