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you're gonna look cheap either way so...yeah

but chicks should know to bring enough money to cover themselves JUST in case something like that happens. I wont even go out if im broke honestly.
 
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The_Recruiter;1976596 said:
interesting....even if i offered most dudes wouldn't accept my money.

if i asked a dude out on a date, i would pay for him.

That's because they're afraid you'll hold it against them.

The way I see it is, if you're genuinely interested in getting to know me, then you should be willing to pay your share.
 
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hey, it's a recession out chea!

lol naw but my home girl was saying on FB that she goes dutch cuz that way if the date goes bad nobody feels burned at the end. Y'all basically chilled. I agree with her so I was seeing if there was a slick way to go dutch cuz i know i paid for some dates that i regret. *kanye shrug*
 
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Kay.;1980675 said:
If you're worried about money, just ask her out to coffee.
That way even if you end up paying it'll just be a few dollars.
But take her to a decent coffee house, not dunkin doughnuts.

Does not drink coffee post.. A extra large hot chocolate.. and the finest of the dunkin donuts
 
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tell the ho u not paying 4 her meals 2 see if she only trying 2 get the free meals cause buying hoes meals not gonna get u anywhere with the ho anyway
 
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its the first date you dont have a choice even if she asked you , to not pay for the first date is a crime punishable by death my nigga
 
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#Kew;1976146 said:
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letting someone know that you won't be paying their way on the first date? What's some clever ways to saying "We're going Dutch" without being an ass or looking cheap?

you tell a female you aint payin for her on yalls FIRST date, there is no way you can do that without looking cheap.

man just wait till u got the cash. cause i guarentee she wont be fuckin with u afterwards if u pull that shit
 
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How many people in here think the dude should pay for the first date regardless of who asked?
 
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your first date should be about getting to know the person, not ballin out of control...If you wining and dining on the first date u fucking up and setting a high standard for yourself you gonna have to uphold to a bitch that might not be worth it. Just do something fun first then see if the bitch is worth even taking out and speed some serious cash on...now if you talking about some petty $50 shit then smdh...if u can't pay that you shouldn't be going out period.
 
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Kay.;1980675 said:
If you're worried about money, just ask her out to coffee.

That way even if you end up paying it'll just be a few dollars.

But take her to a decent coffee house, not dunkin doughnuts.

This.

If you make a a female pay on the first date no matter who asked that will be the last date. Might as well delete her number after. Because you'll be all types of "cheap, broke ass nigga who couldn't afford 30 dollars" to her friends
 
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fuc_i_look_like;1981024 said:
you tell a female you aint payin for her on yalls FIRST date, there is no way you can do that without looking cheap.

man just wait till u got the cash. cause i guarentee she wont be fuckin with u afterwards if u pull that shit

^^^^All of this^^^^.

I wish a n*gga would. I'm not paying for any dates unless I should feel like it, not because I'm obligated. Sometimes I do feel like it, but a man should be prepared to pay EVERY time we go somewhere. Even when I tell him I'm paying, he should have money to cover it just on GP.
 
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