Is it ok for another woman to cook for YOUR man ??

[MsSouthern]

no diss Kai but

what kind of class is she gonna teach ?

 

[a.mann]

So basically, you didn't read the thread and made this whole long ass post...actually 2 long ass posts....for no reason. when damn near every chick in here said it's completely UNACCEPTABLE.

I'll edit this tho...to say you redeemed urself with that "looking 40" joke. Pass has been granted!

I foreseen there 'll be at least one or 2 "it's just food" opinions here

and your generosity is noted

Wow.

Uh, initially I was going to say that it's just food.

But apparently food is a huge deal. 0.0

Man or woman. Anytime someone purposely trys to “upstart” a person in their respective role as an s/o….yeah it’s “big deal”

If another man was to offered my lady something knowing she has a man, that’s a “attack” on me, saying I’m not handling my business.

a woman shouldn't have to rely or turn to another man for shit, specially something her man at home fully capable of taking care of himself

 

[a.mann]

Trust and insecurity aint got shit to do with having principles.

nice cop out tho.

 

[1of1]

That "way to a man's heart is through his stomach" is one of the WOAT sayings. Sounds like fat American speak.

 

[a.mann]

sounds a little possessive and territorial

you damn right it is.

Look you cats either filled with naivety or ignorance….not really sure which but do I know one thing, you will be filled with rage. When you find out shorty’s pal “ Markus” been secretly smashing when you had no problem of her going over his apartment for dinner….

“He so nice and sweet…”

Let tell you something

Don’t no woman want a “nice and sweet” man.....as her a man

 

[a.mann]

a bitch knows she wrong for even offering to cook for another woman's man.

She plottin' and you a fool being laughed it.

"Oh I trust him...."

and you trust her too eh?

 

[1of1]

i'd be more inclined to fall for a woman who can cook and take care of me than one who can not

That sounds like some "all other things equal" stuff though. When comparing women you know all other things are not equal. So I ask how much of a priority is it for you? I'd love to have a chick who can cook well but that's not gonna be a deciding factor, it's trivial IMO. As long as she isn't an airhead who can't do basic things I ain't trippin'.

I wouldn't mind learning some things about cooking together.

 

[a.mann]

u sound bitter thus i am reluctant to believe this

lol

far from it kid..

half the secret to a strong healthy and lasting relationship is keep other motherfuckers out your business.

don't invite wolves in.

I'll use Jay-Z and Beyonce is an explain, what issue they may have with their relationship...they keep that shit to themselves.

They don't let the media, press and other outside interferences all in their shit......not food....but same principles.

Regardless how much we love and trust a person....have standards and principles of shit you wont tolerate.

 

[hummingbird]

hey, u predicted ur own future lmao

But HB it isn't a southern thing. idk for some reason southern people think we have been raised SOOOOO differently in the north. That's an annoying ass assumption by the way. Yall niggas ain't invent cooking and doin shit for your man. Wait...thats a whole nother rant for a whole nother thread though. But that's the impression yall leave w/me when talking about niggas and cooking smmfh.

oh lawd please dont let me get hit by stray bullets lol j/k but Nah Dee, I dont mean to be a regionalist when it comes to these things, its just that the few times I lived up north or the womenI know from up north they dont take being a homemaker as serious as most of the women from the south that I know. Most of them that I know would pick career and independence any day over So maybe I shouldnt call it a southern thing I'm sorries *hugs*

 

[a.mann]

Anybody that hasn’t grasp the significance of why it’s unacceptable and suspect for a woman to take time to prepare and cook food for another woman’s man

obviously haven’t had ,pay much attention to , or appreciate exactly how much time, preparation, detail, hard work and most importantly PRIDE goes into preparing a home cook meal. I’m not talking know shit thrown together from the freeze or microwave either.

 

[a.mann]

A broad up north that can REALLY throw down in the kitchen is the exception.

A woman from the down south that can throw down in the kitchen is the standard

Pretty much a universal accepted fact.

 

[blackrain]

Wait hold up....I know u ain't just call him Black Raina....He's the only nigga who posts in here and makes sense.

You sir, don't make sense. I dont care if that bitch was in the crib next to you in the nursery when you were born and yall been inseparable ever since. If she cooks you a plate of food, there will be PROBLEMS. And ain't no "lets talk it out" type quick ass problem solving gonna help it either. You clearly don't understand the principle because as you said, you haven't had that type of relationship with a woman. But from FB to the IC...the females are telling you YES it is just THAT serious. So, now that you're equipped with this knowledge, don't try to justify why you think it shouldn't be a problem. Understand that it IS a problem and when you do get with a lady deserving of your love and commitment, you will keep this in mind and not let it go down if a female tries to pull this stunt.

i'm glad you saw this shit lol

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

Trust and insecurity aint got shit to do with having principles.

nice cop out tho.

Exactly. This has nothing to do with a lack of trust in your s/o or an insecurity within yourself. Why would I even be with him if trust were the issue? In that case this would be the least of our problems.

 

[thehonorable]

I take offense to the comment from Dee. I post in here and make tons of sense. I am also a male.

Also I am waiting on that one post that makes almost every chick on the IC turn on Kai. Protect ya neck .

 

[akforty7]

Arguing with uptown is like arguing with a brick wall. He will never see anyone else's point and honestly believes the off-the-wall shit he says. He's the kinda nigga who would still wanna argue his point even if you had concrete proof he's 100% wrong lol. Idk man some screws are definitely loose there.

Oh and miss me with the Latina women are crazy bullshit. I guess all black men are lazy drug dealing rappers then, huh?

 

[thehonorable]

heh. Duly noted.

 

[blackrain]

Arguing with uptown is like arguing with a brick wall. He will never see anyone else's point and honestly believes the off-the-wall shit he says. He's the kinda nigga who would still wanna argue his point even if you had concrete proof he's 100% wrong lol. Idk man some screws are definitely loose there.

Oh and miss me with the Latina women are crazy bullshit. I guess all black men are lazy drug dealing rappers then, huh?

you know I love my latinas but a good portion of them will go nuts on your ass if you make them lol

 

[akforty7]

you know I love my latinas but a good portion of them will go nuts on your ass if you make them lol

Yeah but I know plenty thats very level-headed and not the jealous type.. it's a stereotype thats true sometimes yes but any woman can be crazy and/or jealous. I know white women that have burned men's clothes and stabbed their men. I know black women who have ran their man over with their car. So I just don't like hearing all Latina women are crazy. Esp when he asked a question, I answered it and then he throws this at me. FOH.

 

[hummingbird]

Yeah but I know plenty thats very level-headed and not the jealous type.. it's a stereotype thats true sometimes yes but any woman can be crazy and/or jealous. I know white women that have burned men's clothes and stabbed their men. I know black women who have ran their man over with their car. So I just don't like hearing all Latina women are crazy. Esp when he asked a question, I answered it and then he throws this at me. FOH.

why you gotta put my bidness out there AK, why?

 

[akforty7]

why you gotta put my bidness out there AK, why?

LMAO! You're black and Latina so you know you're EXTRA CRAZY!!!