How many of you lazy hoes know how to make a plate for your man

[haute]

Im have always said this.. I think its about respect at the end of the day.. Im big on respect.. And I dont give a damn about the food per say.. But what it signifies means the world to me.. If my lady wont get me a plate especially if she so called loves me.. Then what else wont she do for me..

All this individuality and independence is just fuckin things up.. A relationship is the exact opposite of being independent and being all about yourself.. Its about both.. Its about the union of 2 to become one.. Shit is disheartening to see that people think they are above making thier mate happy.. Or makin thier make look good in the eyes of others.. As a woman if u cant make me a better men.. The really what is your purpose..

This is in no mean directed at the women who know wassup...

^^^^

and thats what its comes down to loving someone means your willing to take a back seat sometimes, youre willing serve sometimes, youre willing submit to your partner sometimes

and it goes both ways

all I know is if your girl says she loves you, but cant bring herself to do certain things for sake of 'independence"

she don't love you, not for real for real

because even my bougie as will cook

jus sayint

 

[missjcapri]

Lmao so y'all are in here actually arguing about who brings the plate of food ??lol smh...............

 

[Rell Mayne]

sweetheart.....I don't think lady c called you a bitch anywhere....you don't have to call her one.

Resorting to bitch and ho and childish in an arguement.

A yo let me instigate...

 

[lady_c]

Not only is your thinking about gender roles outdated, so is your typing.

smh @ stuck-in-the-past-niggas typin ic smilies from 2007 like it's gonna show up. ":td"

lol i know right :mad

 

[MsSouthern]

Sweetheart CAME @ the IC OLD HEADS?

WHAT!!!

And they aint DO NOTHIN?!!

you're funny Rell

 

[Blue Virgo]

Tha Killa was making references to traditions which are typically held in the South concerning gender roles and whatnot; especially about fixing plates. Now I will say, if some old lady knocked my plate out of my hands b/c my partner ain't fixing it, I'm knocking that old lady's plate out of her hands; maybe something else for coming @ me and mine like that (which I think he was referring to, correct me if I'm wrong Killa).Y'all know my views, 2 hands, 2 legs...not a problem w/me doing it. She can make it up other ways. Simple as that.

oh, ok. thanks!

 

[dr. zero_ahh]

You say that as if Emm aint a old head either....Carry on

Stop tryna start shit. I been using this font for years...

 

[THEsweetheart92]

lol you are a clown.

i see why i never noticed you until today.

lol you notice me now tho.

; )

 

[MsSouthern]

sweetheart.....I don't think lady c called you a bitch anywhere....you don't have to call her one.

Resorting to bitch and ho and childish in an debate.

name calling = feelings caught 99% of the time

 

[hummingbird]

So woman Ya'll basically trained to submit and be a slave or else be alone.Niggas sit back and do whatever they want and ya'll got FT jobs at home and at work.

All these baby boy niggas need woman fixin they plate like they cant do it themselves pussy niggas.This shit is crazy.LOL @ All the chicks emphatically sayin this is what they Supposed to do.Then get mad at shoveanistic sterotypes

See this is what I was saying earlier. You guys have that view because your not getting the trade off or the give and take in it.

Esientally we do share in the household duties. The only differnce is we have assigned task so to speak. If you have siblings, im sure your mom made one do this and the other did that. Same shit.

I dont cook and clean and mow the lawn and wash the car and fix the sink AND work full time while he stays home and plays video games. It doesnt work that way.

I cook and clean and work (because I want to he would much rather me stay home if I wanted to) and he takes out the trash, mows, fixes the car and shit like that, and works fulltime also.

Some of you are jsut looking at it like we feel the need to do this for a lazy bum ass dude, which is so not the case. I do these things because it helps me show my appreciation for the man that he is and how he treats me

 

[Hobe cryant]

wooooow now fixing a plate = slavery.

i hate to see what cleaning the house is considered lol

Cooking,washin dishes,cleaning up the house,takin care of the kids,doin laundry,ironing,cleaning the bathroom = Modern day slavery.

My girl aint gotta do all that cuz I do it daily(except kids) why stop we both can do that shit.

 

[ccluvsau]

name calling = feelings caught 99% of the time

I didn't wanna say that cause then she's start tryna come at me lol and I don't have time to go back and forth....I'm tryna eat my fajita rollup.

 

[THEsweetheart92]

name calling = feelings caught 99% of the time

why is everybody instigating .??

 

[Cutler 26 INT's LOL!]

Some of these young females lost for real. And they wonder why these niggas be cheatin' all over the place. smh...

 

[Dupac]

i think the problem is that people are so used to seeing bad relationships, they consider this the norm,

and just assume any and all the extra work and sacrifice that it would take to build and maintain a good and health relationship is being foolish because from what they've seen it's impossible to make it work...

my girl got a little brother that's like 19, and one day yo told me

"for the longest man....i never really knew what kinda chick i wanted in my life.. i just wanted a bad bitch i oculd fuck, and when they got on my nerves i'd just leave them bitches alone...i thought niggaz was suckas for getting all caught up in their feelings...but after watching u and my sister..i finally realized that's the kind of shit i need in my life, that's what i really want.....and it's funny cuz yall the only people other than like old people i've ever even see act like that"

niggaz lack good examples these days...

 

[lady_c]

lol you notice me now tho.

; )

yeah kind of like when youre walking and notice a shit smell coming from the bottom of your shoe. damn, cant walk through that yard anymore!

 

[Rell Mayne]

Stop tryna start shit. I been using this font for years...

That aint wat Jay said

 

[THEsweetheart92]

yeah kind of like when youre walking and notice a shit smell coming from the bottom of your shoe. damn, cant walk through that yard anymore!

lmaooo ahahahahaha.

you done??

 

[Focal Point]

exactly my nig. a woman tryin' to make a dude's plate and his woman is there is straight up encroachment! she tryna tell ol' boy that the pussy is on the plate, for the eatin' whenever he wants it. My wife is from NC and she won't even let me get up from my seat to make my plate in cook-out/buffet style settings- even if its all family there. and it aint got shit to do with her OR me being trained. shit, my wife is a six figure woman- fuck she need me to train her for? but she still knows HOW TO TREAT HER MAN (Ya new age pepsi bitches- that shit was bause!).

lol excellent post

 

[hummingbird]

cuz some chick tried to bring hummingbird's man a plate at the IC cookout n shit went dzzown....

sweetheart was all like "i don't know why she trpping.. it's just a plate.. he coulda got his lazy ass up and got his own damn plate for all that"

then shit went down again.....these cookouts is crazy

LoL

all i read somewhere is Bird Smacked the Plate outta bitch hand or somethin

bird had the bitche jacked up by the beers n shit...

lmao @ niggaz just sliding the cooler out the way

Word on the streets You Was on the Phone callin Bitches to Jump Bird

Ya'll ass is crazy.

Rell, does MsIam fix your plate for you? WOuld she care if Shennika from up the blocked fixed your plate while she was standing right next to you?