Felt like I was misled. We acted like a couple but she's not looking for a relationship right now?

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kai_valya;4329114 said:
T. Sanford;4329027 said:

hey luv

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as for ts, nigga got plenty of advice in this thread, just make sure u set the tone to any relationship u r in so u dont get blindsided by bishes that dkwtf they want....I still dont know what AFC means?? Do yall play in the east?
 
Here is my last and final update on the situation ya'll. I figured not to leave ya'll hangin with the details since so many of ya'll provided good advice. So after a month of not talking to her, we had a conversation that she initiated.

I basically told her that casual relationships are not for me and that I will be dating other women. Instead of giving her a ultimatum, I told her I want to be her man but it's her choice to make, just know that my decisions are based on the choices she make. She then asked can she come to my house and talk to me, it was important.

I said alright and I had her come late at night , I can't believe how sexy she was looking haha. She was looking bad, she always looks beautiful to me but damn. She couldn't keep her hands off of me. I sat her down and asked her how she feels and all. She spoke her mind and outta nowhere said: "You were right, I misled you but I was scared from my past relationships. I had something great in front of me all along but I let my fear get in the way. I knew what direction we were heading into all along. I came over to say that I want to be your girlfriend and I am willing to meet you halfway. I am willing to take that chance for us."

She then asked if I could get her something to drink. I went and got her something, when I walked back in my room....her dress was off. She was sitting on my computer chair with her legs on the desk in nothing but a G String and bra. The kind of lights on my room made her G string and panties glow (which made it even sexier...damn). She then said "Now that it's official, come here and fuck your girlfriend real good"

The rest was history.....
 
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....bruh. tread lightly with this chick. you dont want to be with an indecisive person. def dont get your feelings to wrapped up in her. Because she'll probably do it again.
 
Bruh make sure the other dude is out of the picture. It's been a month. Did you ask if what she was doing during the month? It sounds like you were the back up guy.
 
Everyone has been a backup guy.Most don´t know but some do.So don´t feel bad just enjoy the pussy.But if you feel like you being used let the pussy go as fast as you can and don´t calle her back or answer her calls.
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texasboi409;4436732 said:
You might not realize this but hoes use game to get sex too and she used you again

I mean. I was expecting her to use sex to get me to keep things the way they were ( I was planning to smash and then let her go). It didn't go that way though, she asked to be my girlfriend and then it led to sex. No pressure or anything, I said it's her choice if she wants to be my girl. You think I fucked up for making it official then?

I would feel like a hypocrite saying no to her wanting to be my girlfriend when that was the main reason I left in the first place....she didn't want to commit.
 
Elzo69Reloaded;4436735 said:
black caesar;4436721 said:
Bruh make sure the other dude is out of the picture. It's been a month. Did you ask if what she was doing during the month? It sounds like you were the back up guy.

Exactly...............

She kept on texting and calling me.
 
Cutty5000;4332093 said:
Soho Fresco;4331747 said:
Cutty5000;4331538 said:
Since you're so appreciative of the advice you've been given here, would you care to post pics of this young lady or provide us with a link to her facebook page?

I love beautiful dark skinned women man so it was crazy. A lot of people don't believe that she's Haitian.

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Not bad.

Props.

Why can't they believe she Hatian
 
Cabana_Da_Don;4436753 said:
Everyone has been a backup guy.Most don´t know but some do.So don´t feel bad just enjoy the pussy.But if you feel like you being used let the pussy go as fast as you can and don´t calle her back or answer her calls.
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Yeah, that's what i'm saying. Most women use sex to keep things how they want it. So if a dude says hes leaving because he's tired of being fuck buddies...the woman might come and rock his world so he'll go back on his words. I was planning for her to try that but she didn't. She actually sat down and told me how she felt...I didn't have to talk at all. She said she wanted to be mine and she felt that way for a long time...she was just scared of being hurt. Besides words, her actions spoke volumes aswell.
 
My nigga she don't want to be yo gal though deep down you know that too. It shouldn't take all this hustle and bustle to get that big head hoe to commit women especially black women run from a good thing and you're just the good Guy that finishes last to her
 
texasboi409;4436808 said:
My nigga she don't want to be yo gal though deep down you know that too. It shouldn't take all this hustle and bustle to get that big head hoe to commit women especially black women run from a good thing and you're just the good Guy that finishes last to her

i cosign this one...
 
texasboi409;4436808 said:
My nigga she don't want to be yo gal though deep down you know that too. It shouldn't take all this hustle and bustle to get that big head hoe to commit women especially black women run from a good thing and you're just the good Guy that finishes last to her

this. if she wanted to be with you she wouldnt have to think about it or give you excuses. leave that chick alone
 
texasboi409;4436808 said:
My nigga she don't want to be yo gal though deep down you know that too. It shouldn't take all this hustle and bustle to get that big head hoe to commit women especially black women run from a good thing and you're just the good Guy that finishes last to her

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