Is it ok for another woman to cook for YOUR man ??

[blackrain]

Yeah but I know plenty thats very level-headed and not the jealous type.. it's a stereotype thats true sometimes yes but any woman can be crazy and/or jealous. I know white women that have burned men's clothes and stabbed their men. I know black women who have ran their man over with their car. So I just don't like hearing all Latina women are crazy. Esp when he asked a question, I answered it and then he throws this at me. FOH.

craziness knows no cultural bounds...though I will say Domincan crazy>>>all other women crazy lol

 

[blackrain]

why you gotta put my bidness out there AK, why?

umm...i'm waiting lol

 

[akforty7]

craziness knows no cultural bounds...though I will say Domincan crazy>>>all other women crazy lol

Oh hell no! Cubanos are the worst in my eyes LOL. Men and women. They don't give a fuck lol. And my Puerto Rican aunt beats her husband with her shoes.. LMAO

 

[blackrain]

Oh hell no! Cubanos are the worst in my eyes LOL. Men and women. They don't give a fuck lol. And my Puerto Rican aunt beats her husband with her shoes.. LMAO

what is it w/ puerto rican woman and throwing shoes? i remember one day a couple years ago one of my friends whose Rican, I jokingly ran up behind her in my school's student center and snatched her book...out of nowhere she just yells out "You better stop before I throw my shoe at you" lol...and that was her first reaction to everything just reach for her shoe to grab and throw lol

 

[akforty7]

what is it w/ puerto rican woman and throwing shoes? i remember one day a couple years ago one of my friends whose Rican, I jokingly ran up behind her in my school's student center and snatched her book...out of nowhere she just yells out "You better stop before I throw my shoe at you" lol...and that was her first reaction to everything just reach for her shoe to grab and throw lol

LMFAO! I'm over here cracking up laughing so hard.. it's true!!! Esp those from the island. I remember I was walking down the street in Santurce and seen a single shoe on the sidewalk and my cousin was like "oh someone musta got a shoe thrown at them" lmaooooo

Man y'all missin out if you ain't know your shoe is also a weapon

 

[The BAPHOMET]

how yall chicks in one thread talking bout men snooping is a red flag but in another talking bout slicing and dicing a nigga and hoe becuz she cooked and he ate her food, is it some metaphor I'm messing is this really bout him(your man) eating ol girl coochie or something?

 

[ibedamned]

i've had women cook for me, one was because of a bet, i actually know her man. the other just came to work one day like "I made you something" I was like "huh" and she made these candies that were at a bake off at work that i said i liked and didnt kno she made. Shit was mad awkward. I beat them candies up tho.

 

[philippkorikong]

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[MsSouthern]

i've had women cook for me, one was because of a bet, i actually know her man. the other just came to work one day like "I made you something" I was like "huh" and she made these candies that were at a bake off at work that i said i liked and didnt kno she made. Shit was mad awkward. I beat them candies up tho.

awkward cause you wondered why she was baking for you since she wasn't your woman.....right ?

 

[akforty7]

how yall chicks in one thread talking bout men snooping is a red flag but in another talking bout slicing and dicing a nigga and hoe becuz she cooked and he ate her food, is it some metaphor I'm messing is this really bout him(your man) eating ol girl coochie or something?

You gotta be kidding me. Wow.

i've had women cook for me, one was because of a bet, i actually know her man. the other just came to work one day like "I made you something" I was like "huh" and she made these candies that were at a bake off at work that i said i liked and didnt kno she made. Shit was mad awkward. I beat them candies up tho.

Smh if your lady knew about this she'd be like WTH. That shit aint normal b. Bakin for another woman's man.

 

[The BAPHOMET]

You gotta be kidding me. Wow.

just keeping it 1000 to da maxx, a nigga can't snoop (most women do it though) but some how a woman cooking a meal for a nigga is some akward ass shit, not saying it isn't so with that said essentially women be on some sneak shit right?

 

[nex gin]

lmao.

Why are some women so against this? I told wifey that a female co-worker offered to cook me something and she through a str8 up hissy fit. By the way she reacted, you would have thought I told her that the co-worker solicited me for sex. smh

 

[MsSouthern]

lmao.
Why are some women so against this? I told wifey that a female co-worker offered to cook me something and she through a str8 up hissy fit. By the way she reacted, you would have thought I told her that the co-worker solicited me for sex. smh

she might has well

as most women in thread and your wifey would agree ... that cooking for your man is a personal thing. It's about caring and taking care of him... and NO woman should want another female to do that.

Like I said before... it's the underlining meaning of it all not the actual plate of food

 

[a.mann]

lmao.

Why are some women so against this? I told wifey that a female co-worker offered to cook me something and she through a str8 up hissy fit. By the way she reacted, you would have thought I told her that the co-worker solicited me for sex. smh

Wifey pissed because she just got "slapped" in the face. And you to inexperience too realize it. Should've pulled your co-worker's card and told her you have a good woman at home that handles her business when it comes to that.

You better off just creepin' with the broad at work on the low, then to have her try to openly under-mind your lady position.

Anybody that hasn’t grasp the significance of why it’s unacceptable and suspect for a woman to take time to prepare and cook food for another woman’s man

obviously haven’t had ,paid much attention too , or appreciate exactly how much time, preparation, detail, hard work and most importantly PRIDE goes into preparing a home cook meal. I’m not talking know shit thrown together from the freeze or microwave either.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

 

[1of1]

If it's considered cheating I may as well get some pussy out of the deal too.

 

[hummingbird]

LMAO! You're black and Latina so you know you're EXTRA CRAZY!!!

lol. its funny cause some people will blame my Dominican side, then others will blame my Jamaican side lmao.

craziness knows no cultural bounds...though I will say Domincan crazy>>>all other women crazy lol

Chu trying to say baby? *deranged look*

*Waits for an explanation from Bird*

Im against it because its MY JOB as his woman to take care and nurture him. I am more than capable of completing my task. Its my duty as his woman (i know ya'll dont like that "duty" thing but whatever lol) So she need go apply for the position somewhere else cause this one has already been filled. *QQ's @ BR*

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

kai a trusting woman

u should teach a class

A class in what? It's not about trusting ur man...it's about the chick and the principle.

oh lawd please dont let me get hit by stray bullets lol j/k but Nah Dee, I dont mean to be a regionalist when it comes to these things, its just that the few times I lived up north or the womenI know from up north they dont take being a homemaker as serious as most of the women from the south that I know. Most of them that I know would pick career and independence any day over So maybe I shouldnt call it a southern thing I'm sorries *hugs*

But...u have a career....and you are a homemaker....I don't see the difference. We can still have a career and take care of home. We don't TALK about it as much. I think that's the biggest distinction.

I take offense to the comment from Dee. I post in here and make tons of sense. I am also a male.

I apologize lol there are several of yall who make sense. My apologies men!!

 

[hummingbird]

@ Dee. True. I think we just tend to talk about it much much more here.

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

how yall chicks in one thread talking bout men snooping is a red flag but in another talking bout slicing and dicing a nigga and hoe becuz she cooked and he ate her food, is it some metaphor I'm messing is this really bout him(your man) eating ol girl coochie or something?

Women do snoop too...and it is never right lmao I mean...i dont get ur comparison. Snooping is a red flag in ANY relationship, is it not? Just because women do that shit too- it doesn't make it right.

How can that be compared to someone cooking for your man? Just like some men in here have said...u can get the point of how a female takes this subject by thinking about how you would feel if a man came to work with a gift for your girlfriend or wife. Why is he buyin ur girl a gift?

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

@ Dee. True. I think we just tend to talk about it much much more here.

yea lol its the whole 'southern belle' thing but really when people say things like that im like...does that make sense? Like u really think we dont focus on taking care of home here? cooking, cleaning, entertaining, etc? I just would much rather talk about my job than my man lol whereas my homegirls from the south talk about their man and kids all day and I gotta be like yo so how's WORK?! LOl