"Im abstaining from sex. Lets wait"

[Copper]

went through that same exact convo with someone else and I agree 100%

If u aint a virgin and Im dating u im phukin somebody while Im with u point blank period...u aint gonna give the puss up to someother nigga u deem unworthy then get to me who u deem worthy and play NBA lockout with the puss

 

[7figz]

It's damn near impossible to be attracted to a girl and be in a relationship with her knowing I can't smash. She'd have to be doin' some shit I've never seen before... or like you said respect that I'm gonna be smashin' other bitches.

Also, I ain't waitin' indefinitely so she better have a reasonable timeline on that abstinent shit or else she could go to hell.

First thought though would be "Damn, what type of ho this bitch must've been ?"

 

[riddlerap]

sex isnt that important. loser ass nigga. people stay missing the big picture.

 

[#1 pick]

sex isnt that important. loser ass nigga. people stay missing the big picture.

Agreed....

 

[7figz]

Sex is important though. Should a nigga abstain because he's interested in a bitch who's abstaining ? Sounds unreasonable.

 

[riddlerap]

sex is only THAT important to people who dont understand what a real relationship is or can be.

 

[Copper]

if sex isnt that important neither is abstinence

 

[7figz]

if sex isnt that important neither is abstinence

* Flawless *

 

[makaveli03]

* Flawless *

actually technically abstinence still wins in that favor lol

 

[riddlerap]

if sex isnt that important neither is abstinence

importance as in, you dont NEED it to survive in a relationship. it can be "important" in a different light, relative to who we are talking about. for the girl in this scenario, its "important" but not "necessary".

sex isnt a necessity in the short term, and it shouldnt be. a good relationship is built on many more things, and is worth a whole lot more than sex.

 

[Gooner]

sex isnt that important. loser ass nigga. people stay missing the big picture.

sex is only THAT important to people who dont understand what a real relationship is or can be.

importance as in, you dont NEED it to survive in a relationship. it can be "important" in a different light, relative to who we are talking about. for the girl in this scenario, its "important" but not "necessary".

sex isnt a necessity in the short term, and it shouldnt be. a good relationship is built on many more things, and is worth a whole lot more than sex.

drake is that you?

 

[7figz]

importance as in, you dont NEED it to survive in a relationship. it can be "important" in a different light, relative to who we are talking about. for the girl in this scenario, its "important" but not "necessary".

sex isnt a necessity in the short term, and it shouldnt be. a good relationship is built on many more things, and is worth a whole lot more than sex.

In that case, you dont NEED a relationship to survive.

 

[Copper]

no one ever claimed it to be a necessity, but if one party in a relationship deems it to be important to them whos to say it is not....u cant deem whats important in someone else relationship anymore than I can tell u whats important in yours

 

[riddlerap]

no one ever claimed it to be a necessity, but if one party in a relationship deems it to be important to them whos to say it is not....u cant deem whats important in someone else relationship anymore than I can tell u whats important in yours

obviously. im just saying if the person youre with who wont give you sex doesnt want you to have sex with others, get over it, and stick with the person, dont do shit behind their back, OR, move on to someone who will give you what you want, or deem important.

 

[riddlerap]

Riddle is a sucker for love ass cracca

Same guy who said he enjoys laying in his bed with his girl while talking for hours over sex

duh cause its goat. kisses in between talking >>>> sex. gucci.

 

[Copper]

obviously. im just saying if the person youre with who wont give you sex doesnt want you to have sex with others, get over it, and stick with the person, dont do shit behind their back, OR, move on to someone who will give you what you want, or deem important.

that pretty much what the t/s said and I agreed with from the jump. u still cant proclaim what important to another individual though

 

[Copper]

duh cause its goat. kisses in between talking >>>> sex. gucci.

theres pills that can fix this problem

 

[Will Munny]

I only respect that shit if the girl is a virgin. If she been smuttin around and then all of a sudden wants to get her together and thinks I'm that dude thats gonna save her she can kick rocks.

 

[Aristo_V300]

duh cause its goat. kisses in between talking >>>> sex. gucci.

What the fuck is this shit?

I only respect that shit if the girl is a virgin. If she been smuttin around and then all of a sudden wants to get her together and thinks I'm that dude thats gonna save her she can kick rocks.

Cosign...

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

I only respect that shit if the girl is a virgin. If she been smuttin around and then all of a sudden wants to get her together and thinks I'm that dude thats gonna save her she can kick rocks.

I'll bite being that you mentioned no middle ground as if these are a womans only two "options."

And if she is neither virgin nor smut? Not her verbally saying she is "abstaining from sex" like t/s described, just that she needs time to establish a further mental and emotional connection prior to wanting to take it to the physical. Then what?