I Am WARNING You ALL: LONG Read...Do First Loves Ever Get Together Again?

[haute]

couldn't get through all of it but

ya'll are not going to make it

 

[ptnutz]

Let her go, them "naive Southern girls" run game too. I had one that was clingy too, but she was still a hoe. I went from being the other dude (didn't know I was until later), to the main dude, to finding out about the new other dude.

 

[bkkbully]

she belongs to the game...take that L and keep it moving. especially if your in the city with millions of women around you, have fun

 

[dalyricalbandit]

she belongs to the game...take that L and keep it moving. especially if your in the city with millions of women around you, have fun

quoted for that realness

 

[dallas' 4 eva]

Bruh I actually like to read but c'mon man seriously? Feel like I popped open The Stand when I saw how far I had to scroll down that damn page.

On another note, I got back with my first love hell she never really left so my experience don't count.

 

[Go figure]

theres a possibility to anything, there are no set rules to life other than the ones u make.

and u cant assume what the next man's intentions are. u do that to make urself feel better and believe ur the better guy and she wont be better off with him or someone else. then when u see her in a new relationship with big smiles ur soul will burn. with that said, get over it. especially if shes not giving u a chance.

it should be easy if shes going out of town. best thing to do is make no contact n do ur thing. then if she comes back or decides to contact u, u will be more level headed with a clear mind and u might not even want her back.

 

[MzKB]

 

[Young Thug]

A few months later I found out she was cheating on me with a co-worker.

This other guy has mentioned to her that if she just wants to be friends with him and return to me that's fine (which leads me to believe he is just using her for sex). They've been having sex for a month now.

I've never loved anyone like I've loved her (and vice-versa), and I don't want to be labeled as a stalker.

*'Can't relate*

Do you think I should write her a letter to her North carolina house so when she gets there she can read it? Or is this just an L I'm going to have to take no matter what? Speak IC.

Edited and summarized.

(smh @ me for reading all that)

Anyway, it's looks like "lunch nigga" strikes again.

It's a wrap bruh.

She'll come back to you once she's been used and abused, but...based on what you've said about her...she'll probably come back to you more damaged than she was when she was with you.

'Might even come back with have a baby or two as a "package deal."

Cut your losses and move on.

Your girl now belongs to the game.

Thats what I was thinking....does she basically belong to the game now, am i too late....the mixed signals she sent me aren't helping...Hes most likely fucking the shit out of her (admittedly more than likely, better than me) and she caught all these feelings. But OBVIOUSLY shes so fucking dumb to recognize game cuz shes not from the city... I mean look at the what the fuck hes saying...

I don't want her to fucking come back to me after this nigga is done using her...I'm from the city man....she goes to the next nigga and hes gonna abuse her, next nigga..then the next nigga....etc...smh again im not saying im the best person for this girl..but lets face it theres few people that are going to love you and accept you for everything you are

at the bolded&UNDERLINED oka......oka ummm.....smh

 

[Sour-Cream]

You didn't have to type all that shit b.

1. You lost your V-card to a bitch and popped her cherry.

2. Bitch got clingy, wasn't doing shit with her life so you cheated.

3. Bitch cheated on you back (she don't love you).

4. Bitch wants you back after lunch nigga came through and skeeted in that hoe.

5. You're lying about a bitch making youtube videos because you're trolling.

6. You still love that hoe.

You called/texted her and told her goodbye, she ain't respond, dead that shit. You're the rebound nigga.

 

[Young Thug]

that nigga fuckked the frame out her pussy&you want to kuff her i see your asking for this L

 

[B_A]

although i read 3 paragraphs of that depressing shit, i wouldnt giver her a second chance. she gonna have a guy on the side singing...

 

[MzKB]

ole you got what I need you say he's just a friend Biz Markie ass nigga

 

[buttuh_b]

You'll be straight duke. Best thing to do is let it go. There really is no point of holding on after a certain point.

 

[L.I.P.]

Thank you all

 

[BIGbaddBLACK]

Take it as a lessoned learned, Take the L keep it moving bro. You too hung up on that old pussy, that's been ravaged through by the other nigga.

 

[blackrain]

Michael Strahan ain't smiling no more after this

 

[blacktux]

Been/going through a similar situation so ill weigh on...with that being said...

Man i can't believe I read all that shit.

But yo, there is no salvaging yall relationship. From reading it, seems you just feel really regretful for cheating on her and treating her bad; and are trying to selfishly patch things up to ease your own mind.

Chalk it up and retain what you learned, and do better your next go around.

None of that "friend" shit either, cut it completely, let it bleed out, and become a better man because of it.

Thats life.

 

[achewon87]

The answer is No.

Homie your under 25 and live in a city with 8 million people, and you are up in here crying about 1 girl; out of lets say 4 million. Really? Live your life, why do you want to be locked down in a relationship is beyond me. I mean you already stated that you cheated on her, if you weren't in a relationship it would not have been cheating just plain ol' fashioned fucking, wouldn't that be easier than sneaking around and then thinking your girl is doing the same shit, SMH.

On her part, no one put a gun to her head and made he smash the next man, that shit was all her and she wanted it. SMH @ you thinking cause she is country, she don't know shit. Do you even really know her? Was she even really a virgin?

So many questions that you will never really know the answer to, cut bait and run, plenty of bitches in the city of 8 million stories. Not worth sticking around to find out.

 

[AZTG]

Yo I read to till the part where you typed how she cheated and you are willing to forgive her.

Yo this is the realest advice your gonna get. You softer then cotton candy son. Stop crying, find a backbone, put all her shit in a box, leave it in front of your door, tell her to come pick it up and to not call or email you again.

She wants to work things out with you and keep fucking the other dude, and you over there caring for this hoe? Man I wish a bitch would make a YouTube video apologising to me soon as she got done fucking the other dude.

Again, you softer then cotton candy son, stop it and man the fuck up.

 

[nawledge_god]

I'm Gonna Need A Kindle And Some A Chai Latte To Read All That Shit