If kids are involved and you're a family unit then it only makes sense to take care of that family. A woman working part time hours and having to pay for good daycare ends up coming out to about even, especially if you have more than 1 kid together. I've also seen that "take care of the kids" turns into take care of them until the man gets home and then factor in how many hours kids spend in school after 3 years old, what are stay at home moms really doing?
If there aren't kids involved then tf are you doing with a freeloading, lazy woman? Bring up your expectations a bit.
