How do you go about...

[MICHAEL-V.I.]

...

letting someone know that you won't be paying their way on the first date? What's some clever ways to saying "We're going Dutch" without being an ass or looking cheap?

you tell her you're poor and destitute and we goin dutch, cause you're a struggling college student

she don't like that?

tell her ass 2 go and get ran by that nigga who ridin hard and see what she say

It aint about bein an ass , it's about tellin her ass like it is

You no sucker for love ass nigga

tell her it's still trickin if you got it

I bet she laugh and you in there like swimwear

 

[MICHAEL-V.I.]

The first date IS when things should be dutch, it's when things start to get more serious that things could/should be paid/offered to be paid for.

will there be Bible Study on yo first date Biblical?

where that baby come from?

 

[MICHAEL-V.I.]

I'm piss poor

Date?

I got DirecTv / I got NBA and NFL and MLB packages to pay for

DATE?

we talkin bout DATIN?

Nigga'z don't date , they FB and Twitter, that's all you need

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

will there be Bible Study on yo first date Biblical?

where that baby come from?

There better be good conversation in some shape or form, looks don't keep my attention to long.

The baby is from the internet, bing I think.

 

[babafryo]

The first date IS when things should be dutch, it's when things start to get more serious that things could/should be paid/offered to be paid for.

please let them know, why would anyone invest their money in an unsecure market?

 

[Iheart~Cali]

please let them know, why would anyone invest their money in an unsecure market?

It's not an investment, it's a gamble. And if you should so happen to place a wrong bet, well then tough break.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

And that's why it should be dutch, cuz if the gamble goes down the toilet, they both 'lose' equally.

 

[Elle_Music]

I always go dutch on the first date.... I wouldn't feel comfortable otherwise.... however if he didn't at least offer to pay for me, i might feel some kind of way about it

 

[The_Recruiter]

What a cute puppy

 

[Iheart~Cali]

And that's why it should be dutch, cuz if the gamble goes down the toilet, they both 'lose' equally.

I can't agree. If you asked me out, you should be prepared to pay.

 

[Iheart~Cali]

Also isn't the point of conversation BEFORE the date to get to know the person so you're not just taking out any old girl without knowing if you're going to enjoy yourself or not?

 

[Nthngis4vr]

I can't agree. If you asked me out, you should be prepared to pay.

totally agree with this.

 

[thecomebacklegend]

I can't agree. If you asked me out, you should be prepared to pay.

how come hoes not prepared 2 smash if they give u their number

 

[b@squ1@t redux]

cali gets lames to pay her to plunge 2 X 4's in her cavernous snatch so of course dude gotta ante up on that 1st

 

[babafryo]

It's not an investment, it's a gamble. And if you should so happen to place a wrong bet, well then tough break.

well put. however not a gambling man post.

 

[babafryo]

Also isn't the point of conversation BEFORE the date to get to know the person so you're not just taking out any old girl without knowing if you're going to enjoy yourself or not?

so first date we go walk in the park/stroll the beach, cool?

 

[Niggersauce]

that's so tacky.

Who ever asked should pay.

Thread closed

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

I can't agree. If you asked me out, you should be prepared to pay.

And for me I bring money and offer to pay half, if they insist they will cover it I let them. Different strokes I suppose.

 

[J.Greenz]

If I'm feeling her I'll pay, but if I'm not, I'll ditch her with the check.

 

[bbwthick23]

there's not a way

just pay for the date

exactly....