How to Get Marriage off Your GF's Agenda.....

  • Thread starter Thread starter New Editor
  • Start date Start date

Kat

New member
If she's a good girl why would you want to do that to her?

Let her go before you turn her bitter or worse.
 
Hey man just tell her you aint ready. It isnt her, it is you. typical talk. Let her make the decision then.

Commit is a big thing.

Funny part is if you are already exclusive. Sit her down and find out her timeline. All women have timeline if they are talking about marriage.
 
Last edited:
Tha Killa;6572854 said:
Lou Cypher;6572829 said:
Sounds like your scared.

Scared of what?

Commitment.

Love.

all that shit.

Sounds like you got the full package here but for some reason your afraid to hold on to it.

Why wouldnt you put a ring on it eventually? to always keep your options open?

 
Well the last thing you wanna do is jump into a commitment like marriage, when you know you're definitely not ready. Don't let pressure sway you into doin something you don't wanna do.
 
Lou Cypher;6572893 said:
Tha Killa;6572854 said:
Lou Cypher;6572829 said:
Sounds like your scared.

Scared of what?

Commitment.

Love.

all that shit.

Sounds like you got the full package here but for some reason your afraid to hold on to it.

Why wouldnt you put a ring on it eventually? to always keep your options open?

I can see how you inferred this but I'm not scared of love/commitment etc...

I've seen 30 year relationships succeed without them ever getting married (my grandparents), and I've also seen a lot of relationships fail after they cross the aisle. For example, my grandma had 3 marriages end in divorce until she met my grandpa. I guess marriage was just never something I aspired to have or something that ever appealed or will ever appeal to me.
 
Last edited:
No...That's not what he wants...Don't derail the thread...He wants to have his cake and eat it too...Cheat, nigga...Don't let her go though, she's a big fish...Keep a pack of sardines to snack on...I won't judge you for being a selfish prick.
 
Tha Killa;507480 said:
I been dating a girl I met in hs and recently got back in touch with. Shit has been going pretty well. She's mad beautiful inside and out, smart (college grad about to go for her Master's), has a good job and she's independent. Prollem is, I know she'll wanna walk down that aisle eventually and its no secret that I ain't really the marrying type. We really dig each other and wanna see where this can go but I needs you niggas to help me figure out a way to change her mind about that shit.

We've had a few talks about it but I know that since her twin sister is happily married, she'll wanna be married before long too. Am I gon' have to get while the gettin's good and then split or is there a way for a nigga to have his cake and eat it too?

Any of yaw had this same issue before?

Honestly I would just let her go bruh. If she chooses to come back to you then you can't be held responsible
 
shit happens;6572890 said:
What she look like?

Do she got dat ass?

Post her pics

She's mad pretty, got caramel brown skin, and she's thick as fuck (think of a shorter Pico with bigger titties). I don't really feel like uploading a pic right now but I might temporarily change my avi to a pic of her and her twin or something.
 
You'll never change her mind. This the same shot we call females dumb for trying to do...change a person into who they want them to be. You know what she will want and that you won't give it to her so why waste her and your own time? You could spend that time finding/ with a chick who don't want marriage instead of starting the foundation for another misguided "this bitch is crazy" story
 
Tha Killa;6572978 said:
shit happens;6572890 said:
What she look like?

Do she got dat ass?

Post her pics

She's mad pretty, got caramel brown skin, and she's thick as fuck (think of a shorter Pico with bigger titties). I don't really feel like uploading a pic right now but I might temporarily change my avi to a pic of her and her twin or something.

WE DON'T BELIEVE YOU! YOU NEED MORE PEOPLE...until upload the pic
 

Members online

Trending content

Thread statistics

Created
-,
Last reply from
-,
Replies
81
Views
0
Back
Top
Menu
Your profile
Post thread…