Is this grounds to dump my girl?

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Lorenzo de Medici;2415170 said:
So she found out that her exhaust has a hole in it. She's convinced it's going to cause her to get carbon monoxide poisoning. Unsafe maybe, but she can drive with the windows up. Inconvenient, but gives you time to find a nice deal on a car.

She found out Monday evening about the leak, found a car Monday night, had them run her credit Monday night, and bought it Tuesday evening. She looked at ONE CAR! I told her to look around, etc, etc. Wouldn't listen. Went to the dealership with her(Carmax) she asked me my opinion and I told her I wouldn't take the car she got mad. She fuckin' had the dealer leave the room so "we could talk" then she basically had me decide on a warranty for her. Seriously mane, I can never build a life with someone like this(which is where she thinks this is headed). She's impulsive, and wouldn't listen to reason. When it's all said and done, she's gonna pay 15000 for a car that's worth 8500 tops.

You just described a woman son.

Im here all night.
 
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and 3 and a half years from now it's going to be your fault she still paying for it. smh. Why couldn't she get the hole fixed? Unless her inspection was coming up due and you live in a place with strict emissions laws, she could have had time to save up for the repair. Yeah, i'd start to ride off into the sunset without her.
 
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powerman 5000;2415184 said:
and 3 and a half years from now it's going to be your fault she still paying for it. smh. Why couldn't she get the hole fixed? Unless her inspection was coming up due and you live in a place with strict emissions laws, she could have had time to save up for the repair. Yeah, i'd start to ride off into the sunset without her.

The car had a bunch of problems. I have no issue with getting a new car. But she should have shopped around. She didn't need a new car immediately. Her shocks were fucked, but her dad told her if she was careful she had about six months until she absolutely had to get them replaced. I encouraged her to just take her time and look around for a car, but she wouldn't listen to me.
 
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Lorenzo de Medici;2415188 said:
The car had a bunch of problems. I have no issue with getting a new car. But she should have shopped around. She didn't need a new car immediately. Her shocks were fucked, but her dad told her if she was careful she had about six months until she absolutely had to get them replaced. I encouraged her to just take her time and look around for a car, but she wouldn't listen to me.

Women just are like that at times. Especially with cars. It's like the world is over if they break down somewhere and have to be picked up or something. It's just not in their DNA. they want something new and when they want it they want it. I would talk to her though. and seriously tell her we can't be moving forward if this is how you gonna be with the money. You might come home and she brought all new furniture and shit without consulting you.

Just lay in the cut and when she start bitching about why she still paying on the car just laugh to yourself and give her that i told you we gotta be better with the money and consult each other.
 
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I don't think you niggas realize how bad this is.

She purchased a 2007 Toyota yaris with 108K miles on it for 9500 dollars plus the warranty at 1600. I tried so hard to convince her otherwise but she won't listen to me. SHE WON'T EVEN TAKE IT TO A MECHANIC TO LOOK AT IT! Bruh, she already had to take it in to Carmax to replace the brakes. It's just like...c'mon man.

8.95% rate at 66 months.

Fuck outta here, hoss.
 
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Lorenzo de Medici;2415215 said:
I don't think you niggas realize how bad this is.

She purchased a 2007 Toyota yaris with 108K miles on it for 9500 dollars plus the warranty at 1600. I tried so hard to convince her otherwise but she won't listen to me. SHE WON'T EVEN TAKE IT TO A MECHANIC TO LOOK AT IT! Bruh, she already had to take it in to Carmax to replace the brakes. It's just like...c'mon man.

8.95% rate at 66 months.

Fuck outta here, hoss.

Ouch yah thats a loss
 
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Lorenzo de Medici;2415215 said:
I don't think you niggas realize how bad this is.

She purchased a 2007 Toyota yaris with 108K miles on it for 9500 dollars plus the warranty at 1600. I tried so hard to convince her otherwise but she won't listen to me. SHE WON'T EVEN TAKE IT TO A MECHANIC TO LOOK AT IT! Bruh, she already had to take it in to Carmax to replace the brakes. It's just like...c'mon man.

8.95% rate at 66 months.

Fuck outta here, hoss.

:/
She seems pretty hard headed and she isn't being wise about it at all. This is a car you're talking about, not a by-the-counter impulse purchase of gum.
Have you tried sitting her down and putting her onto how you feel about the entire way she went about handling things, not just the car itself? Why did she ask for your help if she was just going to completely disregard it?

Like the poster above me mentioned, I don't think you should just cut her off but it's understandable how her actions and disregard for your input and advice which she asked you for is concerning. How can you not question how her choices and decision making will affect your future together. It's not even just about the car anymore.
 
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By just looking at the novel you typed t/s shows you care alot and that mean you ain't leaving that chick no time soon.
 
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U whipped and she got bad decision making skillz, enuf said. u 2 belong together. Fam always told me "If u cant reason with a bitch, no reason to be with her. She gon stress u out. Got u thinkin bout leavn her
 
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onmygame;2415340 said:
U whipped and she got bad decision making skillz, enuf said. u 2 belong together. Fam always told me "If u cant reason with a bitch, no reason to be with her. She gon stress u out. Got u thinkin bout leavn her

LMAO at the thought of me being whipped. I do care about her though, but I think it might be about that time.
 
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yea she is a hardheaded women but u already love her .... so really your fucked until she has her 100th episode like this and u finally say fuck it i'm gone ..
 
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