Ladies how do you feel about your man watching porn in a relationship

[Kai]

@ kai is awesome.

Bro she is lying!

Hey if you say so. It really makes no difference what you believe. My man knows the real and that's all that matters

Just cuz you never managed to have it like that doesn't mean other men can't

*raises hand*

Ms.Kai I got a question.

Ok so since Mr.Kai has this "freedom", what is his limits? I mean can he REALLY do what he wants like bring another broad to have a 3sum wit you?

Or is that crossing the boundaries and the safe word "Pineapples juice" has to be used?

I really have absolutely no sexual attraction to women so we don't do threesomes. I trust him completely, so all he has to do is be safe which he would be doing anyway even if he was single.

He's up front and honest with any other woman, like they know he's married and he's not going anywhere. You'd be surprised how many women that alone scares away, like they'd be cool with it if he was cheating on his wife but the complete honesty rattles them I guess.

Funny story that's kind of related, he was giving a buddy a ride home from the gym and he (the friend) was looking for his phone in the glove compartment my husband has some magnums in there. Anyway I was on the phone with him and his friend didn't realize this and was like "all I see is the rubbers" and realized I was on the phone after he said that, and he was all apologetic like he had just dry snitched on my husband. I was laughing and my husband was like she doesn't give a fuck lol

I mean I can see how other people might not get our set up, but it works for us. I think my background makes it easier for me to understand that his biological urges as a man are just that, and that they have nothing to do with our love and commitment towards each other.

I'm very secure in myself and what I mean to him, so I don't feel any jealousy or threatened by any other woman. I'm not going to bind him to some unrealistic notion of monogamy that is just not natural simply because our society says that's what we should do

 

[Kai]

@Kai

You ever consider making a video series with some 1-3 minute video clips of various relationship advise?

Think about it.

I'll pass, this works for us and we are perfect for each other. I can't and don't want to tell anyone else what to do in there relationships. Only advice I'd give is to be honest and open with each other about your needs and wants.

 

[jono]

Kai story isn't unique. She's muslim and comes from a predominately muslim country (last I checked).

Why do you think these hotep niggas always trying to convert women to islam while eating pork chops and ham sandwiches?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

how you niggas gonna feel when you rubbin one out....she upstairs vibrating on out

 

[warren98]

how you niggas gonna feel when you rubbin one out....she upstairs vibrating on out

I'll feel 2steps_ahead of her

 

[NeighborhoodNomad.]

@Kai

You ever consider making a video series with some 1-3 minute video clips of various relationship advise?

Think about it.

I'll pass, this works for us and we are perfect for each other. I can't and don't want to tell anyone else what to do in there relationships. Only advice I'd give is to be honest and open with each other about your needs and wants.

I respect that.

 

[fortyacres]

depends how much you watch , if you gat saved tabs on your laptop and phone , yeah you doing too much.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

depends how much you watch , if you gat saved tabs on your laptop and phone , yeah you doing too much.

Damn I guess I'm doin too much

 

[mike06]

@Kai

You ever consider making a video series with some 1-3 minute video clips of various relationship advise?

Think about it.

I'll pass, this works for us and we are perfect for each other. I can't and don't want to tell anyone else what to do in there relationships. Only advice I'd give is to be honest and open with each other about your needs and wants.

wow this is interesting.....so if you don't mind me asking when was the last time he stepped out?....or does the fact that you give him the ultimate hall pass as well as still handlin your own bizness even make him want to step out?

 

[Kai]

@Kai

You ever consider making a video series with some 1-3 minute video clips of various relationship advise?

Think about it.

I'll pass, this works for us and we are perfect for each other. I can't and don't want to tell anyone else what to do in there relationships. Only advice I'd give is to be honest and open with each other about your needs and wants.

wow this is interesting.....so if you don't mind me asking when was the last time he stepped out?....or does the fact that you give him the ultimate hall pass as well as still handlin your own bizness even make him want to step out?

I haven't asked him recently, but as far as a I know it's been a while. The sentiment at the end of your post is pretty apt, him being able to do whatever wants has made him exceptionally picky actually

He be passing on hoes more than not. Now imagine this vs guys that are supposed to be strictly monogamous, when let's be real they're most likely still cheating anyway. In that situation those guys gotta take whatever opportunity presents themselves.

So it'd be the not so cute chick at the club cuz your girl is out of town and it'll be your only chance to do something without getting caught. Beggars can't really be choosers.

And he doesn't play games with these chicks. If they trying it with the mind games, or think he's gonna be chasing them, he's quick to go ghost on them lol

 

[Qiv_Owan]

depends how much you watch , if you gat saved tabs on your laptop and phone , yeah you doing too much.

Nigga got a whole 64gb memory card dedicated to shesfreaky

Daily filling it up

Dont get around to watchin all the time tho

 

[deadeye]

He's up front and honest with any other woman, like they know he's married and he's not going anywhere. You'd be surprised how many women that alone scares away, like they'd be cool with it if he was cheating on his wife but the complete honesty rattles them I guess.

They're not scared per se, just kind of fucks their head up because they don't know how to react to the fact that they're not getting over on another woman.

Basically takes away the competitive/cattiness aspect for them.

 

[dwade206]

@ kai is awesome.

Bro she is lying!

Hey if you say so. It really makes no difference what you believe. My man knows the real and that's all that matters

Just cuz you never managed to have it like that doesn't mean other men can't

*raises hand*

Ms.Kai I got a question.

Ok so since Mr.Kai has this "freedom", what is his limits? I mean can he REALLY do what he wants like bring another broad to have a 3sum wit you?

Or is that crossing the boundaries and the safe word "Pineapples juice" has to be used?

I really have absolutely no sexual attraction to women so we don't do threesomes. I trust him completely, so all he has to do is be safe which he would be doing anyway even if he was single.

He's up front and honest with any other woman, like they know he's married and he's not going anywhere. You'd be surprised how many women that alone scares away, like they'd be cool with it if he was cheating on his wife but the complete honesty rattles them I guess.

Funny story that's kind of related, he was giving a buddy a ride home from the gym and he (the friend) was looking for his phone in the glove compartment my husband has some magnums in there. Anyway I was on the phone with him and his friend didn't realize this and was like "all I see is the rubbers" and realized I was on the phone after he said that, and he was all apologetic like he had just dry snitched on my husband. I was laughing and my husband was like she doesn't give a fuck lol

I mean I can see how other people might not get our set up, but it works for us. I think my background makes it easier for me to understand that his biological urges as a man are just that, and that they have nothing to do with our love and commitment towards each other.

I'm very secure in myself and what I mean to him, so I don't feel any jealousy or threatened by any other woman. I'm not going to bind him to some unrealistic notion of monogamy that is just not natural simply because our society says that's what we should do

...bitch is official. Salute.

 

[CapitalB]

I really don't give a damn, but my man gets pussy on demand plus he can fuck who ever he wants irl too, so he really don't give much of a fuck about porn. More than anything we probably watch it together to set the mood or he'll watch it while he gets some head

fuck is wrong wit him!!?

i get pussy on demand.. i pretty much fuck who i want and ILL NEVER GIVE UP MY PORN!!!! lol

 

[CapitalB]

@ kai is awesome.

Bro she is lying!

Hey if you say so. It really makes no difference what you believe. My man knows the real and that's all that matters

Just cuz you never managed to have it like that doesn't mean other men can't

*raises hand*

Ms.Kai I got a question.

Ok so since Mr.Kai has this "freedom", what is his limits? I mean can he REALLY do what he wants like bring another broad to have a 3sum wit you?

Or is that crossing the boundaries and the safe word "Pineapples juice" has to be used?

I really have absolutely no sexual attraction to women so we don't do threesomes. I trust him completely, so all he has to do is be safe which he would be doing anyway even if he was single.

He's up front and honest with any other woman, like they know he's married and he's not going anywhere. You'd be surprised how many women that alone scares away, like they'd be cool with it if he was cheating on his wife but the complete honesty rattles them I guess.

Funny story that's kind of related, he was giving a buddy a ride home from the gym and he (the friend) was looking for his phone in the glove compartment my husband has some magnums in there. Anyway I was on the phone with him and his friend didn't realize this and was like "all I see is the rubbers" and realized I was on the phone after he said that, and he was all apologetic like he had just dry snitched on my husband. I was laughing and my husband was like she doesn't give a fuck lol

I mean I can see how other people might not get our set up, but it works for us. I think my background makes it easier for me to understand that his biological urges as a man are just that, and that they have nothing to do with our love and commitment towards each other.

I'm very secure in myself and what I mean to him, so I don't feel any jealousy or threatened by any other woman. I'm not going to bind him to some unrealistic notion of monogamy that is just not natural simply because our society says that's what we should do

lol u sound like my child's mother when it comes to me havin other bitches..

 

[Ol Jay's]

only chick cool with her guy fuckin other chicks are those that fuck off themselves

Whether it's e-fucking, sending nudes, or selling pussy

 

[CapitalB]

only chick cool with her guy fuckin other chicks are those that fuck off themselves

Whether it's e-fucking, sending nudes, or selling pussy

u may have a point..

but open relationships are the best..

niggas be jus as delusional as these bitches when it comes to fuckin..

i value a bitch's respect more then i do her pussy..

a bitch will give her pussy to anyone..

so yall can keep thinkin these bitches is only fuckin u and only 2 before u if u want to. lol

 

[MsSouthern]

So @Kai are you ok with him saying "I'm not coming home cause I'm with *insert girl name* tonight " what if you want him home with you ????

Do you ask questions about where he is or who he is with or are you not allowed to ?

I have a friend who dated a guy for years. He told her he would give her 6 good nights and the 7th she wasn't allowed to ask about

Worked for her .... could never be me

 

[mryounggun]

Is it just me or you been MIA for a while @MsSouthern?

 

[MsSouthern]

Is it just me or you been MIA for a while @MsSouthern?

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