Is a girl with kids a turn off for u

[IgnorantSole]

it aint the kids I have a prollem wit , it be the hoe ass baby daddy niggas.

that's why that shit is situational. i met broads where "baby daddy" knew his place, and that's as the childs father. on the same token, if she letting you know they business is about the kid and just the kid, and they business is they business, and can stand firm on that. that shit's commendable too.

 

[nickel-us P]

Kinda. But usually that means she will put out. And she most likly knows what she doing. And when you're young, she feels superior. In a good great way. I love moms yo. (Kinda drunk)

 

[IgnorantSole]

Kinda. But usually that means she will put out. And she most likly knows what she doing. And when you're young, she feels superior. In a good great way. I love moms yo. (Kinda drunk)

you still in high school huh

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Relationship wise...yes

Just to smash...NOPE!

 

[memphis2sacnicc]

I'm not playing step daddy so if I found out she got some, I'm smashing and dashing.

 

[Cinco]

Since I have no kids, yea it's a turn off.

 

[Copper]

lol how old are yall.. I swear..

Shut up

Nobody wants to date your mother lil boy

 

[JusDre313]

like some of yall said its situational... if she takes good care of her kid and is clearly a good parent then maybe.. but i think cats just prefer a chick with no kids because its usually a lot less in the hassle department.

 

[JusDre313]

but i coulndt mess with a chick with a LOT of kids , especially multiple fathers for her kids.. its like damn you just dont give a fuck WHO you have a baby by huh... i also cant stand a chick who is causal as fuck about birth control or "dont care either way" about getting knocked up....i think people in general who are causal about having a kid just makes me scratch my head..

even though you cant put eveyone is the same boat. lady at the church i grew up in, her n her hubby got married at 18 pumped out 5 kids before they was thirty.. then cuzzo up and had a heart attack and died, fam was like 32, now she stuck raising 5 kids on the solo tip.. that kinda shit happens.. BUT its usually not that scenario majority of the time

 

[Will Munny]

I NEVER want kids, so I would NEVER date a woman with kids. I might fuck one but that's it.

I just don't have patience for kids, and especially kids that most often display the piss poor behaviors that comes from being raised by a single mom.

I don't get why anyone would want kids, well actually I do. They either want a fuck trophy or their life is so garbage raising kids will actually be more fun than what they are doing

 

[IgnorantSole]

I wouldn't date a man with kids.

I'm trying to find someone to start a family with, not find someone that already has a family.

so if a guy was able to check every box you ever wanted in a S/o, even all the superficial shit bitches like, but just so happened to be a proven loving father, you'd cast him aside?

 

[IgnorantSole]

@ladyzee

 

[IgnorantSole]

I wouldn't date a man with kids.

I'm trying to find someone to start a family with, not find someone that already has a family.

so if a guy was able to check every box you ever wanted in a S/o, even all the superficial shit bitches like, but just so happened to be a proven loving father, you'd cast him aside?

Yeah I would cast him aside. Kids are a big deal and I'm not playing happy families with someone elses child.

interesting @ladyzee

 

[damobb2deep]

lol how old are yall.. I swear..

Shut up

Nobody wants to date your mother lil boy

My momma dates women so she ain't checking for none of y'all square asses anyway...

 

[damobb2deep]

like some of yall said its situational... if she takes good care of her kid and is clearly a good parent then maybe.. but i think cats just prefer a chick with no kids because its usually a lot less in the hassle department.

This thread is done in some variation weekly...

but anyway I understand the "situational" thing but truthfully I think the irony of these niggas wouldn't date a chick with a kid and she has to meet all these standards yet they bring nothing to the table themselves.

 

[atribecalledgabi]

I don't check that box when looking on okcupid

just spit mountain dew all over the screen..

 

[JusDre313]

like some of yall said its situational... if she takes good care of her kid and is clearly a good parent then maybe.. but i think cats just prefer a chick with no kids because its usually a lot less in the hassle department.

This thread is done in some variation weekly...

but anyway I understand the "situational" thing but truthfully I think the irony of these niggas wouldn't date a chick with a kid and she has to meet all these standards yet they bring nothing to the table themselves.

but thats anybody though... if someone brings jackshit to the table, and on the flipside has all these standards for the other person (male or female) .. thats wack off gp.. but a child aint a small thing like if a bitch like cats or dogs bruh.. and it can be potential drama if theres beef with her and the kids father.. so i definitely see how some (most) fellas wouldnt want to deal with that

 

[damobb2deep]

like some of yall said its situational... if she takes good care of her kid and is clearly a good parent then maybe.. but i think cats just prefer a chick with no kids because its usually a lot less in the hassle department.

This thread is done in some variation weekly...

but anyway I understand the "situational" thing but truthfully I think the irony of these niggas wouldn't date a chick with a kid and she has to meet all these standards yet they bring nothing to the table themselves.

but thats anybody though... if someone brings jackshit to the table, and on the flipside has all these standards for the other person (male or female) .. thats wack off gp.. but a child aint a small thing like if a bitch like cats or dogs bruh.. and it can be potential drama if theres beef with her and the kids father.. so i definitely see how some (most) fellas wouldnt want to deal with that

all that is true.. but not every chick baby dad is ratchet... that's why I said I understand the "situational" thing.. but these niggas on here saying " no... never.. and smash and dash" which is why Ill pix so popular these niggas live in a fantasy world.. after a certain age you should expect a chick to have at least one child.. ( also I understand multiple kids.. I can deal with one but given the fact that I want kids I personally can't date a chick with multiple kids because that's alot 2 deal with when you don't have kids yourself and to potentially at least add one more is alot)

 

[LUClEN]

Yea

Almost got involved with one last year

Dodged that bullet like neo in the matrix

 

[Vader_F_Kennedy]

Nah as long as the kids are well mannered and respectful I'm good