GnS Real Life 2016: How would you feel about your spouse having drastic weight change?

[Lou Cypher]

If i put myself into a committed relationship it is because i feel for that person. I will stick with them no matter what unless she breaks the rules. People change year to year, my body would probably be different too, but i wouldnt break it off because of weight change. I might encourage her to make some healthy changes, but i dont put myself into relationships just off of physical attraction anymore. There has to be something more for me to commit.

 

[Will Munny]

I broke up with a girl and one of the main reasons was because she got big.

When it was all going down the one of the first things she said was "it's because I got fat isn't it?"

And then she begged and pleaded and promised to lose weight.

This was 5 months ago and I'm still struggling to forgive myself.

 

[Lou Cypher]

I broke up with a girl and one of the main reasons was because she got big.

When it was all going down the one of the first things she said was "it's because I got fat isn't it?"

And then she begged and pleaded and promised to lose weight.

This was 5 months ago and I'm still struggling to forgive myself.

She get fatter or skinnier since the break up?

 

[Will Munny]

I have no idea. We've broken contact entirely.

 

[deadeye]

I broke up with a girl and one of the main reasons was because she got big.

When it was all going down the one of the first things she said was "it's because I got fat isn't it?"

And then she begged and pleaded and promised to lose weight.

This was 5 months ago and I'm still struggling to forgive myself.

@"Will Munny"

'Thought you were a chubby chaser.

 

[Dupac]

i'm good regardless,

weight fluctuates...as long as she's healthy for the most part i'm good

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i dont care about weight....as long as the heart dont change and shes not sick....

as for me.....my shit drifts between skinny six pack to skinny potbelly every few months....

she teases me all the time about it

 

[texas409]

if she gains weight I will work out with her to lose the pounds if she loses weight I will support her and uplift her because its never a wrong thing to be more healthier for yourself and your family. Love is love

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

*that's why I hit the gym post*

If they're trying to lose the weight...like actually putting the effort and working out...cool.

But if they just give up, said "f*** it" and do nothing...naw.

This is more about your health than how you look. And if you don't care about the long term effects it'll on your and others, then why should I. I feel sorry for the folks who has to take care of a loved one who's morbidly obese. Having that burden on them is rough.

 

[Will Munny]

I broke up with a girl and one of the main reasons was because she got big.

When it was all going down the one of the first things she said was "it's because I got fat isn't it?"

And then she begged and pleaded and promised to lose weight.

This was 5 months ago and I'm still struggling to forgive myself.

@"Will Munny"

'Thought you were a chubby chaser.

That's out of necessity, not preference.

 

[_Lefty]

I ain't goin nowhere. That's dangerous though, and that's where my concern would lie. The older you get, the more carrying a lot of extra weight becomes a factor to your health, and I'm not cool with that so we'll have to fix it. But them vows stick. We in too deep to be frontin on appearance. Fuck that. I got your heart, mind, and soul, that hold much more weight than your body ever could.

 

[LPast]

i'm good regardless,

weight fluctuates...as long as she's healthy for the most part i'm good

So I've seen your wife... should out to the League....

You would be OK with her becoming a 140lb fitness chick?

 

[Kat]

As long as it doesn't affect his behavior or personality, it wouldnt be a big deal. I like some weight on a man.

But don't go getting chunky and then making me have to pay for it because you feel some type of way about yourself.

 

[spit_fiya]

If she turns tank ass on me I'd just take her fat ass to the gym with me, unless it's a health issue being the reason she's gaining/losing weight drastically.

 

[CeLLaR-DooR]

I don't workout so I wouldn't leave if she put on weight but attraction is important. Like with all things, though, there are limits

 

[5 Grand]

The problem is that when women get pregnant, generally, they gain weight. So if you get married and your wife has two babies over the course of three years, its normal for her to gain 50lbs.

Now she brought two beautiful children into the world and now you're not attracted to her anymore, but she carried YOUR KIDS to term.

I'd feel terrible for leaving her, but at the same time I wouldn't be physically attracted to her anymore.

I guess the only thing you can do is take her to the gym.

 

[Lurkristocrat]

if she gains weight I will work out with her to lose the pounds if she loses weight I will support her and uplift her because its never a wrong thing to be more healthier for yourself and your family. Love is love

this

 

[5 Grand]

or you could be like Mike and Molly

 

[2stepz_ahead]

smaller doesnt always equal healthier.

 

[manofmorehouse]

It's some shit I just won't tolerate. She put on a little weight, ok. But if she go from like a size 6 to a 16, it's a breach of our marriage contract. Shit, she don't love herself. How her fat ass gone love me?? Sweating bacon fat and shit