"Im abstaining from sex. Lets wait"

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riddlerap;3770289 said:
duh cause its goat. kisses in between talking >>>> sex. gucci.

Damn bro, that Taylor Swift is gettin to your heard. I know exactly what you're growing through.
 
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Conscious__Nkechi;3771089 said:
I'll bite being that you mentioned no middle ground.

And if she is neither virgin nor smut? Not her verbally saying she is "abstaining from sex" like t/s described, just that she needs time to establish a further mental and emotional connection prior to wanting to take it to the physical. Then what?

That wouldn't bother me as long as she certain amount of innocence about her. I'm not naive enough to think any girl is as innocent as she appears or portrays herself.

"It doesn't matter where you been, as long as it was deep." - Ric Ocasek
 
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abstinence is all about the mental its about proving that you don't need a specific part of a relationship to still validate your whole relationship. If sex is that important to your interactions with a female or a male then you really haven't been too serious about who you've been messing with.
 
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thefabmd2dc;3771541 said:
abstinence is all about the mental its about proving that you don't need a specific part of a relationship to still validate your whole relationship. If sex is that important to your interactions with a female or a male then you really haven't been too serious about who you've been messing with.

Well yeah thats kinda the case. I don't connect with people emotionally often or easily and this girl is one of the few that I really feel. So its an adjustment. Cuz normally its straight to the bizness and not much else.

Conscious__Nkechi;3771089 said:
I'll bite being that you mentioned no middle ground as if these are a womans only two "options."

And if she is neither virgin nor smut? Not her verbally saying she is "abstaining from sex" like t/s described, just that she needs time to establish a further mental and emotional connection prior to wanting to take it to the physical. Then what?

Will Munny;3771104 said:
That wouldn't bother me as long as she certain amount of innocence about her. I'm not naive enough to think any girl is as innocent as she appears or portrays herself.

And thats pretty much the situation. I mean like I said, I know more about her and her previous relationship that ive ever let on with her (yeah I kept tabs IDGAF) and from what I gathered, I think she foolishly let ol buddy get in the guts early without any sort of "seriousness" and she just stayed around as his consistent "going steady for over a year but we fuckin" chick. Basically the prototypical "bad dude" in every Jadaross thread (even tho like i said, she was a dumbass for sticking around).

So with that being said, I understand the caution and care she's taking this time. I just don't like the fact that its me thats getting boxed out OR the fact that IMO ive demonstrated a decent amount of fucking "high character" .
 
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riddlerap;3770050 said:
sex isnt that important. loser ass nigga. people stay missing the big picture.

nah man sex is important.....its one of the many important ingredients that make a relationship work....just like a cake....sugar is important, not a necessity, you can still eat a cake without sugar in it, but who the fuck wants a sugar-less cake?
 
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riddlerap;3770285 said:
obviously. im just saying if the person youre with who wont give you sex doesnt want you to have sex with others, get over it, and stick with the person, dont do shit behind their back, OR, move on to someone who will give you what you want, or deem important.

Cosign this whole shit...

If you not goin to treat her right dont dog her out...the next man gon have to deal with that.

There are chicks out here fuckin for gas money, if thats whats important to you...you can get what you"need" without deceiving someone.
 
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I have more respect for a nigga who can genuinely maintain abstinence, considering our biological makeup.

Oh, fuck that. She can keep waiting. I move on; you don't have a magical pussy
 
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Conscious__Nkechi;3771089 said:
I'll bite being that you mentioned no middle ground as if these are a womans only two "options."

And if she is neither virgin nor smut? Not her verbally saying she is "abstaining from sex" like t/s described, just that she needs time to establish a further mental and emotional connection prior to wanting to take it to the physical. Then what?

Nothing wrong with that at all. Most dudes are scared to death of being the "everything but sex" guy and having another dude being the "nothing but sex" guy.
 
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makaveli03;3773502 said:
Sean kingston lawst

Just read about that shit.

I think if the bitch is an ex-stripper, any self-respecting man should automatically bust out laughing at the abstinence line.
 
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I've ended multiple relationhips when a bitch was on some "all you wanna do is have sex, let's not fuck for a while" shit. Cuz they usually right.

And if I did love the bitch would that mean I shouldn't wanna fuck? Y'all hoes dumb
 
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i think u niggaz put 2 much stock in da pussy, everything is pussy pussy pussy, honestly earlier this week i had sex 4 da 1st time since September, n right now i'm straight, i'm not even thinking about sex... i'm just chilling, ya acting like sex is the end all be all..

I've been in the situation like this b4, when shawty wanted 2 put a lock on her pussy, and u know what i was cool about it , i fell back n decided to see where her head was at.

and the thing is, u niggaz are scared 2 b that nigga that have an "abstinent girl that's fucking the block", me i don't care what anybody thinks...

anyways back 2 the story i took her absitance as a challenge and i passed with flying colors , but the thing was earlier that week i got head from this otha shawty n my dick went limp, so the abstinence girl kept throwing signs 2 get me 2 her crib r coming to mines but i kept ducking shawtyy, this went on for about 2 weeks and a half till some new nigga swooped in..

i was so fucking pissed shyt felt like some shyt that came outta of a movie, i couldn't belee dat shyt

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PimpMVP;3770261 said:
Riddle is a sucker for love ass cracca

Same guy who said he enjoys laying in his bed with his girl while talking for hours over sex

That's weird. Sex>>>>>>>>>>>*100>>>>>talking
 
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deadeye;3776737 said:
Sometimes you've gotta stop paying attention to what they say and watch what they do.

Most chicks talking that bullshit are just trying to test you to see if they can run all over you.

Once they see it doesn't make a difference to you either way, then they'll start to throw it at you.

Basically she was ready to go once she asked you to come over, but I'm sure you've already figured that out by now.
I agree with everything u said until the bolded.

Sum dudes still dont get it even when its obvious
 
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