It's the little things.
His actions, thoughtfulness, consistent sweetness and presence on the daily are what really make me melt.
So many wait for this grand gesture when really all the little things ARE the grandest gesture.
1. Surprises! I for one adore them. It doesn't have to be major but as you said, something out of the blue, an unexpected rendezvous, her fav flowers or something she likes arriving at the workplace or home without warrant or expectation. It really doesn't need to be something tangible though. Just be there for her.
Cook a hot meal, pack it up along with some wine and chocolate covered strawberries (or what she likes) you two can feed to each other, take her by the lake for a romantic moonlit picnic.
If you have a beach closeby, take a late night walk, slow dance in the sand to some slow jams caressing her, cuddle up underneath the stars. Just be in the moment together.
Him showing up catching me off guard....
The more creative and simple>>>>>
2. What makes me feel super sexy?
"Stripped of all make up, no need for fancy clothes
No cover ups, push ups
With him, I dont have to put on a show
He loves every freckle, every curve, every inch of my skin
Fulfilling me entirely, taking all of me in
He's real, he's honest, he's loving me for me."
Us being deeply in tune and connected does it for me. His openness and strong desire to constantly explore his Queen is everything.
Little reminders throughout the day showing his love and appreciation for me. His attention to detail, his thoughtfulness and never ending consideration of me, his sweetness had me at hello, his random love taps to the booty, surprise kisses to the back of the neck, those moments spent in complete silence and yet we are speaking volumes which words could never express. Us just being able to connect and have our "pillow talks" but also being able to just be in each others presence without saying a word, definitely makes me feel so comfortable and one with him.
I think for women, comfort within ourselves primarily is key but being comfortable with our man is what brings a lot of sexiness about. Once we feel really "at home" with you, the smallest things you do make us feel so good. That feeling he brings only makes me want to give and do for him.