Had a very interesting convo about cheating last night

[2stepz_ahead]

women will respect you more if you are open about your sexual desire to sleep with other women, but if you are on some sneaky hide shit then you are playing her for a fool. when you cheat on the basis of not being able to control yourself you have effectively dishonored yourself and your wife

number 1 you have made yourself into a animal who can't control himself and number 2 you are going to make your girl feel that that other bitch is better than her now she has to worry about you leaving her but if you kept it real with her her mind would be more at ease.

And you know how some women are, the outside bitch will see your girl in the street and say something, girls are grimey like that.

I actually agree with the bolded.

As far as women respecting you being honest more that doesn't really hold true.

Most will be offended that you even came at them like that, and still think you ain't shit.

I've been the liar and the honest man to in years past.

All the truth does is make it harder from them to throw shit in your face later provided they make the choice to deal with you and you also don't have to sneak around as much.

I never cheated on my wife, but I had my fun in the years prior to meeting her and I can tell you that truth shit doesn't always set you free a lot of times it does nothing but complicate the situation more.

Depending on the situation sometimes it's better to keep certain things to yourself.

it's better to tell the truth and have them accept it or not, if they do then they chances are everyone could be happy if they don't then maybe you two going apart may be the best thing for everyone involved.

i want to enjoy life boldly and the relationships i have i live boldly if i had to lie and sneak just to fuck another women what would be the sense in that?? chances are my girl will find out and i rather not hurt her like that, it'll hurt anyway but the possible fall out if worse if you lie. what if the girl you cheat with gives you an std or gets pregnant??

think about how that's going to fuck your life up, it seems clear to me that the truth is the lesser of two evils.

women will respect you more if you are open about your sexual desire to sleep with other women, but if you are on some sneaky hide shit then you are playing her for a fool. when you cheat on the basis of not being able to control yourself you have effectively dishonored yourself and your wife

number 1 you have made yourself into a animal who can't control himself and number 2 you are going to make your girl feel that that other bitch is better than her now she has to worry about you leaving her but if you kept it real with her her mind would be more at ease.

And you know how some women are, the outside bitch will see your girl in the street and say something, girls are grimey like that.

I actually agree with the bolded.

As far as women respecting you being honest more that doesn't really hold true.

Most will be offended that you even came at them like that, and still think you ain't shit.

I've been the liar and the honest man to in years past.

All the truth does is make it harder from them to throw shit in your face later provided they make the choice to deal with you and you also don't have to sneak around as much.

I never cheated on my wife, but I had my fun in the years prior to meeting her and I can tell you that truth shit doesn't always set you free a lot of times it does nothing but complicate the situation more.

Depending on the situation sometimes it's better to keep certain things to yourself.

it's better to tell the truth and have them accept it or not, if they do then they chances are everyone could be happy if they don't then maybe you two going apart may be the best thing for everyone involved.

i want to enjoy life boldly and the relationships i have i live boldly, if i had to lie and sneak just to fuck another women what would be the sense in that where is the fun?? chances are my girl will find out and i rather not hurt her like that, it'll hurt anyway but the possible fall out if worse if I lie. what if the girl you cheat with gives you an std or gets pregnant??

think about how that's going to fuck your life up, it seems clear to me that the truth is the lesser of two evils.

naw bruh....the only thing that helped me out was not fukkin her. the truth added stress.

i keep alot of shit to myself because i know my wife cant handle it. and i know i cant handle her reaction.

i am honest with myself to say that i tell enough truths to be able to lie when needed.

the truth is very overrated.

i told my wife once about a chick in the DR that kept coming at my neck. i felt i should tell her so when she comes she wont be caught off guard. well next trip she stepped to the chick ready to fight. she should not have done that because i could handle it but i was trying to be honest. it only made the chick come at me harder and made my wife question my whereabouts more when im in the DR cause she know the chick is lurking. now if i didnt tell her, she would not have stepped to the chick nor would she have known. but then i'd be kinda lying but it would be peaceful but look crazy when the chick appeared and kept appearing. this is a situation where the truth hurt me more than it set me free.

but she also said she knows that bitch might break me down one day...just dont let her find out about it.

now before yall say it...i have to work with this woman...an to say dont put yourself in situations...how can you not put yourself in situations when someone is trying to make moves on you?

think about how many times you kept trying to get at a chick that wasnt interested. she may have made it know and made herself somewhat unavailable but did it always stop you?

Who showed interest first? Or how did it become obvious to both parties that there was sexual attraction? Who initiated?

have you been adament about not.messing with her? Or do you say "im good" with a smile on your face and still flirt and compliment her?

i am a natural flirt. i will flirt with any chick and my wife knows this and uses it to her advantage. but that doesnt always mean im trying to fukk...its like a second language to me. i just like to make chicks smile. thats my thing. my wife claims i flirt in front of her and i dont even know when i do it half the time.

anyway..she showed interest first,

And when you realized she was coming on to you, what was your response?

unlike other nigas on here...i can be honest.

i was like a fukkin 15 yr old kid cause this bitch is bad. very fukkin attractive, good personality, funny, successful and all that shit i like.

i cant say im not attracted to her but i can say i wont touch her...but if my wife and i ever separate or whatever...ill be in her country that night with condoms and flowers.

hey dont judge me....i am honest about who i am. no need to lie.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

While I understand where you trying to go this sound like some weak nigga shit (yeah I can do it...NIGGA I'M CURRENTLY DOING IT LOL)...you know how many students and parents done came at me...i turn them bitches down all the time and don't think twice about it afterwards. If a nigga aint go self control then he ain't much of a man in my eyes....maybe some of you niggas just aint had enough pussy yet because the only niggas I know who value pussy are the niggas who dont get it regularly. Why you niggas look at pussy/bitches like that is beyond me but I sho have fun laughing at these silly stories so carry on lol

that is a powerful statement you just made.

everyone has a vice or a weakness. every/any man can lose control. its not always about pussy.

and to say you turning away students and teachers.....really. i dont think you even understand what i am trying to say....right now you still speaking on a regular nigga level who aint been in the situation im trying to create. to compare teachers and students to chick that would be 9s and 10s on a global level is crazy.

dont act like a chick wasnt persistent in coming at you no matter what you said. so thats weak nigga shit because a chick coming at you now? i guess times are changing.

you too smart to say some dumb shit like the bolded (you one of the few people on here I actually think are intelligent don't let me down nigga lol). You a weak nigga if you can't CONTROL YOURSELF PERIOD. Sure everyone has vices (i smoke like a CHIMNEY but that shit dont control me ie losing jobs, late, fired,etc, I LOVE big titties but don't none of that shit control)...I'm suppose to fall for a bitches cause she light, pretty, phat, paid, etc...LMAOOOO i'm sorry but that is hilarious to me because thats some weak shit. But like i said if a nigga aint use to it then I understand but thank god I aint one of them niggas. I worked at Howard University for over 5 years...i done seen the baddest bitches on the east coast pretty much that shit is nothing to me..hell i done seen it so much that when I see a bad bitch I dont even do double takes no more (they just women to me at this point). Niggas need to start having some self worth in life.

While I understand where you trying to go this sound like some weak nigga shit (yeah I can do it...NIGGA I'M CURRENTLY DOING IT LOL)...you know how many students and parents done came at me...i turn them bitches down all the time and don't think twice about it afterwards. If a nigga aint go self control then he ain't much of a man in my eyes....maybe some of you niggas just aint had enough pussy yet because the only niggas I know who value pussy are the niggas who dont get it regularly. Why you niggas look at pussy/bitches like that is beyond me but I sho have fun laughing at these silly stories so carry on lol

that is a powerful statement you just made.

everyone has a vice or a weakness. every/any man can lose control. its not always about pussy.

and to say you turning away students and teachers.....really. i dont think you even understand what i am trying to say....right now you still speaking on a regular nigga level who aint been in the situation im trying to create. to compare teachers and students to chick that would be 9s and 10s on a global level is crazy.

dont act like a chick wasnt persistent in coming at you no matter what you said. so thats weak nigga shit because a chick coming at you now? i guess times are changing.

you too smart to say some dumb shit like the bolded (you one of the few people on here I actually think are intelligent don't let me down nigga lol). You a weak nigga if you can't CONTROL YOURSELF PERIOD. Sure everyone has vices (i smoke like a CHIMNEY but that shit dont control me ie losing jobs, late, fired,etc, I LOVE big titties but don't none of that shit control)...I'm suppose to fall for a bitches cause she light, pretty, phat, paid, etc...LMAOOOO i'm sorry but that is hilarious to me because thats some weak shit. But like i said if a nigga aint use to it then I understand but thank god I aint one of them niggas. I worked at Howard University for over 5 years...i done seen the baddest bitches on the east coast pretty much that shit is nothing to me..hell i done seen it so much that when I see a bad bitch I dont even do double takes no more (they just women to me at this point). Niggas need to start having some self worth in life.

but where am i saying i am not in control?

and lets not act like looks aint the first attraction

 

[2stepz_ahead]

gotdamn it we aint talking about me...stay the fukk on topic.

shit

 

[stilldat_dude]

While I understand where you trying to go this sound like some weak nigga shit (yeah I can do it...NIGGA I'M CURRENTLY DOING IT LOL)...you know how many students and parents done came at me...i turn them bitches down all the time and don't think twice about it afterwards. If a nigga aint go self control then he ain't much of a man in my eyes....maybe some of you niggas just aint had enough pussy yet because the only niggas I know who value pussy are the niggas who dont get it regularly. Why you niggas look at pussy/bitches like that is beyond me but I sho have fun laughing at these silly stories so carry on lol

that is a powerful statement you just made.

everyone has a vice or a weakness. every/any man can lose control. its not always about pussy.

and to say you turning away students and teachers.....really. i dont think you even understand what i am trying to say....right now you still speaking on a regular nigga level who aint been in the situation im trying to create. to compare teachers and students to chick that would be 9s and 10s on a global level is crazy.

dont act like a chick wasnt persistent in coming at you no matter what you said. so thats weak nigga shit because a chick coming at you now? i guess times are changing.

you too smart to say some dumb shit like the bolded (you one of the few people on here I actually think are intelligent don't let me down nigga lol). You a weak nigga if you can't CONTROL YOURSELF PERIOD. Sure everyone has vices (i smoke like a CHIMNEY but that shit dont control me ie losing jobs, late, fired,etc, I LOVE big titties but don't none of that shit control)...I'm suppose to fall for a bitches cause she light, pretty, phat, paid, etc...LMAOOOO i'm sorry but that is hilarious to me because thats some weak shit. But like i said if a nigga aint use to it then I understand but thank god I aint one of them niggas. I worked at Howard University for over 5 years...i done seen the baddest bitches on the east coast pretty much that shit is nothing to me..hell i done seen it so much that when I see a bad bitch I dont even do double takes no more (they just women to me at this point). Niggas need to start having some self worth in life.

While I understand where you trying to go this sound like some weak nigga shit (yeah I can do it...NIGGA I'M CURRENTLY DOING IT LOL)...you know how many students and parents done came at me...i turn them bitches down all the time and don't think twice about it afterwards. If a nigga aint go self control then he ain't much of a man in my eyes....maybe some of you niggas just aint had enough pussy yet because the only niggas I know who value pussy are the niggas who dont get it regularly. Why you niggas look at pussy/bitches like that is beyond me but I sho have fun laughing at these silly stories so carry on lol

that is a powerful statement you just made.

everyone has a vice or a weakness. every/any man can lose control. its not always about pussy.

and to say you turning away students and teachers.....really. i dont think you even understand what i am trying to say....right now you still speaking on a regular nigga level who aint been in the situation im trying to create. to compare teachers and students to chick that would be 9s and 10s on a global level is crazy.

dont act like a chick wasnt persistent in coming at you no matter what you said. so thats weak nigga shit because a chick coming at you now? i guess times are changing.

you too smart to say some dumb shit like the bolded (you one of the few people on here I actually think are intelligent don't let me down nigga lol). You a weak nigga if you can't CONTROL YOURSELF PERIOD. Sure everyone has vices (i smoke like a CHIMNEY but that shit dont control me ie losing jobs, late, fired,etc, I LOVE big titties but don't none of that shit control)...I'm suppose to fall for a bitches cause she light, pretty, phat, paid, etc...LMAOOOO i'm sorry but that is hilarious to me because thats some weak shit. But like i said if a nigga aint use to it then I understand but thank god I aint one of them niggas. I worked at Howard University for over 5 years...i done seen the baddest bitches on the east coast pretty much that shit is nothing to me..hell i done seen it so much that when I see a bad bitch I dont even do double takes no more (they just women to me at this point). Niggas need to start having some self worth in life.

but where am i saying i am not in control?

and lets not act like looks aint the first attraction

Where I am saying that you are not in control lol? Dont know how you got that out of that but ok. You made a statement and I corrected what you apparently thought I was saying and said its weak Period if you can't control yourself I don't care WHAT the scenario is...principles don't change with situations.

As for the second statement I never said it wasn't so I dont even know why that comment was made. I stated that a man shouldn't let ANY ONE aspect control him like that...Nigga did you even read what I wrote lol

 

[T. Sanford]

Don't let pussy control you. That's why you see all these niggas, getting their pockets ran thru by Child Support because they most of them valued pussy on the higher pedestal.

Niggas be talking that "I got them hoes, I bang bad bitches" but don't have a penny to their name.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

women will respect you more if you are open about your sexual desire to sleep with other women, but if you are on some sneaky hide shit then you are playing her for a fool. when you cheat on the basis of not being able to control yourself you have effectively dishonored yourself and your wife

number 1 you have made yourself into a animal who can't control himself and number 2 you are going to make your girl feel that that other bitch is better than her now she has to worry about you leaving her but if you kept it real with her her mind would be more at ease.

And you know how some women are, the outside bitch will see your girl in the street and say something, girls are grimey like that.

I actually agree with the bolded.

As far as women respecting you being honest more that doesn't really hold true.

Most will be offended that you even came at them like that, and still think you ain't shit.

I've been the liar and the honest man to in years past.

All the truth does is make it harder from them to throw shit in your face later provided they make the choice to deal with you and you also don't have to sneak around as much.

I never cheated on my wife, but I had my fun in the years prior to meeting her and I can tell you that truth shit doesn't always set you free a lot of times it does nothing but complicate the situation more.

Depending on the situation sometimes it's better to keep certain things to yourself.

it's better to tell the truth and have them accept it or not, if they do then they chances are everyone could be happy if they don't then maybe you two going apart may be the best thing for everyone involved.

i want to enjoy life boldly and the relationships i have i live boldly if i had to lie and sneak just to fuck another women what would be the sense in that?? chances are my girl will find out and i rather not hurt her like that, it'll hurt anyway but the possible fall out if worse if you lie. what if the girl you cheat with gives you an std or gets pregnant??

think about how that's going to fuck your life up, it seems clear to me that the truth is the lesser of two evils.

women will respect you more if you are open about your sexual desire to sleep with other women, but if you are on some sneaky hide shit then you are playing her for a fool. when you cheat on the basis of not being able to control yourself you have effectively dishonored yourself and your wife

number 1 you have made yourself into a animal who can't control himself and number 2 you are going to make your girl feel that that other bitch is better than her now she has to worry about you leaving her but if you kept it real with her her mind would be more at ease.

And you know how some women are, the outside bitch will see your girl in the street and say something, girls are grimey like that.

I actually agree with the bolded.

As far as women respecting you being honest more that doesn't really hold true.

Most will be offended that you even came at them like that, and still think you ain't shit.

I've been the liar and the honest man to in years past.

All the truth does is make it harder from them to throw shit in your face later provided they make the choice to deal with you and you also don't have to sneak around as much.

I never cheated on my wife, but I had my fun in the years prior to meeting her and I can tell you that truth shit doesn't always set you free a lot of times it does nothing but complicate the situation more.

Depending on the situation sometimes it's better to keep certain things to yourself.

it's better to tell the truth and have them accept it or not, if they do then they chances are everyone could be happy if they don't then maybe you two going apart may be the best thing for everyone involved.

i want to enjoy life boldly and the relationships i have i live boldly, if i had to lie and sneak just to fuck another women what would be the sense in that where is the fun?? chances are my girl will find out and i rather not hurt her like that, it'll hurt anyway but the possible fall out if worse if I lie. what if the girl you cheat with gives you an std or gets pregnant??

think about how that's going to fuck your life up, it seems clear to me that the truth is the lesser of two evils.

naw bruh....the only thing that helped me out was not fukkin her. the truth added stress.

i keep alot of shit to myself because i know my wife cant handle it. and i know i cant handle her reaction.

i am honest with myself to say that i tell enough truths to be able to lie when needed.

the truth is very overrated.

i told my wife once about a chick in the DR that kept coming at my neck. i felt i should tell her so when she comes she wont be caught off guard. well next trip she stepped to the chick ready to fight. she should not have done that because i could handle it but i was trying to be honest. it only made the chick come at me harder and made my wife question my whereabouts more when im in the DR cause she know the chick is lurking. now if i didnt tell her, she would not have stepped to the chick nor would she have known. but then i'd be kinda lying but it would be peaceful but look crazy when the chick appeared and kept appearing. this is a situation where the truth hurt me more than it set me free.

but she also said she knows that bitch might break me down one day...just dont let her find out about it.

now before yall say it...i have to work with this woman...an to say dont put yourself in situations...how can you not put yourself in situations when someone is trying to make moves on you?

think about how many times you kept trying to get at a chick that wasnt interested. she may have made it know and made herself somewhat unavailable but did it always stop you?

Who showed interest first? Or how did it become obvious to both parties that there was sexual attraction? Who initiated?

have you been adament about not.messing with her? Or do you say "im good" with a smile on your face and still flirt and compliment her?

i am a natural flirt. i will flirt with any chick and my wife knows this and uses it to her advantage. but that doesnt always mean im trying to fukk...its like a second language to me. i just like to make chicks smile. thats my thing. my wife claims i flirt in front of her and i dont even know when i do it half the time.

anyway..she showed interest first,

And when you realized she was coming on to you, what was your response?

unlike other nigas on here...i can be honest.

i was like a fukkin 15 yr old kid cause this bitch is bad. very fukkin attractive, good personality, funny, successful and all that shit i like.

i cant say im not attracted to her but i can say i wont touch her...but if my wife and i ever separate or whatever...ill be in her country that night with condoms and flowers.

hey dont judge me....i am honest about who i am. no need to lie.

lol at least you're honest. But I mean was her advance verbal.or physical? And what did you say to her?

 

[topoftheworld]

i keep alot of shit to myself because i know my wife cant handle it. and i know i cant handle her reaction.

i am honest with myself to say that i tell enough truths to be able to lie when needed.

the truth is very overrated.

i told my wife once about a chick in the DR that kept coming at my neck. i felt i should tell her so when she comes she wont be caught off guard. well next trip she stepped to the chick ready to fight. she should not have done that because i could handle it but i was trying to be honest. it only made the chick come at me harder and made my wife question my whereabouts more when im in the DR cause she know the chick is lurking. now if i didnt tell her, she would not have stepped to the chick nor would she have known. but then i'd be kinda lying but it would be peaceful but look crazy when the chick appeared and kept appearing. this is a situation where the truth hurt me more than it set me free.

but she also said she knows that bitch might break me down one day...just dont let her find out about it.

now before yall say it...i have to work with this woman...an to say dont put yourself in situations...how can you not put yourself in situations when someone is trying to make moves on you?

think about how many times you kept trying to get at a chick that wasnt interested. she may have made it know and made herself somewhat unavailable but did it always stop you?

^ this.

I love to read an anecdotal that is neither histrionic nor deprecating.

pitch perfect, sir.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

While I understand where you trying to go this sound like some weak nigga shit (yeah I can do it...NIGGA I'M CURRENTLY DOING IT LOL)...you know how many students and parents done came at me...i turn them bitches down all the time and don't think twice about it afterwards. If a nigga aint go self control then he ain't much of a man in my eyes....maybe some of you niggas just aint had enough pussy yet because the only niggas I know who value pussy are the niggas who dont get it regularly. Why you niggas look at pussy/bitches like that is beyond me but I sho have fun laughing at these silly stories so carry on lol

So you got the same types of chicks that go after celebrities literally doing anything and everything they can just to get at you? Really, you going to claim that?

I ain't saying that avoiding temptation is impossible or even hard, but as someone else already said everybody has a weakness and everyone has moments of weakness. It's unrealistic, to expect a 23 y/o kid like some of these athletes out there to go the rest of their lives without ever cheating when they will literally have the best of the best thrown at them all day every day.

 

[stilldat_dude]

U niggas killin wit me your lack of comprehension. t/s ain't say shit about celebrities (unless you consider booty models celebrities which I don't)...niggas stay changing the argument/scenario when a nigga debunk it...and yes I seen and had bitches try me that look just as good as the bitches yall drool over (if you know anything about Howard University and DC period then that shouldn't even surprise you because good looking females are everywhere). I dont expect most niggas to understand because most niggas have no self value or their value ain't worth shit. If a nigga can't control himself and show discipline then it sucks to be that type of nigga....thank god I'm not that weak of a man. Then some of you niggas wonder why yall got women issues...like seriously they are not fucking magical creatures niggas my god come on... have some fucking self worth.

 

[Ghostdenithegawd]

All IMA Say Is If You Get Your Wife Into Doing KEAGAL balls, (Pussy Exercise)

Her shit is going to automatically be better than 99% of the woman so what's the sense of touching them other woman when you're r girl got top flight pussy?

 

[Colin$mackabi$h]

Lies, and tempting situations are usually the reasons for cheating.

But how can one expect they partner to be controlling of all these?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

so from what i have learned from this thread.....99% of the niggas on the IC wont cheat

99% of the niggas dont see a point in cheating

75% see it as weak

and 75% has already had top of the global chain of bad bitches come at they neck and still turned them away.

and75% has total control of all vices

so if its so many upstanding dudes....where are all the niggas that cheat?

who are the bitches complaining about?

 

[stilldat_dude]

You do realize you exposing your own insecurities right lol? Niggas kill with the I'm "insert adjective" so everybody got to be also. Just cause some of you niggas cant do certain shit or haven't been in certain shit doesn't mean every other nigga is like you. Too much sheep mentality in the black "community". If you aint never had a bad bitch approach you suck to be you, if you don't have the ability to turn said bitch down sucks to be you but please stop projecting that weak shit on me cause you weak. And using these silly ass percentages makes you look even weaker and illogical...maybe I was wrong

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

Are you you looking for affirmation of your views on this topic from other dudes or something? Lol.

Just do you. If others are perpin like they dont agree and they do, then they are hypocrites. I will say this tho...in the past, I played both sides of the fence. I was young and really Judy getting out there. So I let my own selfish carnal desires trump moral thought and my conscience. I knew it was wrong and fessed up. We are not perfect. But I know now that I ain't built like that and I now know that i have enough will power to turn down any woman. Its been tried and tested.

 

[rip.dilla]

I witnessed an event that claimed the life of a dude who was cheating on his wife and a daughter with my (first) cousin in 07. I've told the story on here before..

It's like niggas are pressurised into marriage or union with one woman when they know deep down they can't stay faithful for shit. It defeats the whole purpose and endangers their personal lives.. .

 

[2stepz_ahead]

You do realize you exposing your own insecurities right lol? Niggas kill with the I'm "insert adjective" so everybody got to be also. Just cause some of you niggas cant do certain shit or haven't been in certain shit doesn't mean every other nigga is like you. Too much sheep mentality in the black "community". If you aint never had a bad bitch approach you suck to be you, if you don't have the ability to turn said bitch down sucks to be you but please stop projecting that weak shit on me cause you weak. And using these silly ass percentages makes you look even weaker and illogical...maybe I was wrong

Are you you looking for affirmation of your views on this topic from other dudes or something? Lol.

Just do you. If others are perpin like they dont agree and they do, then they are hypocrites. I will say this tho...in the past, I played both sides of the fence. I was young and really Judy getting out there. So I let my own selfish carnal desires trump moral thought and my conscience. I knew it was wrong and fessed up. We are not perfect. But I know now that I ain't built like that and I now know that i have enough will power to turn down any woman. Its been tried and tested.

@stilldat_dude‌

i think your looking at what i saying wrong.

i just find it funny that so many people all of a sudden have such high morals. some of yall do and thats good...but lets not act like everybody commenting is on some high moral shit. we all had bad chicks approach us and we all had at least a few bad bitches we smashed. but to say that its weak to fall for a chick is nonsense. now if you cant turn a chick away just because you getting attention....your point is good for that argument.

personally i think you throwing the word weak around too freely. and just because i call bullshit on something doesnt mean its an insecurity.

@KingSimba‌

i dont need anyone to agree with my views....this is a thread with conversation. and personally i just refuse to believe all the guys in here are soo faithful. thats just my stance. shit i have been on both sides of the fence that is why i can say...i did it but dont need to do it now.

but the thread is about will power in a situation you never been in. I can not say how i would be in that type of situation. saying what i would like to do is one thing but what i would do ..may be different.

 

[major pain]

^^See that.. I'm going in if she feeling a thug.

 

[stilldat_dude]

If a man isn't discipline and does not have the ABILITY to exhibit self control at all times than that is a weak "man" to me point blank period. Now if a man fully understands what the fuck he is doing and still CHOOSES to do said act then fine but all that oh this bitch was so fine I just became memorized and couldn't even think logically and function and I was just lost in this bitch spell and she had a nigga in lala land...foh....thats weak ass shit to me...anything else you stated I'm good wit.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

^^See that.. I'm going in if she feeling a thug.

if you're married.....why?

 

[zombie]

If a man isn't discipline and does not have the ABILITY to exhibit self control at all times than that is a weak "man" to me point blank period. Now if a man fully understands what the fuck he is doing and still CHOOSES to do said act then fine but all that oh this bitch was so fine I just became memorized and couldn't even think logically and function and I was just lost in this bitch spell and she had a nigga in lala land...foh....thats weak ass shit to me...anything else you stated I'm good wit.

This is my position as well