I would never marry a broke man .......

[Dupac]

sound like ms s man got cake, and he looking at her being a white girl thinking

"man she only wit that nigga for his bread.. that shit ain't right"

i mean ask yourself fellas...

if your boy was dating a white woman and you thought she was only fucking with him for his money, would you say something, or would you leave it alone??

me personally i wouldn't give a shit... to each their own... but some niggaz would feel like they gotta say something...

 

[a.mann]

Someone who lives paycheck to paycheck with no ambition

Someone who job hops becasue they can't learn skills to stick something out

A grown man who works at places like McD's or Subway

Someone with no savings.. .or 401k or some kind of retirement. To me it shows no plans for the future

All of those = broke

i totally understand where you coming from, but you gotta understand how that sounds to someone who's looking for red flags....

life is crazy, anything can happen to anyone.....and while you're absolutely correct in associating those things with characteristics you may determine to be undesirable... that shit sounds like if for any reason shit gets rough for a guy, the woman he married is not going to be there for understanding and support....

one of a married man's #1 insecurities is his ability to provide....hence the reason why most men would view your statement as a turn off..even if he was sitting on 6-7 figures in savings....

MsS is too old to be having you school her like this

I just hope she got her pen and paper out

 

[JDSTAYWITIT]

broke men shouldn't be getting married.

 

[Copper]

just like bodies of water u drink from the river b/c its moving foward u wont get sick (ambitions, goals, motivation)

but u dont drink out of water thats standing still like lakes or ponds (avoid them like the plague)

unmotivated broke marriages will be ur downfall...

nothing wrong with broke as long as thier striving for something better though

 

[a.mann]

broke men shouldn't be getting married.

there's a difference to being broke and being a bum ass nigga

my lady been with me when I had only $25 in my account to $25,000 (disposable income) and back again

so there is no guess work as to her being with me only because of money

I actually suggest young cats that got a lil paper, to chill out like they don't

to see were that chick they maybe feeling head is really at,what's her true motivation and intentions

cuz when hard times come, you don't want her leaving becuase of what you ain't got $$$$$

 

[deadeye]

broke men shouldn't be getting married.

I actually suggest young cats that got a lil paper, to chill out like they don't

to see where that chick they maybe feeling head is really at,what's her true motivation and intentions

 

[a.mann]

hahahaha

yeah I know

niggas like to floss and shine

yet don't want to attract golddiggers

 

[JDSTAYWITIT]

broke men shouldn't be getting married.

there's a difference to being broke and being a bum ass nigga

my lady been with me when I had only $25 in my account to $25,000 (disposable income) and back again

so there is no guess work as to her being with me only because of money

I actually suggest young cats that got a lil paper, to chill out like they don't

to see were that chick they maybe feeling head is really at,what's her true motivation and intentions

cuz when hard times come, you don't want her leaving becuase of what you ain't got $$$$$

i aint even concerning myself with what the female is talking about ...im talking about my bruthas .... aint no reason to get married when you aint right ...get your papper right or have a plan to get your paper right then if she the one you can do your thing .... i mean shit how you even paying for a coo wedding if you broke?

 

[a.mann]

I feel that

but getting married is more than about having a cool wedding

 

[The Prodigalson]

Most of the time I look broke unless I'm going out to a social gathering. Other than that I may have on some shorts or sweat pants tennis shoes and white T. I don't need labels on everyday.

 

[terbear]

i would never be with a woman who doesnt give head? does that statement make me a bad person

 

[MsSouthern]

@Prod ... same with my dad. You'd never know how well off he by the way he dresses. Shorts.. tshirts. and crocks are his daily attire. He buys almost everything on sale from wherever...He will even buy shorts at Costco if he thinks they are a deal lol

@Du ....We make about same amount annually ... with my bonuses I might make more... depending on how the year goes.

I'm guessing there is about a 7k to 10 k difference in our individual income

lol @ being a prude

 

[damnkp]

wwomen won't marry a broke nigga but they will fuck him and have his kids

 

[JDSTAYWITIT]

@a.mann

That was just an example of how not having yourself financially ready for such a commitment can effect the both of you in a particular situation .... I mean I'm all for holding each other down thru good and bad times ...but i just dont see why a dude would start a marriage off like that ... but thats just me

 

[texas409]

Damnkp you aint lying

 

[JDSTAYWITIT]

what?

 

[The Prodigalson]

@mssouthern is that you in your avi in your adult teen years?

@Dizzel3000 why do u have @lilloca in your avi

Oh shit shots fired.

 

[texas409]

Fuck no that ain't Ms S

 

[MsSouthern]

@conflict210

yes it is ... I have serveral from that photo shoot on the net and in print

 

[MsSouthern]

were you a elvis presley fan back then?

no I went by the sn Bettie Page though

google me