Ladies Be Honest You Ain't Gotta Lie: Spinoff from Kat's Thread

[mryounggun]

You got 10,000+ posts on the IC. You already know the answer to that question. Simple niggas will see that a woman is super freaky and equate that with her being a whore or a jump or some other unrelated shit.

The shit is sad and stupid and counter-productive...but I can see why women do it.

 

[taeboo]

Because some men think that a freaky woman=ho/slut.

 

[Bully_Pulpit]

My wife smuts for me....

 

[Meet The Sniper]

Because some men think that a freaky woman=ho/slut.

You gotta admit, it begs the question.

But since I've been with REAL amateaurs as far as fuckin goes, I can tell by now if a chick is fakin.

I think.

 

[Nthngis4vr]

i've never had sex with a random guy so i can't relate. i can say that it took me while to be comfortable enough to open up sexually. nothing beats having a great sex life as well as a great romance

^^^^^^^^^^

 

[blackrain]

You got 10,000+ posts on the IC. You already know the answer to that question. Simple niggas will see that a woman is super freaky and equate that with her being a whore or a jump or some other unrelated shit.

The shit is sad and stupid and counter-productive...but I can see why women do it.

then niggas need to grow the hell up...and so do the women who lie about what they want...all that shit leads to is 2 unsatisfied people...shit's retarded

 

[taeboo]

You gotta admit, it begs the question.

But since I've been with REAL amateaurs as far as fuckin goes, I can tell by now if a chick is fakin.

I think.

Why does slut first come to mind though? Maybe she been in a couple of long term realtionships or maybe she's just naturally sexual....

 

[Louis Cipher]

Because some men think that a freaky woman=ho/slut.

then niggas need to grow the hell up...and so do the women who lie about what they want...all that shit leads to is 2 unsatisfied people...shit's retarded

^^^this...right chea

 

[MsSouthern]

<--- Smuts herself out for her man only

 

[Meet The Sniper]

Why does slut first come to mind though? Maybe she been in a couple of long term realtionships or maybe she's just naturally sexual....

Because honestly there are flags. People lie, thats not the hardest thing to figure out. Women especially when it comes to things like a body count or trains. Niggas gotta determine with intuition and the red flags in their head. Personally I don't mind if a woman doesn't go all out on the first fuck. Long as it's good enough for another go.

I mean if she askin you to fuck her in the ass or some other shit like that on the first fuck then you got every reason to care. Because to a logical man it immediately begs the question. You don't know her that well. Niggas coulda been in that shit two days ago if I'm doing it on the first day.

Calculated risk.

Edit: I'm young tho

 

[ms.jones]

I let's the freak out...I know what it takes for me to reach my orgasm, and what angle to put the dick so I can squirt...I'm not ashamed of my sexuality, nor sex period. I enjoy it immensely, and I will make sure my partner feels the same. I have no qualms about my body, nor am I about to act like I don't know what I'm doing. I'm 31 years old... I have an arsenal of tricks up my sleeve. Girls play games like that, while a woman knows her body, and what she likes. Either he can love it, or leave it alone.

 

[blakfyahking]

cause mofos don't want to be honest with themselves

if a nigga instantly thinks you are a slore cause your acrobatic game is just that spectacular, you shouldn't want to strive to be with that judgmental mofo anyways..............

but people do shit ass backwards like keep it conservative cause they don't want to scare away a S/O

but then turn around and let they hair all the way down with a jump SMH

 

[blackrain]

cause mofos don't want to be honest with themselves

if a nigga instantly thinks you are a slore cause your acrobatic game is just that spectacular, you shouldn't want to strive to be with that judgmental mofo anyways..............

but people do shit ass backwards like keep it conservative cause they don't want to scare away a S/O

but then turn around and let they hair all the way down with a jump SMH

exactly...i can't understand the logic behind the mentality of being conservative for your man, but being a freak for a one night stand...that shit makes no sense

 

[MeTaL]

Niggas seems confuse now a days.. You talk about you want a ladie in the streets..but a freak in the bed.. But once the freak performs in the bed.. all hell breaks loose..

 

[ms.jones]

exactly...i can't understand the logic behind the mentality of being conservative for your man, but being a freak for a one night stand...that shit makes no sense

The fear of being judged. When you care about someone, you don't want them to think less of you, whereas that dude you met at the club...he don't matter, because the chances of you seeing him again is slim. And if you did see him again, neither of you will acknowledge each other.

 

[mryounggun]

I let's the freak out...I know what it takes for me to reach my orgasm, and what angle to put the dick so I can squirt...I'm not ashamed of my sexuality, nor sex period. I enjoy it immensely, and I will make sure my partner feels the same. I have no qualms about my body, nor am I about to act like I don't know what I'm doing. I'm 31 years old... I have an arsenal of tricks up my sleeve. Girls play games like that, while a woman knows her body, and what she likes. Either he can love it, or leave it alone.

I'm saying though. Let's go ahead and close this thread up. If everybody operated like adults without hidden agendas, none of this would be in question.

 

[Meet The Sniper]

I'm saying though. Let's go ahead and close this thread up. If everybody operated like adults without hidden agendas, none of this would be in question.

Here is the answers to all your whys and why dont's. It's what it all boils down to.

 

[blackrain]

The fear of being judged. When you care about someone, you don't want them to think less of you, whereas that dude you met at the club...he don't matter, because the chances of you seeing him again is slim. And if you did see him again, neither of you will acknowledge each other.

so please the person you will never see again and for the person you know you'll see again only half way please them? maybe it's just because I'm an all or nothing person...either i'ma give you my all, or you just won't be getting fucked...

 

[blakfyahking]

exactly...i can't understand the logic behind the mentality of being conservative for your man, but being a freak for a one night stand...that shit makes no sense

exactly

people stay looking for an honest companion.........................by being dishonest SMH

 

[Louis Cipher]

I'm saying though. Let's go ahead and close this thread up. If everybody operated like adults without hidden agendas, none of this would be in question.

^^^close thread...

this is how i operate: iom 37...my fiance is 36...she has a past so do i...hell we both went to HBCUs...shes clean...shes healthy...she my slut...shes my future wife...THE END