How long were you w/your significant other before you move in together?

[MacOne]

Congrats... I guess..

But a 2 year wait tho??

anyways, took me 6-7years and when we did, I still didn't full commit to the move until a year later..

I had two spots, one with her and I still had my spot with my boys (we had just renewed our lease), worked out great! Loved the arrangement, matter of fact, missed that arrangement.

yeah in that 2 year wait her dad died, we ,moved like 3 times, we werent getting along etc etc, its not like she said no and i just sat here and waited we had shit going on that affected both us deeply

 

[kat2180]

you lie we only dated 10 minutes, then you blocked me on aim and signed off

Ain't nothing changed in two years either!

 

[MacOne]

Ain't nothing changed in two years either!

Lol im confused as fuck

 

[jek]

Like maybe 6 months. We still together after 4 years. It's been some ups and downs I'm not gonna lie but it helps that I knew her and her fam for like 4 years prior so it's not like I'm sharing a place with some total stranger I met at the club or bar that I barely knew and rushed into a situation 6 months later.

 

[ImSoReal]

Ive never lived with any of my gfs, however; my current s/o and I are talking about moving in together in May, which would put as at 10 months

 

[twinzmom]

I have live with 3 different guys, 2 were like right after the 1st date.

3rd guy was like after 4-5 months.

Dude now we've been together 1yr 1/2 and we are planning for next month.

 

[huey]

I have live with 3 different guys, 2 were like right after the 1st date.

3rd guy was like after 4-5 months.

Dude now we've been together 1yr 1/2 and we are planning for next month.

you think moving in so soon affected your relationship negatively

 

[ImSoReal]

I have live with 3 different guys, 2 were like right after the 1st date.

3rd guy was like after 4-5 months.

Dude now we've been together 1yr 1/2 and we are planning for next month.

smh at moving in after the first date....damn women can be dumb

 

[twinzmom]

smh at moving in after the first date....damn women can be dumb

yep..............

 

[twinzmom]

you think moving in so soon affected your relationship negatively

Um..... No I dont think so. We never had those problems where I regretted the moving in part.

 

[blank..]

I just wanted to personally come in here and say that this might be the single worst thread this year, at the least.

 

[Plop Star]

after three months...............we broke up two months later.................smh

 

[Plop Star]

Um..... No I dont think so. We never had those problems where I regretted the moving in part.

you can move in with me after our first thread.......no kang and yannie tho

 

[kat2180]

After the first date though?

Hopefully that was pre-children.

 

[lamontbdc]

Shit forever. I met my girl when i was 19. Was messing with her on and off. Basically just fucking. 2 years later she pregnant. Even after that we weren't really together. When i got out of college i moved in with her and my daughter. Shit lasted bout a year. I was still slutting around and just wasn't ready for that shit. She moved back home with her folks. Bout 3 years ago we got more and more serious. Stopped arguing so much killed all the child support shit. And now we been living together for 2 years now

 

[blakfyahking]

My ex, after just two weeks, spent the night and just never left.

Worst three weeks of my life, I had to put her ass out.

well damn LOL

 

[-Vincenzo-]

I have live with 3 different guys, 2 were like right after the 1st date.

3rd guy was like after 4-5 months.

Dude now we've been together 1yr 1/2 and we are planning for next month.

you sound like the type of girl that desperately looks for love she never got from her parents/family. i dont want to know the story behind your child to be honest but i can imagine how that went down...

you should reconsider your ways, that sucker for love shit aint poppin really as you might have noticed by now

 

[nex gin]

I have live with 3 different guys, 2 were like right after the 1st date.

3rd guy was like after 4-5 months.

Dude now we've been together 1yr 1/2 and we are planning for next month.

The bolded has me absolutely speechless. Tell the truth ma.....u lowkey psycho crazy huh?

 

[mindright]

yeah in that 2 year wait her dad died, we ,moved like 3 times, we werent getting along etc etc, its not like she said no and i just sat here and waited we had shit going on that affected both us deeply

True indeed...

Again, congrats!!

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

the more broke a couple is, the sooner they'll move in together.