GnS Real Life 2016: How would you feel about your spouse having drastic weight change?

[S2J]

If yall cool with it, it shouldnt be no 'ima take her to the gym with me' bc that ship has SAILED. She done alrady got fat where was u?? Lls If she's already crossed that line, if she 30+ ? 90% of the time it is a WRAP. Your woman is now a bbw forever. Lets keep it 100

 

[shit happens]

As long as her mind and heart is right the other shit doesn't matter at tall. She could look like dat thang dat ate mamas garden. If i feel she's not up to par mentally and she's emotionally fragile I can't push myself on her no matter her looks. I've struggled with that but I know if I pulled it off I'd feel horrible. Pussy doesn't compare to a peace of mind. I swear it doesn't.

 

[manofmorehouse]

As long as her mind and heart is right the other shit doesn't matter at tall. She could look like dat thang dat ate mamas garden. If i feel she's not up to par mentally and she's emotionally fragile I can't push myself on her no matter her looks. I've struggled with that but I know if I pulled it off I'd feel horrible. Pussy doesn't compare to a peace of mind. I swear it doesn't.

How long will that last until u on soul swipe though?? Keep it real. U not giving a fuck about peace of mind when you're horny. True, sex is not the only thing u need to sustain as a couple, but physical attraction is very important to fidelity

 

[blackrain]

I'd work with her to change it. Not even for aesthetic reasons but for her own health and influence over our kid/s. I'm not expecting anyone to literally be the same size at 55 they are at 30 because biology just don't work like that but I also ain't about to sit and watch somebody I love and am building a life and family with ingest diabetes every night when dinner is made either

 

[blackrain]

If yall cool with it, it shouldnt be no 'ima take her to the gym with me' bc that ship has SAILED. She done alrady got fat where was u?? Lls If she's already crossed that line, if she 30+ ? 90% of the time it is a WRAP. Your woman is now a bbw forever. Lets keep it 100

No it really isn't. People can get healthier after gaining weight and women, especially before during and after a pregnancy are gonna have weight fluctuations they literally cannot control at times. That's just how the human body works.

 

[shit happens]

As long as her mind and heart is right the other shit doesn't matter at tall. She could look like dat thang dat ate mamas garden. If i feel she's not up to par mentally and she's emotionally fragile I can't push myself on her no matter her looks. I've struggled with that but I know if I pulled it off I'd feel horrible. Pussy doesn't compare to a peace of mind. I swear it doesn't.

How long will that last until u on soul swipe though?? Keep it real. U not giving a fuck about peace of mind when you're horny. True, sex is not the only thing u need to sustain as a couple, but physical attraction is very important to fidelity

Self control. Say g I can get a bowl of pussy before I can get a plate to eat. I require more stimulation than that.

If she my gal her mind was what caught me. If she got dat ass what a wonderful bonus.

 

[leftcoastkev]

I'm cool with it if it is because of pregnancy, but.....

Being active is part of my lifestyle. Damn near every broad I've fucked with heavily (not just fuck friends, etc) is active or gets drawn into that part of my lifestyle because they get motivated by how I move. It's not on my mind 24/7 but it's part of my day to day. I like to eat, and enjoy myself, and sometimes I get a little out of shape but I never let myself go and most women I fuck with are the same once theyve made fitness a part of their lifestyle and like the way their clothes fit, the way they feel about them selves, etc.

With that said, if you are not physically active we ain't gon gel like that. As I get older I want to be that fit active older guy when I'm 40, 50, 60 so barring some serious injury I plan to be that way moving forward. Even when I'm too old to be smashing weights in the gym I want to be fit and somewhat athletic for my age......jog, swim, riding bikes etc....so any female I fuck with heavy gotta be part of that lifestyle.

Personally, my broad got bit by the fitness bug from me and she's training for a powerlifting competition. You wouldn't know by looking at her except for her legs....she took it further than me as I never tried to officially compete. I gotta go hard when we're in the gym together or she'll make me look bad, lol. So in effect, that pushes me harder. She ain't the type to let herself get fat but if I get her pregnant, I can't front on it.

 

[deadeye]

I broke up with a girl and one of the main reasons was because she got big.

When it was all going down the one of the first things she said was "it's because I got fat isn't it?"

And then she begged and pleaded and promised to lose weight.

This was 5 months ago and I'm still struggling to forgive myself.

@"Will Munny"

'Thought you were a chubby chaser.

That's out of necessity, not preference.

 

[Dupac]

i'm good regardless,

weight fluctuates...as long as she's healthy for the most part i'm good

So I've seen your wife... should out to the League....

You would be OK with her becoming a 140lb fitness chick?

as long as she does it in a healthy way

 

[LPast]

i'm good regardless,

weight fluctuates...as long as she's healthy for the most part i'm good

So I've seen your wife... should out to the League....

You would be OK with her becoming a 140lb fitness chick?

as long as she does it in a healthy way

Would you be more or less attracted to her?

 

[Inglewood_B]

Start doin subtle shit like inviting out to go jog or to the gym. I be tryin to bring my girl on cardio and leg days

 

[ChillaDaKilla]

Whether super fat or skinny it'll still be the woman I fell in love with

 

[Inglewood_B]

If yall cool with it, it shouldnt be no 'ima take her to the gym with me' bc that ship has SAILED. She done alrady got fat where was u?? Lls If she's already crossed that line, if she 30+ ? 90% of the time it is a WRAP. Your woman is now a bbw forever. Lets keep it 100

Depending on how big that first B is... BBW ain't really a bad thing.

That BBW thread in Illpix done made a believer out of me

 

[mryounggun]

If people would be a little more realistic, compassionate, honest and up front in relationships, a lot of this shit can be avoided.

 

[S2J]

If yall cool with it, it shouldnt be no 'ima take her to the gym with me' bc that ship has SAILED. She done alrady got fat where was u?? Lls If she's already crossed that line, if she 30+ ? 90% of the time it is a WRAP. Your woman is now a bbw forever. Lets keep it 100

Depending on how big that first B is... BBW ain't really a bad thing.

That BBW thread in Illpix done made a believer out of me

Yall see this shit. ..lol Those are not real life "bbw's". At ALL.

 

[vagrant-718]

Prefer girls that's about that gym life so it won't come to that

 

[the dukester]

Tough call here. I would encourage her to change her diet and exercise more, not soley for vanity or aesthetic purposes.

I would tell her that out of concern for her long-term health.

Meanwhile I'd probably be cheating like a muhfucka, thinking about my side-piece while smashing her with my eyes tightly closed.

Nothing worse than you feeling a broad up, and you think you have a titty in your hand......

And it's a gigantic roll of belly fat with her belly button masquerading as a nipple.

 

[Kat]

Tough call here. I would encourage her to change her diet and exercise more, not soley for vanity or aesthetic purposes.

I would tell her that out of concern for her long-term health.

Meanwhile I'd probably be cheating like a muhfucka, thinking about my side-piece while smashing her with my eyes tightly closed.

Nothing worse than you feeling a broad up, and you think you have a titty in your hand......

And it's a gigantic roll of belly fat with her belly button masquerading as a nipple.

And this has really happened to you?

 

[LPast]

Y'all are going down the wrong road with the idea of taking someone to the gym or suggesting they eat right...

That's not how people work in real life. If you aren't motivated to do those things on your own, they probably won't happen.

 

[Inglewood_B]

If yall cool with it, it shouldnt be no 'ima take her to the gym with me' bc that ship has SAILED. She done alrady got fat where was u?? Lls If she's already crossed that line, if she 30+ ? 90% of the time it is a WRAP. Your woman is now a bbw forever. Lets keep it 100

Depending on how big that first B is... BBW ain't really a bad thing.

That BBW thread in Illpix done made a believer out of me

Yall see this shit. ..lol Those are not real life "bbw's". At ALL.

Fat bitches =\= BBW

Fat bitches = fat bitches

You are confused.

1st B stands for big which many of them in that thread are. 2nd B stands for beautiful which many of them in that thread are.