Ladies Be Honest You Ain't Gotta Lie: Spinoff from Kat's Thread

[VulcanRaven]

so this quote made me think of some shit i've heard from females before...apparently if they care about you, some are nervous about showing you how sexual they really want to be ...but have no trouble at all being that slut, metaphorically speaking, for a random nigga...i don't know about some of ya'll, but I want my woman to smut herself out for me...i'd think less of her if she didn't and wasn't open about shit she really wanted to do sexually...so ladies can ya'll explain this shit....what sense does it make to hold back on freaky shit you know you want to do?

This that shit for the reason why I don't respect most women and why you can not trust these hoes.So bitches will give their all to please a man that they don't give a damn about,but will hold back on some prude shit for a man that they actually care for? Women don't use any logic at all in their lives which is why they always end up in a fucked up situation dealing with men.It can not be explained because it does not make sense.

 

[VulcanRaven]

Because some men think that a freaky woman=ho/slut.

Most women are hoes/sluts which is why they lie about their past.If the shoe fits you know.

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

Kai is always the first female to come in these kind of threads to remind us all that she is the perfect woman.

We get it.

Took the words right outta my mouth. SMH. Shit is annoying as hell.

 

[Niggersauce]

LOL at dudes being salty at kai let her be great...

Threads and ideals like this is why i always say age dont mean shit. If you 30 plus and still hiding aspects of yourself from someone you claim to love to the point that you arent enjoying aspects of your own relationship you not mature.

If a dude cant accept you for the person you are and the past you carry there are plenty more that will. If your past is that fucked up that no one will take you seriously then thats your fault and maybe you arent as good a catch as you think yourself to be.

There is no excuse for a grown ass woman to be sexually open with a sidepeice yet be closed off with someone she claims to love. Thats some selfish/sad shit and anyone that really thinks like this needs to grow the fuck up.

 

[blackrain]

This thread makes guys look stupid in general, smh.

there's a few posts in this thread that make the niggas who posted them look stupid

 

[LPast]

LOL at dudes being salty at kai let her be great...

Threads and ideals like this is why i always say age dont mean shit. If you 30 plus and still hiding aspects of yourself from someone you claim to love to the point that you arent enjoying aspects of your own relationship you not mature.

If a dude cant accept you for the person you are and the past you carry there are plenty more that will. If your past is that fucked up that no one will take you seriously then thats your fault and maybe you arent as good a catch as you think yourself to be.

There is no excuse for a grown ass woman to be sexually open with a sidepeice yet be closed off with someone she claims to love. Thats some selfish/sad shit and anyone that really thinks like this needs to grow the fuck up.

Best post in the thread. Even the thread starter doesn't get it. It aint about her body count our how she smuts herself out. People start relationships on dishonest notions and then want people to accept them when they are ready to sure their true selves...

Good post.

 

[blackrain]

Best post in the thread. Even the thread starter doesn't get it. It aint about her body count our how she smuts herself out. People start relationships on dishonest notions and then want people to accept them when they are ready to sure their true selves...

Good post.

actually what you said is the point of the thread and has already been said already...so i get it...or else I wouldn't have made this thread....i even said it's not about body counts...

 

[Westie]

I have a question though...

who r these hypothetical dudes who break up with chicks because the sex is too good?

if a chick is super freaky, yeah the thought might cross your mind about her sexual exploits... but if she is a good chick, that shit aint gonna affect the relationship...

He may not break up with her, but basically it's the fear that it may change the dynamic of a relationship. It's the male ego, and even though he may know he wasn't the 1st to discover the territory, I would think he doesn't want to think about someone else teaching her tricks. Yall may not want a virgin, but you don't want a gutter-butt slore, and if you don't know she likes to eat ass do you really want to think about some other man getting his ass licked by someone you kiss? Not saying all men think like this but some do. He may get over it at some point but it may cause some insecurities/issues. No woman wants to be looked at as a whore by someone she cares about.

 

[Djunior]

They obviously want to be cheated on.

 

[Knives Amilli]

So like on some real shit niggas would wife up a broad who openly admitted to you that she has sucked 10 dicks and is only 24 years old???

Niggas arent asking for a play by play flow chart of a broads sexual history, B.

We're just saying if you (as in a girl) have INDEED sucked 10 dicks and your head technique is of the School of Steffens, don't decide to be all shy with your BF's dick out of a stupid notion of shame.

Its like when someone is heading up a new organization they might be scared to use management techniques that work out of fear they may come off as controlling/piss off the work force. Naw fam fuck that. The successful ones are those who come in from the jump giving their all.

Really this is why people should value the concept of the relationship more. Being in a relationship should be the equivalent of taking the midterm or the last paper of the semester; everything else you can bullshit on, but the relationship should be what you take seriously and put your all into.

Goddamn I use metaphors, similes, and allegories a lot.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

i've never had sex with a random guy so i can't relate. i can say that it took me while to be comfortable enough to open up sexually. nothing beats having a great sex life as well as a great romance

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I let's the freak out...I know what it takes for me to reach my orgasm, and what angle to put the dick so I can squirt...I'm not ashamed of my sexuality, nor sex period. I enjoy it immensely, and I will make sure my partner feels the same. I have no qualms about my body, nor am I about to act like I don't know what I'm doing. I'm 31 years old... I have an arsenal of tricks up my sleeve. Girls play games like that, while a woman knows her body, and what she likes. Either he can love it, or leave it alone.

This ^^
....though I've never encountered such issues. It's either you are or aren't on my level sexually. I don't sit around thinking of how I will be judged by the one person I am supposed to be doing these things with. I wouldn't even involve myself with someone like that.

 

[Niggersauce]

He may not break up with her, but basically it's the fear that it may change the dynamic of a relationship. It's the male ego, and even though he may know he wasn't the 1st to discover the territory, I would think he doesn't want to think about someone else teaching her tricks. Yall may not want a virgin, but you don't want a gutter-butt slore, and if you don't know she likes to eat ass do you really want to think about some other man getting his ass licked by someone you kiss? Not saying all men think like this but some do. He may get over it at some point but it may cause some insecurities/issues. No woman wants to be looked at as a whore by someone she cares about.

If a woman is a fuckin gutter-slut whore then that man needs to know about that...how you claim to love someone but youcant keep it upfront and real? People out here trying to find real love and they ARENT REAL themselves.

relationships built on deceit will crumble as soon as that shit is bought to light. Best thing you can do is let them hear it from your mouth and make a decision...because if they find it out from some other source your relationship is over you can bet on that.

Ill say it again you wouldnt deceive someone you love...Grown men not worried about your past everybody got one. As long as your past isnt still in the present (kids, stds, bad credit, crime history) then everything is good!

 

[Dupac]

i feel the same way i felt last week, when niggaz was talking about how they don't even like sex like that...

sex is suppsed to be fun and extremely enjoyable...

i don't understand how ppl accept anything else.....

 

[blackrain]

i feel the same way i felt last week, when niggaz was talking about how they don't even like sex like that...


sex is suppsed to be fun and extremely enjoyable...

i don't understand how ppl accept anything else.....

these niggas get weirder and weirder by the day

 

[VulcanRaven]

He may not break up with her, but basically it's the fear that it may change the dynamic of a relationship. It's the male ego, and even though he may know he wasn't the 1st to discover the territory, I would think he doesn't want to think about someone else teaching her tricks. Yall may not want a virgin, but you don't want a gutter-butt slore, and if you don't know she likes to eat ass do you really want to think about some other man getting his ass licked by someone you kiss? Not saying all men think like this but some do. He may get over it at some point but it may cause some insecurities/issues. No woman wants to be looked at as a whore by someone she cares about.

Here lies the problem.Why do women do things sexually if they are ashamed of it or want to hide it? if they are not whores then why not be open about what they like sexually with someone they so call care about? Lying only brings their character into question and makes them deceptive which will ruin the relationship indefinitely.Women want to have their cake and eat it too,but that is unrealistic.If she has to pretend that she is someone that she is not,then the bitch is a hoe,slut and everything else that I could think of and she deserves to be called such.The relationship is a lie once the woman is dis honest so the dynamic is already ruined by the lying smut.

 

[frostyicy]

Here lies the problem.Why do women do things sexually if they are ashamed of it or want to hide it? if they are not whores then why not be open about what they like sexually with someone they so call care about? Lying only brings their character into question and makes them deceptive which will ruin the relationship indefinitely.Women want to have their cake and eat it too,but that is unrealistic.If she has to pretend that she is someone that she is not,then the bitch is a hoe,slut and everything else that I could think of and she deserves to be called such.

Chuch, Tabanacle, Synagawge.....Close Thread.

 

[JadaRoss]

i wondered the same thing

why is it easier for a woman to slut herself out to random niggaz for years but when she finds a guy she considered a good catch it's hard getting sex from her
whatever you did to snag him you should continue to do it

 

[Fooley]

Here lies the problem.Why do women do things sexually if they are ashamed of it or want to hide it? if they are not whores then why not be open about what they like sexually with someone they so call care about? Lying only brings their character into question and makes them deceptive which will ruin the relationship indefinitely.Women want to have their cake and eat it too,but that is unrealistic.If she has to pretend that she is someone that she is not,then the bitch is a hoe,slut and everything else that I could think of and she deserves to be called such.The relationship is a lie once the woman is dis honest so the dynamic is already ruined by the lying smut.

Exactly man these bitches know the rules to the game. They know certain acts would get them labeled as a hoe yet still wanna do it. If you knew beforehand how shit worked then you don't have the right to be complaining. No offense to Kat, but she knew fucking two dudes was considered hoeish yet still did it. So don't get mad when niggas think you a hoe. That's like a drug dealer getting caught and acting like selling dope wasn't illegal. These hoes flagrant.

Secondly that shit just shows how insecure these hoes is. Why the fuck you ashamed of shit you did. If you was big enough to do it, why the fuck you can't admit to it? That's some coward shit.
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[Focal Point]

I let's the freak out...I know what it takes for me to reach my orgasm, and what angle to put the dick so I can squirt...I'm not ashamed of my sexuality, nor sex period. I enjoy it immensely, and I will make sure my partner feels the same. I have no qualms about my body, nor am I about to act like I don't know what I'm doing. I'm 31 years old... I have an arsenal of tricks up my sleeve. Girls play games like that, while a woman knows her body, and what she likes. Either he can love it, or leave it alone.

[video=youtube;oYwL-FzFDKQ]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYwL-FzFDKQ[/video]...............

 

[5th Letter]

She want to bring it out gradually because cats might think she wad a freak.