How do you go about...

[Chi-Town Bully]

^^^^All of this^^^^.
I wish a n*gga would. I'm not paying for any dates unless I should feel like it, not because I'm obligated. Sometimes I do feel like it, but a man should be prepared to pay EVERY time we go somewhere. Even when I tell him I'm paying, he should have money to cover it just on GP.

You no better than the T/S if you say you paying then you change your mind when the check come.

 

[The_Recruiter]

I don't think a dude should feel obligated to pay every time me and him go out. What kinda shit is that?

But not paying for her on the first date....you might as well forfeit.

Take her to the park or something free.

 

[blackrain]

^^^^All of this^^^^.
I wish a n*gga would. I'm not paying for any dates unless I should feel like it, not because I'm obligated. Sometimes I do feel like it, but a man should be prepared to pay EVERY time we go somewhere. Even when I tell him I'm paying, he should have money to cover it just on GP.

as should the woman...a broke ass grown man or woman is never cool...and some women need to get OUT of that mentality that just because you're a woman you shouldn't be prepared to pay for at least your own stuff when you're out

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

How many people in here think the dude should pay for the first date regardless of who asked?

I think she should at the very least offer to pay her way and be prepared to.

 

[GrizTitan]

as should the woman...a broke ass grown man or woman is never cool...and some women need to get OUT of that mentality that just because you're a woman you shouldn't be prepared to pay for at least your own stuff when you're out

Church!!!!!!!!!

 

[drunkenone]

as should the woman...a broke ass grown man or woman is never cool...and some women need to get OUT of that mentality that just because you're a woman you shouldn't be prepared to pay for at least your own stuff when you're out

One of the realest statements ever.

 

[allreasoned_out]

You no better than the T/S if you say you paying then you change your mind when the check come.

Most women would have a problem paying even if they asked the guy out. Smh.

 

[goldenja]

"oh you wanted MEEE to pay"

 

[allreasoned_out]

Ladies, what if the guy said that he wanted to split because he's a feminist? Let's say that you have reason to believe that's really a feminist.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

Ladies, what if the guy said that he wanted to split because he's a feminist? Let's say that you have reason to believe that's really a feminist.

That would be awesome(his asking if I could pay half) because I feel awkward when people pay for me.

 

[truth spitter]

your first date should be about getting to know the person, not ballin out of control...If you wining and dining on the first date u fucking up and setting a high standard for yourself you gonna have to uphold to a bitch that might not be worth it. Just do something fun first then see if the bitch is worth even taking out and speed some serious cash on...now if you talking about some petty $50 shit then smdh...if u can't pay that you shouldn't be going out period.

cosizzle........

 

[b@squ1@t redux]

whats it like to pay for pussy you clownbaby fucktards?

 

[7figz]

idkw, but I chuckled when I read this.

Yea I've done it, and the female either

1. Has their mouth open like I'm going to say "just joking..."
   
2. Looks dead serious like they're worried whether or not they brought money.
   

 

[A$AP_A$TON]

If u at a restaraunt you say to the waiter or waitress, can we get two seperate bills. Or if you goin to the movies you go ahead and buy one ticket and they'll get the point.

 

[A$AP_A$TON]

I remember one Sunday me and my fam went out to eat after Church, my brother was there with his gf and the bill came and ery bodys payin they bill. But my mom noticed dat my bro was lettin his girl pay for her own meal and made a scene out of it. Before you know damn near all the women at the table were jumpin on dis nigga. It was real awkward for every body, dis nigga was gettin heated. Lol. I sat there wit a smirk on my face and eased out wit out payin my own bill.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

Yea I've done it, and the female either

1. Has their mouth open like I'm going to say "just joking..."
   
2. Looks dead serious like they're worried whether or not they brought money.
   

I would have liked to been a table across just to see those faces lol

 

[Iheart~Cali]

Ladies, what if the guy said that he wanted to split because he's a feminist? Let's say that you have reason to believe that's really a feminist.

Then that will be our first and last date. I don't split. If I want to pay I'll let you know beforehand so it's all taken care of. Otherwise just assume you're paying for all of it.

 

[babafryo]

lol because i know black women/hispanic women would never stand for this, i never even try. but i have never paid for a date with a white chick. the future is BROWN.

 

[The_Recruiter]

lol i never saw that as a big deal. i mean yea us as women do get spoiled with not paying but i'm not gonna raise an eyebrow if they ask to go dutch

but still....not on the first date dude. go for the free date

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

The first date IS when things should be dutch, it's when things start to get more serious that things could/should be paid/offered to be paid for.