If a good looking man or woman is single........

[Knock_Twice]

Yep...I don't know too many black women..yet alone women period that wants to be walking around here single at the age of 30+...They can feed that "Im focusing on my career B.S. to me all they want" but in the back of my mind red flags are going off....Something just aint right...

She better been have come outta a tough situation "recently"...That's is the "only" way I'll be like "oh ok" other than that...She automatic has issues Lol

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Umm I see no problem with myself.

I was in a long term relationship when it ended. Dealt wit others afterwards, but I couldn't jump in a relationship wit them. So I'm just chillin. I'm not gonna just jump in a relationship just to do it.

Eh..I think you got some emotional baggage and it's got you bitter.

Just my observation. =)

Far from it. I'm just not gonna get in one just to have that title. And that's been the common link to some of the ones I've dealt wit. They're more concerned wit having the "girlfriend" tag, than the relationship itself.

Had one hefa thought her giving up the puss was enough to convince me to lock it down wit her. This is the kinda thing I've come across so far.

 

[DoUwant2go2Heaven]

Life of celibacy sounds WOAT.

Stop wearing them tiny tanks and cut your beard and virtuous women will flock I'm sure.

Well for some it is and for others it's not. If my lot in life is to be celibate, well by Gods grace I will be celibate! Self control is what must be demonstrated at all times, regardless if your married or single. And I praise God that the fruit of the Spirit is manifest in my life. He get's all the glory and praise. Amen.

 

[Stew]

Umm I see no problem with myself.

I was in a long term relationship when it ended. Dealt wit others afterwards, but I couldn't jump in a relationship wit them. So I'm just chillin. I'm not gonna just jump in a relationship just to do it.

Eh..I think you got some emotional baggage and it's got you bitter.

Just my observation. =)

Far from it. I'm just not gonna get in one just to have that title. And that's been the common link to some of the ones I've dealt wit. They're more concerned wit having the "girlfriend" tag, than the relationship itself.

Had one hefa thought her giving up the puss was enough to convince me to lock it down wit her. This is the kinda thing I've come across so far.

lmao ive run across this many of times.

 

[leftcoastkev]

From the crown of my head to the soles of my feet, I am sin. But thank God Almighty that He rescued me from the pit of destruction when I cried out to Him! Now that i know better I do better.

"When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me." 1 Corinthians 13:11

Amen.

In my mind, I read all of your posts in Aunt Esther voice.

 

[Kat]

Life of celibacy sounds WOAT.

Stop wearing them tiny tanks and cut your beard and virtuous women will flock I'm sure.

Well for some it is and for others it's not. If my lot in life is to be celibate, well by Gods grace I will be celibate! Self control is what must be demonstrated at all times, regardless if your married or single. And I praise God that the fruit of the Spirit is manifest in my life. He get's all the glory and praise. Amen.

Self control is much easier when you're actually getting laid.

Ask any priest.

 

[Copper]

do anyone know if bishes on backpage fight back??

 

[DoUwant2go2Heaven]

I choose to stay single because:

1. My focus is on God

2. My focus is on raising my daughter to be a God fearing virtuous woman

3. I don't want to fornicate.

Being in a relationship is easy. But when you have a child, you just can't be hopping in and out of relationships with all types of women. I have to lead by example and I will not let my daughter see her Dad with every Susan, mary, and Jane in town. The next woman that comes into the lives of me and my daughter will be my wife. But if the LORD has other plans for me than having a wife, Praise God! By His grace I am content to live a life of celibacy, if that's what my lot is. Amen.

wait, you had a child out of wedlock? Fornicator.

"9Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, 10Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. 11And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God."1 Corinthians 6:9-11

I once was a fornicator and a whore-monger. But God has washed me, sanctified me, and justified me in the name of the LORD JESUS CHRIST! Hallelujah! Now that I am a new creation in Christ, old things have passed away, and all things have become new. Therefore I practice holiness in lieu of practicing sin! Amen. And by the grace of God I will continue to honor Him with my body by abstaining from fornication, masturbation, pornography, and whore-mongering. Amen.

 

[Copper]

Amen!!!

 

[Ajackson17]

No, because sometimes you want to work on yourself and better your situation before bringing in other people and enjoy your days as a free man. I will think about kids around 35

 

[Iheart~Cali]

Not necessarily. It could be that by that age they get a clue and don't go for just any old thing like they may have done in their 20's. The older you get, the less tolerant you are of bullshit.

 

[Dirty Sanchez]

@icecoldstew is a single mother

 

[Chi Snow]

Free Sanchez

 

[DoUwant2go2Heaven]

I choose to stay single because:

1. My focus is on God

2. My focus is on raising my daughter to be a God fearing virtuous woman

3. I don't want to fornicate.

Being in a relationship is easy. But when you have a child, you just can't be hopping in and out of relationships with all types of women. I have to lead by example and I will not let my daughter see her Dad with every Susan, mary, and Jane in town. The next woman that comes into the lives of me and my daughter will be my wife. But if the LORD has other plans for me than having a wife, Praise God! By His grace I am content to live a life of celibacy, if that's what my lot is. Amen.

Bruh........... Why do that to yourself?

God is amazing my friend! And I have no problem with being celibate if the LORD wills that for my life. God has given me a vision for my life and I must fulfill that vision. I am walking and living in my purpose my brother. And the things that God has shared with me, in accordance with His word, has really opened up my eyes to the reality of life.

Earth shattering events are on the horizon and because I know this to be true, my life is dedicated to:

1. Doing His will

2. leading my daughter to the Kingdom.

3. being faithful until the end.

If my lot in life from this day until the day I meet Jesus in the air, doesn't include a wife, I am content with that. I'm all about doing His work with the little time that is left for this generation. Amen.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

@icecoldstew is a single mother

And you're a banned poster. Amen. Lol

 

[Kat]

Hold up...is this thread about people that are single in their 30s or about people that have never been married or had any kids in their 30s?

There is a difference.

 

[Stew]

Hold up...is this thread about people that are single in their 30s or about people that have never been married or had any kids in their 30s?

There is a difference.

Doesn't matter. Single with or without kids. Divorced or not

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Free Sanchez

...for the umpteenth time.

 

[vince_vince]

#powder room thread

 

[DoUwant2go2Heaven]

Life of celibacy sounds WOAT.

Stop wearing them tiny tanks and cut your beard and virtuous women will flock I'm sure.

Well for some it is and for others it's not. If my lot in life is to be celibate, well by Gods grace I will be celibate! Self control is what must be demonstrated at all times, regardless if your married or single. And I praise God that the fruit of the Spirit is manifest in my life. He get's all the glory and praise. Amen.

Self control is much easier when you're actually getting laid.

Ask any priest.

Well everyone of us possess an individual soul. So I can't speak about what another soul has done or will do. But as for me, I can declare that with God all things are possible. Whether it be me finding a wife or me living a life of celibacy.

As long as I am serving God and doing the work that He has called me to do, I will be filled with Joy. You just can't go wrong with Jesus! It's always a win-win situation. Oh how I love Jesus! He's a great God! Hallelujah!