How do y'all feel about dudes who don't smoke or drink?

[Splackavelli]

It's an EXTREME turn on/plus in my book. I hate the smell of any type of smoke, so that's my number 1 pet peeve. If he drinks at all, he would have to be a very lite drinker. Not a fan, but it's not a deal breaker. I like men who pursue a healthy lifestyle like I do.

ok so you can deal with a man who drinks lightly but what if the smoker had enough respect to not smoke or be high in your presence. what if he was a light smoker and lastly what if he was well to do and not your average stereotypical weedhead slacker and kept a neat appearance.

Nope, no can do. That odor lingers on your skin and clothes and I simply refuse to be around it and the chemicals/pollutants it expels. Barring drinking & driving/getting violent while drunk, you're basically only hurting yourself physically with drinking...with smoking, there really aren't any workarounds. If you don't have enough sense and respect for your body to keep your lungs/airways in the best conditions possible then I can't respect you or be with you. Non-negotiable.

well, as we know there are other ways to enjoy cannabis other than smoke inhalation. would you consider someone who ingest cannabis by way of cookies or brownies or boils the buds for tea? as for barring drinking and being violent behavior nowadays I am an occasional smoker although in my high school and early college days I was a habitual smoker and being a recovering alcoholic I can tell you a pot head is way more harmless than an alcoholic. during my drunk phases I am angry vindictive I say hurtful things I shouldn't I take my anger out on others and I destroy property. it's almost like being a zombie. when high it's possible for others to make you angry I know from experience but I would never lash out. i'm just letting you know and if I was in a relationship I wouldn't be the type to try and turn my s/o onto it if it wasn't her thing.

 

[SixSickSins]

I'm happy that you've turned your life around and are hopefully much better But I'm just not down with taking drugs for recreational purposes.

 

[THOT PILGRIM]

Cigarette smoke is a no go though. Ever since I quit, I can't tolerate the odor

Bidis and black & milds are tolerable but no squares

 

[9TRAY]

^^

Bidis and Black & Milds are terrible

 

[A1000MILES]

I member I ran through two packs of Bidis in two days back in '09 when I first found out about em...Haven't done it since though...Pakis round here don't een have em in stock...

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

I'm a social drinker (2 drink max).

After this whole breastfeeding thing is done, I'm not sure if I'm going to continue on this sober route. I'm a smoker. I can completely function without it. I just prefer to smoke.

I had a couple ex's who didn't smoke and me doing it wasn't a problem, but I do prefer to smoke with my partner.

But if my partner didn't- he'd have to be funny af lol

 

[Splackavelli]

I'm happy that you've turned your life around and are hopefully much better But I'm just not down with taking drugs for recreational purposes.

"taking drugs for recreational purposes" and what do you think alcohol is young lady?

 

[HafBayked]

ay ya'll.....wtf is a bidi?

 

[PILL_COSBY]

Lol. The fuck??? How can that possibly be a bad thing or a turn off? I'd be interested to hear from any ladies who feel like that.

Yo, usually when I'm hanging around some chicks(from all walks of life) a conversation pops up about dranking or smoking. Or when I'm out somewhere that has alcohol. As soon as I tell them that I don't drink or smoke. They get this look on their faces like they just seen a ghost or something. If it's a group of chicks every now and then only 1 of them are happy/cool about this lol. This is how the scene usually goes down.

Alcohol/smoking comes up:

females: I be dranking on this blah blah blah that's hella good blah blah blah I was gone last night!! blah blah blah what you dranking on? Hey 7 rolls royces, what you like to drank?

Me: I don't drink.

Females: (silence & blank stares) You don't drink...... ..... ...do you smoke..... ..?

me: Nope, I don't smoke either

females: Wow!..........ummm..... ... well what do you do then?.... ... I mean...... is it for spiritual reasons?

Me: Ummm, what are you talking about? what do you mean by what do I do? Am I supposed to be doing something?

Females: Ummm, well......I......I mean that's cool, that's...that's nice, congratulations. I mean there's nothing wrong with that I guess...... ...

Me: Well damn!, is that like a problem or something? I usually get that response.

Females: I mean..........nothing is wrong with it, it's just.........rare, that's all

Cigarette smoke is a no go though. Ever since I quit, I can't tolerate the odor

The conversation is the reverse whenever it's about smoking lol.

Bidis and black & milds are tolerable but no squares

I'm a social drinker (2 drink max).

After this whole breastfeeding thing is done, I'm not sure if I'm going to continue on this sober route. I'm a smoker. I can completely function without it. I just prefer to smoke.

I had a couple ex's who didn't smoke and me doing it wasn't a problem, but I do prefer to smoke with my partner.

But if my partner didn't- he'd have to be funny af lol

Could you ladies please explain? I think this might have went over my head.

 

[PILL_COSBY]

I'm happy that you've turned your life around and are hopefully much better But I'm just not down with taking drugs for recreational purposes.

"taking drugs for recreational purposes" and what do you think alcohol is young lady?

LOL I think she means "abusing" the shit just for the fuck of it. The same for alcohol too. Like drinking just to get fucked up, not because it taste good. Lets' be honest, most alcohol don't taste good at all. I have tasted some shit that everybody be constantly talking about. I tasted that shit and damn near threw up or the drink had a weird ass taste. Nothing to be ranting and raving about like they all do over it lol. The alcohol that actually taste good is not popular and you will get laughed at if you drink it smh.

ay ya'll.....wtf is a bidi?

LOL ol country ass nigga. I forgot that they wasn't that big down south. Back in the mid 90's for a brief moment people use to smoke them. Mostly us youngstas because they were saying that it wasn't addictive and it was just the "in thing" at the time. They basically was a bootleg little ass cigs. They only lasted for about 3 years lol. Kinda like how people was using zig zags until they started using black and mild paper.

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

@7_rolls_royces

You know I just had a bby, right?

Well, I'm breastfeeding. Which means no smoking and I haven't even attempted to drink anything. Hence the 'sober route'. But, I'm not going to breastfeed him forever tho. And I'm not sure if I wanna get off the 'sober wagon'.

But when I was smoking, I preferred that my partner smoke with me. It's just weird being around somebody doesn't.

The 'funny' comment was because some people that I've come across who don't do either are...well...boring to an extent.

 

[PILL_COSBY]

@7_rolls_royces

You know I just had a bby, right?

Well, I'm breastfeeding. Which means no smoking and I haven't even attempted to drink anything. Hence the 'sober route'. But, I'm not going to breastfeed him forever tho. And I'm not sure if I wanna get off the 'sober wagon'.

But when I was smoking, I preferred that my partner smoke with me. It's just weird being around somebody doesn't.

The 'funny' comment was because some people that I've come across who don't do either are...well...boring to an extent.

I thought being sober was not being on anything that unnaturally fucks with your brain/body chemistry. So you saying just because you have like 2 drinks that's not being sober......? Not getting intoxicated = sober, so a casual drinker like yourself is always sober. It made your post seem like you were saying "as soon as I get this little nigga of me ima be drunk as a mothafucka!!!" lol.

why is it weird for you to be around a man who doesn't inhale deadly toxins and smell like an ash tray?(smoking)?

What's so great/fun about a man that smokes to you?

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

@7_rolls_royces

Imho, 2 drinks isn't enough to be considered drunk and I don't drink to get drunk. Just unwind and chill to be perfectly honest. I'm not in a rush to do any of that.

As far as smoking, it was something that I liked to do. It has nothing to do with anybody else. It's just a plus that I can do it with him.

 

[Valentinez A. Kaiser]

Lol. The fuck??? How can that possibly be a bad thing or a turn off? I'd be interested to hear from any ladies who feel like that.

Yo, usually when I'm hanging around some chicks(from all walks of life) a conversation pops up about dranking or smoking. Or when I'm out somewhere that has alcohol. As soon as I tell them that I don't drink or smoke. They get this look on their faces like they just seen a ghost or something. If it's a group of chicks every now and then only 1 of them are happy/cool about this lol. This is how the scene usually goes down.

Alcohol/smoking comes up:

females: I be dranking on this blah blah blah that's hella good blah blah blah I was gone last night!! blah blah blah what you dranking on? Hey 7 rolls royces, what you like to drank?

Me: I don't drink.

Females: (silence & blank stares) You don't drink...... ..... ...do you smoke..... ..?

me: Nope, I don't smoke either

females: Wow!..........ummm..... ... well what do you do then?.... ... I mean...... is it for spiritual reasons?

Me: Ummm, what are you talking about? what do you mean by what do I do? Am I supposed to be doing something?

Females: Ummm, well......I......I mean that's cool, that's...that's nice, congratulations. I mean there's nothing wrong with that I guess...... ...

Me: Well damn!, is that like a problem or something? I usually get that response.

Females: I mean..........nothing is wrong with it, it's just.........rare, that's all

The bolded always kills me with some people... as if the only logical reason for a person not to smoke or drink must be for religious/spiritual reasons!

And lol @ the congratulations also, like it's somewhat of an achievement in life not to indulge in this shit.

Give me props when you see me going without oxygen for 10 minutes

 

[BeardedFreak]

Just get in great shape and develop a playa ass personality. If ur body is ripped and personality is on point even the biggest drug and liquor head bird won't give a shit that u don't smoke or drink.

Also when the topic comes up, don't be so damn serious and learn to make jokes about why u don't smoke or drink

 

[T. Sanford]

Just get in great shape and develop a playa ass personality. If ur body is ripped and personality is on point even the biggest drug and liquor head bird won't give a shit that u don't smoke or drink.

Also when the topic comes up, don't be so damn serious and learn to make jokes about why u don't smoke or drink

I slack off for a month or 2 but I'm bout to get back into the gym. It wont take long for my muscles to develop because I only got a 12% body mass. Plus I'm bout to start back shooting ball. Exercising is one of the most important hobbies to do & it relieves alot of health issues

 

[T. Sanford]

I don't know what it is but whenever a chick found out that I don't drink, she tends to try to get me to drink lol (but I never do). I had a neighbor like that, she use to always say "T, you gon drink with me one day?".

Sometimes it lead me easy access to that pu**y from various chicks But I am a funny mfer, so must be a strong reason too

 

[A1000MILES]

ay ya'll.....wtf is a bidi?

A bidi is tobacco wrapped in hemp leaves...They look like little greenish brown joints...And because they wrapped in hemp you actually get a lil high from the shit...

 

[PILL_COSBY]

@7_rolls_royces

Imho, 2 drinks isn't enough to be considered drunk and I don't drink to get drunk. Just unwind and chill to be perfectly honest. I'm not in a rush to do any of that.

As far as smoking, it was something that I liked to do. It has nothing to do with anybody else. It's just a plus that I can do it with him.

On some real shit, yo ass all over the god damn place lol. You done switched up what you've said several times now. What the hell women!!?

I just asked you what was so special about a man who indulges in these activities. I also asked you what turns you off/your issue with a dude who didn't. Juts give me one serious solid answer to these questions woman!

Lol. The fuck??? How can that possibly be a bad thing or a turn off? I'd be interested to hear from any ladies who feel like that.

Yo, usually when I'm hanging around some chicks(from all walks of life) a conversation pops up about dranking or smoking. Or when I'm out somewhere that has alcohol. As soon as I tell them that I don't drink or smoke. They get this look on their faces like they just seen a ghost or something. If it's a group of chicks every now and then only 1 of them are happy/cool about this lol. This is how the scene usually goes down.

Alcohol/smoking comes up:

females: I be dranking on this blah blah blah that's hella good blah blah blah I was gone last night!! blah blah blah what you dranking on? Hey 7 rolls royces, what you like to drank?

Me: I don't drink.

Females: (silence & blank stares) You don't drink...... ..... ...do you smoke..... ..?

me: Nope, I don't smoke either

females: Wow!..........ummm..... ... well what do you do then?.... ... I mean...... is it for spiritual reasons?

Me: Ummm, what are you talking about? what do you mean by what do I do? Am I supposed to be doing something?

Females: Ummm, well......I......I mean that's cool, that's...that's nice, congratulations. I mean there's nothing wrong with that I guess...... ...

Me: Well damn!, is that like a problem or something? I usually get that response.

Females: I mean..........nothing is wrong with it, it's just.........rare, that's all

The bolded always kills me with some people... as if the only logical reason for a person not to smoke or drink must be for religious/spiritual reasons!

And lol @ the congratulations also, like it's somewhat of an achievement in life not to indulge in this shit.

Give me props when you see me going without oxygen for 10 minutes

LOL the conversation really gets awkward after I tell them that I'm not a religious person.

Just get in great shape and develop a playa ass personality. If ur body is ripped and personality is on point even the biggest drug and liquor head bird won't give a shit that u don't smoke or drink.

Also when the topic comes up, don't be so damn serious and learn to make jokes about why u don't smoke or drink

Where do you get the impression that I'm "so serious" in these conversations bruh? I'm usually a easy going playful person who cracks jokes all the time. I'm hardly ever "so serious". Especially when it comes to weird and awkward shit like this lol. They the ones that be all serious like they just got some news that somebody died.

 

[edwardnigma]

i wouldn't care unless he was on some i don't do it neither should you shit. he can do whatever makes him happy long as i can do the same. drugs are fun tho so i'll probably be a bad influence on them lol

Have fun but becareful with them drugs sweete,make sure you with people who look out for you,we don't need yo pretty black ass od'n on nothin