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blakfyahking;1806672 said:SMH @ continually asking about this dude's occupation like 60K a year is a significant paycheck
I agree with this.
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blakfyahking;1806672 said:SMH @ continually asking about this dude's occupation like 60K a year is a significant paycheck
laydee;1833255 said:Isnt it standard procedure that you spend 10% of your annual income on a ring?
laydee;1833255 said:Isnt it standard procedure that you spend 10% of your annual income on a ring?
sboogie;1803870 said:oh...
that gym membership money aint no joke...
trifling whores!
Where did the two months of salary idea come from?
The origin of the two months' salary begins with DeBeers, the largest diamond producer and marketer in the world. In 1947, in an effort to increase diamond sales in the United States following a depressed wartime market, DeBeers launched a marketing campaign with a New York advertising firm. A copywriter penned the famous slogan "A diamond is forever". As far as advertising slogans go, it's pretty damn good. A diamond, like your marriage, is supposed to last forever. (ed. - We're thankful wedding preparation doesn't last nearly as long.)
DeBeers wanted to bring diamonds to the masses, rather than have them be for a select few. Accordingly, the price of diamonds was set at approximately two months of salary, which is somewhat tied to inflation.
blackrain;1833383 said:pure bullshit
RuffDraft;1833325 said:No. Women should say yes to any ring if they want to be with their other half, just so happens that most men are willing to spend quite a lot on a ring to please their s/o, IMO. If he drops 2%, 5%, 10% or 20% it shouldn't be the real matter at hand when he asks.
Maybe....i dunnoblackrain;1833365 said:no...it was some shit started by DeBeers to make people that weren't rich feel like they could afford diamonds
RuffDraft;1833408 said:That is b/s but very clever marketing.
laydee;1833419 said:Yes and when he asks he should have in hand somthing big and pretty.
Otherwise, changing names and having babies wont seem worth it.
Maybe....i dunno
But its beside the point its tradition.
laydee;1833419 said:Yes and when he asks he should have in hand somthing big and pretty.
Otherwise, changing names and having babies wont seem worth it.
blackrain;1833422 said:and it shows how much people will believe anything...common sense should tell people that marriage, the way it's done now, hasn't been around long enough to have a tradition of spending 2 month's salary on a damn diamond..what the fuck did they think people were doing to celebrate engagements 150-200 years ago? lol
marcyville;1833488 said:
RuffDraft;1833493 said:I'm sure that it would be big and pretty in most cases, but having babies should be worth it on it's own...
lol agreed, not to mention the cost of the wedding and the wedding ring to go with it. They've created an expectation though, it would seem. It's funny 'cos my friend is thinking about proposing, but he has moved to the city and is finding his way, he's been with her 7 years and yet he cannot afford to drop a few thousand. He's going to make do with 500, but I know that his girl will be happy with that. Shows that she's one worth keeping, IMO.
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blackrain;1833437 said:no it's not a tradition...it's a marketing scheme...tradition is the couple jumping the broom literally, throwing rice, the father giving his daughter away, saying vows, things that if they were missing from a wedding people would notice and are essential...a ring that costs 2 months salary is NOT needed to get married
RuffDraft;1833493 said:I'm sure that it would be big and pretty in most cases, but having babies should be worth it on it's own...
laydee;1833593 said:Well obviously its now become tradition and we should stick to it.
I doubt that mate
blackrain;1833614 said:you're still wrong because it's still not a tradition, it's just a social rule some people choose to abide by but it in no way is a tradition nor should it or will it ever be...ask the people you know that are married and ask if they spent 2 months' salary min. on the engagement ring...you're gonna have your fairytale idea of engagement killed