How many of you lazy hoes know how to make a plate for your man

[dr. zero_ahh]

@ Tha Killa^^

and Doc Zero for good measure lol.

I couldn't even get my reply typed without laughing my ass off! It's just a plate man! If she did all that damn sweating in the kitchen and shit, I'll fix my own. That's just me tho. I mean if she wants to, that's fine...but I'd prefer to get it...I got specifics w/certain foods and whatnot.

 

[lady_c]

you missed the whole point. goodbye.

typical repsonse from someone born in the 90s i guess.

you are missing the whole point - somebodys gotta do it. let the new pepsi bitches tell it, they not gonna do shit. like at all. so wtf are they good for??? wtf kind of mothers will yall be?

 

[Nthngis4vr]

I'm on my way to Applebee's.

Anybody want something?

Pick n Pair: caesar salad & 3 cheese penne pasta

and a strawberry shooter.

Thanks CC

 

[isayas]

You won't really have a choice in the matter with your thinking lmao (you gonna be lonely or cheated on pick one)

Definitely be lonely. That's my lifelong dream, duke, next to bein' an RN.

 

[Blue Virgo]

you missed the whole point. goodbye.

lol @ goodbye.
that actually made me laugh.
:tu

 

[jackthemack]

typical repsonse from someone born in the 90s i guess.

you are missing the whole point - somebodys gotta do it. let the new pepsi bitches tell it, they not gonna do shit. like at all. so wtf are they good for??? wtf kind of mothers will yall be?

HAHA killin em softly

 

[Fundz O' Plenty]

Everytime u disagree wit these corny niggas they say the same redundant "You need a role model" or "You must not have a father" response u niggas wack.

Shouts to Emm holla a real nigga who can disagree respectful and get his point across

Get off ya knees pussy!

A good look that is not.

 

[THEsweetheart92]

typical repsonse from someone born in the 90s i guess.

you are missing the whole point - somebodys gotta do it. let the new pepsi bitches tell it, they not gonna do shit. like at all. so wtf are they good for??? wtf kind of mothers will yall be?

lmao new pepsi bitches? i like that.

 

[hummingbird]

you missed the whole point. goodbye.

Your post made it seem like you were saying we shouldnt do it because its tradtionally a womans role. So if you refuse to fix a plate because yoou think its chauvinistic thinking in essence, and then you turn around and say cleaning and caring for children is a "womans tradtion" also, then it makes it seem like you would refuse to do those also just because of the same reason you wont fix your man a plate.

I think what the problem is white some of you, you dont see the give and take in it. Your use to messing with men who expect you to do the womanly things but dont want to do the tradtional manly things in return for you.

I dont have that in my relationship. I cook and clean. He takes care of the cars and lawn and maintence things. Its not like im having to do everything a woman and a man traditionally do.

 

[caddo man]

No caddo................ Broke ass nigga.

LOL! I was waiting on that.

 

[Fundz O' Plenty]

LOL! I was waiting on that.

lol, you're welcome nigga.

 

[caddo man]

Both sides have a point. I'd fix my man's plate cause that's how I grew up.....Momma always taught me to do so....but it's refreshing to see men who have no qualms making their own plate....when men start to demand that shit, it''s REALLY unnattractive....I'll do it because I love you not because you "put your foot down" or whatever....

at the end of the day, do what works for you

You are right. I have kids and the kids get their plate first. It doesnt matter who is making the plate. I usually cook so my wife gets a plate first.
But it is a good look for a woman to fix her man a plate at a function. I would get up and make her a plate if she couldnt or I was already up.

 

[hummingbird]

Both sides have a point. I'd fix my man's plate cause that's how I grew up.....Momma always taught me to do so....but it's refreshing to see men who have no qualms making their own plate....when men start to demand that shit, it''s REALLY unnattractive....I'll do it because I love you not because you "put your foot down" or whatever....

at the end of the day, do what works for you

I think thats part of it too. People are thinking we do it because our men said we HAVE to do it. My s/o would get up and fix his own plate if I didnt do it for him. Not once has he ever even asked me to fix him a plate. I do it cause I want to not because he expects me to. Thats were people get confused. They get so caught up in the "Dont tell me what to do" shit that they forget that you dont always have to do the opposite of what other people think just to prove you are a strong woman.

 

[THEsweetheart92]

Your post made it seem like you were saying we shouldnt do it because its tradtionally a womans role. So if you refuse to fix a plate because yoou think its chauvinistic thinking in essence, and then you turn around and say cleaning and caring for children is a "womans tradtion" also, then it makes it seem like you would refuse to do those also just because of the same reason you wont fix your man a plate.

I think what the problem is white some of you, you dont see the give and take in it. Your use to messing with men who expect you to do the womanly things but dont want to do the tradtional manly things in return for you.

I dont have that in my relationship. I cook and clean. He takes care of the cars and lawn and maintence things. Its not like im having to do everything a woman and a man traditionally do.

WRONG......

plus, you just said that you are not gonna mind me because i'm imature and shit

sooo don't.

 

[Whatcha wearing?]

so youre not going to clean your house or take care of your kids either???

I didn't see her say that. Maybe she wants to do some of those things but not all of them. Maybe she wants her man/husband to share in those duties with her. It shouldn't be all up to the woman to do all of the household responsibilities, just like it shouldn't be all up to the man to work and provide finances for the home. Marriage and relationships should be about equality and I see no reason why a man and a woman cannot share in the household duties. Maybe you could learn something from this young woman and up your standards in a man and not settle for a man that expects you to do ALL of the housework while he sits down on the couch in his draws playing PS3..

 

[hummingbird]

WRONG......
plus, you just said that you are not gonna mind me because i'm imature and shit
sooo don't.

Reading is fundamental darling. I never once said you are immature nor that i wasnt going to pay you any mind. Wrong poster. Also I didnt say thats how you ment it, I said thats how it came across.

 

[Simma II]

What did I miss?

 

[Fundz O' Plenty]

WRONG......

plus, you just said that you are not gonna mind me because i'm imature and shit

sooo don't.

*Wayne voice*

"She goin' in!"

 

[Fundz O' Plenty]

What did I miss?

lol, errything.....

 

[THEsweetheart92]

Reading is fundamental darling. I never once said you are immature nor that i wasnt going to pay you any mind. Wrong poster. Also I didnt say thats how you ment it, I said thats how it came across.

i know.. i love reading.