Here is my last and final update on the situation ya'll. I figured not to leave ya'll hangin with the details since so many of ya'll provided good advice. So after a month of not talking to her, we had a conversation that she initiated.
I basically told her that casual relationships are not for me and that I will be dating other women. Instead of giving her a ultimatum, I told her I want to be her man but it's her choice to make, just know that my decisions are based on the choices she make. She then asked can she come to my house and talk to me, it was important.
I said alright and I had her come late at night , I can't believe how sexy she was looking haha. She was looking bad, she always looks beautiful to me but damn. She couldn't keep her hands off of me. I sat her down and asked her how she feels and all. She spoke her mind and outta nowhere said: "You were right, I misled you but I was scared from my past relationships. I had something great in front of me all along but I let my fear get in the way. I knew what direction we were heading into all along. I came over to say that I want to be your girlfriend and I am willing to meet you halfway. I am willing to take that chance for us."
She then asked if I could get her something to drink. I went and got her something, when I walked back in my room....her dress was off. She was sitting on my computer chair with her legs on the desk in nothing but a G String and bra. The kind of lights on my room made her G string and panties glow (which made it even sexier...damn). She then said "Now that it's official, come here and fuck your girlfriend real good"
The rest was history.....