Fair or Foul: Women Anonymously Discuss Regretting Having Their Children and Becoming Single Mothers

[CeLLaR-DooR]

lol @ "Bein' a single mother isn't for everyone" its not for anyone fam. Even if you don't struggle with money, its a lonely existence

A single mother is an unmarried mother so are we talking about single mothers who have no father for their children and no family and no friends? Because yes I can see that being a lonely existence. otherwise it's just fucking hard if you have those things, some or all.

By single mother, I mean mother who doesn't live with her partner or isn't in a committed relationship with the child's father or a step father.

So you can have a very functional co-parenting relationship, family and friends and lots of love around the child and the mother but it's the lonely simply because you're not fucking the father of your child? That's what you think?

Nah that's not what I think. If you're lucky to have alla that, sweet. Still, though. Need someone to talk to at 9pm Mon-Fri.

I'm not sure I mentioned sex anywhere

 

[Westie]

lol @ "Bein' a single mother isn't for everyone" its not for anyone fam. Even if you don't struggle with money, its a lonely existence

A single mother is an unmarried mother so are we talking about single mothers who have no father for their children and no family and no friends? Because yes I can see that being a lonely existence. otherwise it's just fucking hard if you have those things, some or all.

By single mother, I mean mother who doesn't live with her partner or isn't in a committed relationship with the child's father or a step father.

So you can have a very functional co-parenting relationship, family and friends and lots of love around the child and the mother but it's the lonely simply because you're not fucking the father of your child? That's what you think?

Nah that's not what I think. If you're lucky to have alla that, sweet. Still, though. Need someone to talk to at 9pm Mon-Fri.

I'm not sure I mentioned sex anywhere

Or you could sleep or talk to a boyfriend or on the phone to someone... So many variables, but I value quiet time so maybe I'm the wrong person to look at that as not a huge deal.

 

[CeLLaR-DooR]

lol @ "Bein' a single mother isn't for everyone" its not for anyone fam. Even if you don't struggle with money, its a lonely existence

A single mother is an unmarried mother so are we talking about single mothers who have no father for their children and no family and no friends? Because yes I can see that being a lonely existence. otherwise it's just fucking hard if you have those things, some or all.

By single mother, I mean mother who doesn't live with her partner or isn't in a committed relationship with the child's father or a step father.

So you can have a very functional co-parenting relationship, family and friends and lots of love around the child and the mother but it's the lonely simply because you're not fucking the father of your child? That's what you think?

Nah that's not what I think. If you're lucky to have alla that, sweet. Still, though. Need someone to talk to at 9pm Mon-Fri.

I'm not sure I mentioned sex anywhere

Or you could sleep or talk to a boyfriend or on the phone to someone... So many variables, but I value quiet time so maybe I'm the wrong person to look at that as not a huge deal.

Of course you could but everyday? I guess it's easier now with WhatsApp and shit though.

 

[Shuffington]

I think its fair. Theres to many women out their imo who feel like they "NEED" to birth a child regardless of their personal circumstances. I think they forget about the life time of rearing part.

Theres women out their yearning for the raw dog (and with good reason) but unwilling to take the plan B pill because its gonna make them sick for a week yet they claim they don't want children.

In my dealings, It doesn't seem like theres enough women actively trying hard NOT to get pregnant.

its more like a passive role.

 

[soul rattler]

Same females complaining about kids be the quickest to say they don't believe in abortion or adoption.

 

[Copper]

Here I am now trying to figure it all out. I am hurt and ashamed, but looking for a raft to grab onto to navigate these waters of my reality.



Translation: I want to find a man to take care of me and that other niggas kid

 

[Westie]

lol @ "Bein' a single mother isn't for everyone" its not for anyone fam. Even if you don't struggle with money, its a lonely existence

A single mother is an unmarried mother so are we talking about single mothers who have no father for their children and no family and no friends? Because yes I can see that being a lonely existence. otherwise it's just fucking hard if you have those things, some or all.

By single mother, I mean mother who doesn't live with her partner or isn't in a committed relationship with the child's father or a step father.

So you can have a very functional co-parenting relationship, family and friends and lots of love around the child and the mother but it's the lonely simply because you're not fucking the father of your child? That's what you think?

Nah that's not what I think. If you're lucky to have alla that, sweet. Still, though. Need someone to talk to at 9pm Mon-Fri.

I'm not sure I mentioned sex anywhere

Or you could sleep or talk to a boyfriend or on the phone to someone... So many variables, but I value quiet time so maybe I'm the wrong person to look at that as not a huge deal.

Of course you could but everyday? I guess it's easier now with WhatsApp and shit though.

Idk what WhatsApp is

IDK maybe I'm in the minority but I value alone time so if I already talk to someone every single day other than my children, quiet is fine with me after a certain time. 13 years (for me) is a long time to talk to the same mother fucker so if you are happy with hearing everything your wife has to say after 9 p.m. every single night then congratulations to you. I think that's beautiful.

 

[zzombie]

Having children is not really as stressful as some people make it out to be as long as you can a decent job children are not that stressful

If you think that you're a shitty parent.

shut up bitch I am a great father children don't stress me if your kids stress you then the problem is with you

 

[ChillaDaKilla]

 

[Neophyte Wolfgang]

Having kids in life young probably does suck, but what exactly are these kids holding back their moms from doing?

Most these women/thots are being held back from going out to clubs, bars, and meeting new thirsty niggas.

If they are talking about traveling and finding themselves and having new genuine life experiences then ok I see what these mothers saying. Most are being held back from being average so I don't know why they complaining so much

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

Same females complaining about kids be the quickest to say they don't believe in abortion or adoption.

right they be like: "I don't believe in abortion because I'm a Christian woman". But you wasn't a Christian when you were "fornicating" with that nigga???? lmao.

 

[not_osirus_jenkins]

Having children is not really as stressful as some people make it out to be as long as you can a decent job children are not that stressful

If you think that you're a shitty parent.

Hell nah, that's a bold statement. My daughter was easy as hell and still is to this day. Sleeping, eating schedule down when she was 2 months old. Incredibly intelligent. My son gonna be the same way. Money goes a long way in child rearing. There has not been a day when I have thought to myself that fatherhood has been even the least bit stressful.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Having children is not really as stressful as some people make it out to be as long as you can a decent job children are not that stressful

If you think that you're a shitty parent.

I think it's different for women than men. I wouldn't say being a parent isn't stressful, but I've noticed my wife tends to stress more and over more things than me. That's why you need two parents because both ways of going about things have merit.

Need is subjective. Ideally two parents are great but that's not everyone's reality. There are a lot of things in this world you do to the best of your ability regardless of your circumstances, and you can still do them well. Single motherhood and fatherhood is one of those things.

True.

 

[not_osirus_jenkins]

I'm in my mid thirties and don't have any kids. I'm of the firm belief you need to have a great foundation first before you bring life into this world. I see too many uneducated, poor finances, shitty relationship,etc people having kids and making their lives ten times harder than it needs to be. My parents had a college education, career, and good finances before having me and i will continue on the tradition.

You're twenties should be your living and setting your foundation years because when you have kids or get married it's over.

False. What kind of lives do you niggas live? I'm 29, been married for 4 or 5 years (no bullshit I actually do not remember the date or year) have a 5 yr old girl thats about to turn 6 and a little boy that's due any day. I love this shit! I think becoming a father was the best thing that ever happened to me. We still travel, we still party and I have tea parties and build forts and play dress up. A balance of both. It's over when you're dead, not when you have kids or get married.

 

[CeLLaR-DooR]

lol @ "Bein' a single mother isn't for everyone" its not for anyone fam. Even if you don't struggle with money, its a lonely existence

A single mother is an unmarried mother so are we talking about single mothers who have no father for their children and no family and no friends? Because yes I can see that being a lonely existence. otherwise it's just fucking hard if you have those things, some or all.

By single mother, I mean mother who doesn't live with her partner or isn't in a committed relationship with the child's father or a step father.

So you can have a very functional co-parenting relationship, family and friends and lots of love around the child and the mother but it's the lonely simply because you're not fucking the father of your child? That's what you think?

Nah that's not what I think. If you're lucky to have alla that, sweet. Still, though. Need someone to talk to at 9pm Mon-Fri.

I'm not sure I mentioned sex anywhere

Or you could sleep or talk to a boyfriend or on the phone to someone... So many variables, but I value quiet time so maybe I'm the wrong person to look at that as not a huge deal.

Of course you could but everyday? I guess it's easier now with WhatsApp and shit though.

Idk what WhatsApp is

IDK maybe I'm in the minority but I value alone time so if I already talk to someone every single day other than my children, quiet is fine with me after a certain time. 13 years (for me) is a long time to talk to the same mother fucker so if you are happy with hearing everything your wife has to say after 9 p.m. every single night then congratulations to you. I think that's beautiful.

I value alone time too. It's different when you're choosin' to be alone. Havin' a child takes that choice away from you a lotta the time.

I'm single and, as far as I'm aware, childless.

 

[soul rattler]

Same females complaining about kids be the quickest to say they don't believe in abortion or adoption.

right they be like: "I don't believe in abortion because I'm a Christian woman". But you wasn't a Christian when you were "fornicating" with that nigga???? lmao.

Bruh I kid you not. I was fucking this broad a few months ago. Condom broke. Shorty started panicking talking about "I'm highly fertile. I don't believe in abortion and I'm not on birth control because that's the white man's poison." I say "well what the fuck we bout to do?" She says, "I'll take a Plan B pill."

You know, because unlike birth control, Plan B pills aren't the white man's poison.

 

[CeLLaR-DooR]

Same females complaining about kids be the quickest to say they don't believe in abortion or adoption.

right they be like: "I don't believe in abortion because I'm a Christian woman". But you wasn't a Christian when you were "fornicating" with that nigga???? lmao.

Bruh I kid you not. I was fucking this broad a few months ago. Condom broke. Shorty started panicking talking about "I'm highly fertile. I don't believe in abortion and I'm not on birth control because that's the white man's poison." I say "well what the fuck we bout to do?" She says, "I'll take a Plan B pill."

You know, because unlike birth control, Plan B pills aren't the white man's poison.

Yo remember that thread with the girl with the stank puss she try blame it on the white man

 

[usmarin3]

I'm in my mid thirties and don't have any kids. I'm of the firm belief you need to have a great foundation first before you bring life into this world. I see too many uneducated, poor finances, shitty relationship,etc people having kids and making their lives ten times harder than it needs to be. My parents had a college education, career, and good finances before having me and i will continue on the tradition.

You're twenties should be your living and setting your foundation years because when you have kids or get married it's over.

False. What kind of lives do you niggas live? I'm 29, been married for 4 or 5 years (no bullshit I actually do not remember the date or year) have a 5 yr old girl thats about to turn 6 and a little boy that's due any day. I love this shit! I think becoming a father was the best thing that ever happened to me. We still travel, we still party and I have tea parties and build forts and play dress up. A balance of both. It's over when you're dead, not when you have kids or get married.

I don't believe most people come into their own and settle in their ways until their 30s. That's why the divorce rate is 50 percent right now. I see no reason why anyone in their right mind should get married in their 20's other than the pressure of family and society to follow an outdated norm.

 

[gns]

Eh

I aint reading this thread shit seems depressing

 

[blackrain]

This thread has a zionist media agenda feel just springing up on Father's Day like this.

I saw these articles being talked about over a week ago. Everything ain't a conspiracy