Fair or Foul: Women Anonymously Discuss Regretting Having Their Children and Becoming Single Mothers

[dallas' 4 eva]

I personally know a broad like this.

She let a bum nigga smash raw-dog & seed her up, then bounced (no surprise there).

Now she works at shitty job, with shitty hours, and shitty pay.

Now she complains about how her son is holding her back in life. "Nobody wants a single mom, niggas wanna take me to Jarred, (not for a ring) but for a smash & dash."

I told her (after I smashed) that you can't let these nig-nogs go bareback just because they said they'll pull out. At the end of the day, we all make the bed we sleep in.

LMAO

 

[soul rattler]

There is not one advantage to single parenthood. Not one. I don't know why people are always trying to make it more acceptable.

Bullshit there isn't.

I knew a couple chicks with section 8, EBT, and not a single fuck to give about their kid's fathers.

It ain't right, but there's an explanation behind why single mother parenthood is so prevalent and it's not as simple as "People don't have morals."

 

[blackgod813]

My mom got her tubes tied after one life shouldnt really exist

 

[Already Home_17]

it's expected

hopefully they never take their frustrations out on the children

 

[leftcoastkev]

It's fair, but what are they gonna do anyway at this point. May as well keep it real with yourself.......

As humans we adapt to various situations and find happiness in them. As "adults" we are conditioned to live with and be responsible our decisions, but who really WANTS responsibility in life?

We just do what we believe we should be doing. People live, make the next generation, and die....and the next generation does the same thing.

 

[Westie]

I said it before, I'll say it again, KIDS ARE WOAT!

Kids are great but it's hard af to be a good parent.

 

[Westie]

lol @ "Bein' a single mother isn't for everyone" its not for anyone fam. Even if you don't struggle with money, its a lonely existence

A single mother is an unmarried mother so are we talking about single mothers who have no father for their children and no family and no friends? Because yes I can see that being a lonely existence. otherwise it's just fucking hard if you have those things, some or all.

 

[zzombie]

Having children is not really as stressful as some people make it out to be as long as you can a decent job children are not that stressful

 

[xxCivicxx]

I'm noticing in a lot of these stories these broads just sat there and got talked into having a baby by a man even though they wanted to get rid of it. Lmao like really you basically got hoodwinked into being a single mother. 'Never let lust make you a mother before love makes you a wife.'

This

In most of these posts these females are still refusing to take responsibility

They think forcing a child on a man is gonna make a man stay but it usually does the opposite

 

[mryounggun]

lol @ "Bein' a single mother isn't for everyone" its not for anyone fam. Even if you don't struggle with money, its a lonely existence

A single mother is an unmarried mother so are we talking about single mothers who have no father for their children and no family and no friends? Because yes I can see that being a lonely existence. otherwise it's just fucking hard if you have those things, some or all.

Don't do this, @Westie.

 

[Valentinez A. Kaiser]

Better they speak that truth than throw out the garbage rhetoric of "my child was a blessing!"

 

[Westie]

lol @ "Bein' a single mother isn't for everyone" its not for anyone fam. Even if you don't struggle with money, its a lonely existence

A single mother is an unmarried mother so are we talking about single mothers who have no father for their children and no family and no friends? Because yes I can see that being a lonely existence. otherwise it's just fucking hard if you have those things, some or all.

Don't do this, @Westie.

Do what? I'm asking what he meant. Why don't you ever shut up the niggas that say outrageous things? I didn't even say anything out of pocket.

 

[Westie]

Having children is not really as stressful as some people make it out to be as long as you can a decent job children are not that stressful

If you think that you're a shitty parent.

 

[Copper]

*No kids post*

 

[LordZuko]

I agree as well…My daughter is seventeen now and I still have regrets….I am still trying to make peace with myself about having her…As a child I never wanted to have kids or a family..for that matter…I felt I wanted to explore the world and live my life on my terms…I joined the military and loved it…I allowed myself to get married and 3 years we separated and I found myself pregnant…We discussed it and I kept her but I ended up having to get out the Navy as both of us couldn’t deploy and didn’t really have anyone else to care for our daughter…Over the years I have delayed my dreams to be a Mom..I looked at my friends I was stationed with retiring now and honestly it hurts…I love my daughter but my feelings of not having kids has never waivered…I truly believe it’s not meant for everyone'

-Danyella Lanier, LA

Imagine her daughter, 17 be catching her mom just staring at her sometimes, don't even know, she wish she killed your ass 17 years ago.

 

[the dukester]

I personally know a broad like this.

She let a bum nigga smash raw-dog & seed her up, then bounced (no surprise there).

Now she works at shitty job, with shitty hours, and shitty pay.

Now she complains about how her son is holding her back in life. "Nobody wants a single mom, niggas wanna take me to Jarred, (not for a ring) but for a smash & dash."

I told her (after I smashed) that you can't let these nig-nogs go bareback just because they said they'll pull out. At the end of the day, we all make the bed we sleep in.

LMAO

Haha, shame on me for going after "low hanging fruit."

That round apple just looked too juicy to pass up. B)

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Having children is not really as stressful as some people make it out to be as long as you can a decent job children are not that stressful

If you think that you're a shitty parent.

I think it's different for women than men. I wouldn't say being a parent isn't stressful, but I've noticed my wife tends to stress more and over more things than me. That's why you need two parents because both ways of going about things have merit.

 

[Kat]

lol @ "Bein' a single mother isn't for everyone" its not for anyone fam. Even if you don't struggle with money, its a lonely existence

Is it? So you can't feel fulfilled without a man?

You can't be surrounded by friends and family and your child and feel whole?

I think that statement is a bit general.

Being a single parent is hard, but so are plenty of things in life.

 

[EmM HoLLa.]

Whether we want to admit it or not... We all live with regrets.. It's a part of life..

 

[Westie]

Single parenthood seems like it'd be an absolute nightmare tbh. Having kids is hard enough with 2 people, I can't even fathom having to take care of them alone. You know, unlike when you are babysitting those lil bastards never leave!

It depends on the type of person you are. Some women weren't made to be mothers and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Some women find joy in motherhood even at its lowest points.