DOYIN RICHARDS Statement: I Have a Dream That Someday a Picture Like This Won't Be a Big Deal

[kzzl]

@ THE bolded It's not that simple, he's part of a bigger problem him and others like him are just sides effects of the greater problem of black people refusing to put our interest first and above anything else loving each other more than anyone else. He's already diverged the issues and problem of the black family are not his concern he does not have a black family the problems that effect black women he does not have to deal with.

@ the underlined we don't need people who think like that "others" are to be used for our benefit and that is it they are to be be married. we can be associates and co-workers maybe even friends to a certain degree but it stops at marriage. Teenage notions of Love need to be done away with when you grow up and starting thinking of marriage and children.

There needs to be a change of image in how the world sees african/black people for that to happen we have to change how we see oursleves a good black man who goes outside of the race is no help to that cause. The message his marriages sends might have no effect on adult black women who have their lives together. But i was speaking more too the younger girls.

I'm thinking if he didn't love his own, if he truly had diverged, he wouldn't have taken the effort to make this article. If he really was a result of such, this whole incident would not have happened.

One thing I now realize is that his girls are going to have a hell of an identity crisis. Antagonized by niggas, oppressed by whites, and who knows what his wife's side of the family thinks of it. Nobodies image is benefiting from any of this that way.

They are going to be considered black. Talk down on mixed kids just like the racist we complain about, then want to say "I told you so" when they embrace their other half more. That shit makes no sense to me. It breeds self hate more than anything. That image, the message of internal racism, will be more damaging to his girls than what other black girls get from his marriage.

 

[blackrain]

This how i look at it...i dont give a fuk if a million mfers are out there in the wrong...YOU DO NOT GET CREDIT FOR SHYT YOU SUPPOSED TO DO.

Thats why i didnt come in and hand out Goats for that thread celebrating that we have less black men in jail. Just doesnt sit well w/ me.

In theory you are correct, but we live in a world where people actually turn a blind eye or are perfectly fine with people doing the opposite. If you don't show some support for people doing the right thing then people forget what the right thing looks like.

Ultimately, whether you believe he is being an attention who're or not he doing what he supposed to do, I don't see why anyone would be mad, seriously we gonna complain about a black man being a good father AND about black men running round here flashing rocket launchers on Instagram?

Let's keep things in perspective, this could have been another thread about ignorant niggas doing ignorant nigga shit but it's not, and for that alone I'm good.

Pay attention to the bolded.

You didnt just say 'complain about a man being a father'...you said a BLACK man. That irritates me. Like we retarded or sumthn. Like we have an inherently lower bar.

Put it this way. You on a football team. You the RB. You make a 2 yard run...They stop the game. The crowd gives you a standing ovation. Give you the game ball. Ask you to make a speech.

Thats not no fukin compliment. Thats patronizing. Its shows they dont expect much from you.

Fair enough but it is what it is, I specified him being black because it's the antithesis of the stereotype that folks like to perpetuate of black men being shitty or routinely absent fathers. If that man were white we wouldn't be having this discussion but we still shouldn't be having it, did you not see some of the racist comments hurled at dude? People telling him to go back to selling drugs and bootleg rap CDs? You think they talk to white folks like that?

I'm tired of social media working against black folks, here is one time where it's actually showing us in a good light, there's no reason to complain.

It aint a stereotype if its true. He's still the minority. That 1 pic aint reversin anything. Black men as fathers still need to do better. I guess im just not PC enough to be overly enthused Lol

I have no problem admitting ugly truths...and the ugly truth is unles you are living in the same home with your child you not doin it right. Blunt, right?

Sorry i refuse to say a ngga who buys his kids all the shyt needed, gets along with the bm, and sees him every weekend, etc, is 'holdin it down as a father'. But thats what we think! That to us is the new definiton of good father! Am I lyin?

i see where you are coming from. i do.

but i look at it like we need to give props on those that do because we are fighting an image placed on all of us because of those that don't.im not saying you dont have a right to feel how you feel, but you cant blame a man for being proud of his family and being glad he is able to provide and having the mental capacity to want to do right.

I see where yall comin from. I can begrudgingly accept that. I guess my resentment is more toward the fact we shouldnt have to be doin this (applauding it).

There's sooo many examples of patronizing that I see that i dont think others see. I come across it a lot at my job thats predominantly white folk.

Imo it should boil any black man's blood to be given xtra credit for somehting others do routinely.

Like what if u came to work on time for a week straight so they gave u an award? Lol u feel me?...

But there's sooooooo many of your black brethren not doing their part though. It's slowly getting better in our community but I know that growing up you were hard pressed to see black kids with involved dads in the picture. It was always mama & granny standing in place of dad. Thats why involved black fathers stand out.

Nobody's discounting your efforts as a father. But I understand your frustration though. The doctors at my pediatrician look at my husband funny when he can recite all of my son's medical info...like he's not expected to know that type of stuff.

Are u serious at the bold?

Dead serious. Throughout my pregnancy he was constantly referred to as my boyfriend by nurses/doctors, regardless of the matching names or the fact that he carried me on his policy.

That's just disrespectful but I've seen it happen before. When my mom had her stroke and first went into the hospital I snapped on one of the nurses when my older brother and I were in my mom's room the day after she had her stroke and the nurse was checking on her and asked my older brother "So is you guys dads coming to see her"...I said "Yes our father has already been here...all night. He just left". She said "Oh so you have the same father. That's nice."....I immediately said "Bitch our parents been married since the 70's. Watch the slick shit you say."....my brother had to pull me out the room. Needless to say once he explained what happened that nurse was no longer in my mothers room anymore.

That's crazy as hell....I've heard some slick condescending shit but never that low.

If I could tell you how many times in my life I've been gotten the shocked reaction from people when they find out that not only are my brothers and I the only kids my mom had but my dad has no outside kids either you'd be disturbed. I've had people actually challenge me and call me and my brothers liars for saying our parents are married or that we have no step siblings.

When I had my son, my husband used to tell me stories about how the women at his job would give him underhanded congratulations on the birth. They would give him congratulations and then ask how long we had been married, and the next question they'd ask is if that was our first child. He'd be like "yes, we don't have any other kids" and then they'd ask "no, is this YOUR first baby?" LOL they were so surprised that a 25 y/o black man didn't have any baby mamas and married another black woman BEFORE getting her pregnant...

Me and my girl are both 28 with no kids and constantly have to tell people that no we don't hate kids and aren't against having them because we don't have any. People's expectations are fucked up

 

[Ghostdenithegawd]

Dislike a handful of posters after this thread a bunch of looking like some real dikheads right now,

But I got praise from some random broad for having both my kids in the street at the sametime needles to say I was pissed at her lowasss standards not. Her fault tho.

I applaud people raising there kids period and not some be mediocre parenting either

About to go to work I'll touch on this more later

 

[zombie]

@ THE bolded It's not that simple, he's part of a bigger problem him and others like him are just sides effects of the greater problem of black people refusing to put our interest first and above anything else loving each other more than anyone else. He's already diverged the issues and problem of the black family are not his concern he does not have a black family the problems that effect black women he does not have to deal with.

@ the underlined we don't need people who think like that "others" are to be used for our benefit and that is it they are to be be married. we can be associates and co-workers maybe even friends to a certain degree but it stops at marriage. Teenage notions of Love need to be done away with when you grow up and starting thinking of marriage and children.

There needs to be a change of image in how the world sees african/black people for that to happen we have to change how we see oursleves a good black man who goes outside of the race is no help to that cause. The message his marriages sends might have no effect on adult black women who have their lives together. But i was speaking more too the younger girls.

I'm thinking if he didn't love his own, if he truly had diverged, he wouldn't have taken the effort to make this article. If he really was a result of such, this whole incident would not have happened.

One thing I now realize is that his girls are going to have a hell of an identity crisis. Antagonized by niggas, oppressed by whites, and who knows what his wife's side of the family thinks of it. Nobodies image is benefiting from any of this that way.

They are going to be considered black. Talk down on mixed kids just like the racist we complain about, then want to say "I told you so" when they embrace their other half more. That shit makes no sense to me. It breeds self hate more than anything. That image, the message of internal racism, will be more damaging to his girls than what other black girls get from his marriage.

Those children are not black and never will be, the ONE drop rule is bullshit that was created to give white supremacy more power it does not benefit black people at all. Mix breeds have to be forced to be black THEY can't embrace their white side more because other races of people don't play that shit especially asians. half japanese are not japanese and get treated that way, but black people will accept any fucking thing You could be half alien and somehow black people should just accept you because niggas are weak and we love the look of a bitch with soft hair.

As more and more of these racially undefined people are born what is going to happen is, what happened in latin america, and black people will be treated like black people are treated in latin america. mixed race people socially are becoming there own race of people. just like it is in brazil. My problem is not with the people who are mixed, my issue is with their parents.

NO HE DOES NOT LOVE HIS own if he did he would have married a black women and had black children. his writing is more self praise for the affections he shows his children and self defense against people who disagree with his choice of mate.

 

[A1000MILES]

You sound so fuckin stupid, bret...Got damn...You and the other militants amaze me sometimes...

 

[zombie]

You sound so fuckin stupid, bret...Got damn...You and the other militants amaze me sometimes...

Nothing is militant about not race mixing.

you race traitors have really lowered the bar on what make someone a militant, This entire world is against us. blacks are at the bottom of every good list and are at the top of every bad list AND YOU niggas still have no problem falling in love with outsiders.

 

[zombie]

what i say would only sound stupid to people who believe that we live in peace with these other races of people.

REALITY CHECK. We are not at peace with them, we are in an inferior position. WE control and own next to nothing we can't change that as long as we are race mixing. ALL you have to do to see the future of black people in america is look at how blacks are treated in south america something similar is going to happen right here.

 

[rockets]

This is a nice pic. However, I wish blk peeps would realize that there is an agenda for everything put out by the media. The media is NOT our friend. This guy is clearly an attention ho. He was on Katie Couric on Friday on a show entitled “interracial relationships.” He went on bring awareness to his relationship, rather than being a father. Of course this is going to bring backlash. He is bragging about his white/Asian wife and being a father to clearly biracial children. If this was a black man with black kids, this would not be a story and he would not be on Katie Couric’s couch. Plus this guy was on a show called “Amazing Race.” He doesn’t care about fatherhood, rather only his own promotion.

 

[UnderMiSensi]

what i say would only sound stupid to people who believe that we live in peace with these other races of people.

REALITY CHECK. We are not at peace with them, we are in an inferior position. WE control and own next to nothing we can't change that as long as we are race mixing. ALL you have to do to see the future of black people in america is look at how blacks are treated in south america something similar is going to happen right here.

Bruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh we get it blacks are at a low position and 95% of blacks date out, sell out or are full of shit. We must win win win, build our banks, develop technologies, start black owned businesses, control our media etc blah blah blah ad nausem. Look getting on a soap box ain't gonna change shit , while you're preach on here some billionaire white dude is stealing our resources or ideas, making money and protect his assets, starting shadow etc and you won't even now his name or where he's doing because he is doing not talking and he's putting his money where his mouth is.

So either shut the fuck up and help out the black community that you feel is so downtrodden or shut the fuck up and do you. Either way just SHUT THE FUCK UP. Your shit is getting more or just tired as the coonery I see on here Gawddamn!

 

[rockets]

any good this man is doing does not benefit black people. this nigga is married to a fucking chink. he's not part of the community.

oh you sound angry.....but I see your point.

 

[zombie]

what i say would only sound stupid to people who believe that we live in peace with these other races of people.

REALITY CHECK. We are not at peace with them, we are in an inferior position. WE control and own next to nothing we can't change that as long as we are race mixing. ALL you have to do to see the future of black people in america is look at how blacks are treated in south america something similar is going to happen right here.

Bruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh we get it blacks are at a low position and 95% of blacks date out, sell out or are full of shit. We must win win win, build our banks, develop technologies, start black owned businesses, control our media etc blah blah blah ad nausem. Look getting on a soap box ain't gonna change shit , while you're preach on here some billionaire white dude is stealing our resources or ideas, making money and protect his assets, starting shadow etc and you won't even now his name or where he's doing because he is doing not talking and he's putting his money where his mouth is.

So either shut the fuck up and help out the black community that you feel is so downtrodden or shut the fuck up and do you. Either way just SHUT THE FUCK UP. Your shit is getting more or just tired as the coonery I see on here Gawddamn!

I don't give a fuck what you feel this is the internet i came here to talk in the first place. I do help out but i only give my time money and resources to those who are worthy. Those who see what i see and i will never stop speaking against the bullshit. You want to keep your mouth closed and get money fine but i have done that already and it's not enough. Your way just leads to another boule black elite class of high paid house niggers that shit on their brothers. i know because i have done business with these kinds of people, I AM actually quite financially sucessfull and i would help out some of the people here but i can't because i don't see eye to eye with most of you on the matters that are really important.

WE have to convince the masses to change how they think

 

[rockets]

oh Fuck this dude quoting MLK. Some niggas think that MLK's movement was strictly for black men to love and screw white, Asian, & Hispanic women. Not the case.

MLK quote: The basic aim of the Negro is not to become the white man’s brother-in-law, but his brother.” January 01, 1960 Source Frontier Post –

And that is rather self serving of this dude to imply that. Though some misinformed people think the struggle was/is about blk men and women being able to marry out. It was not. It was about building a community. Blks too complacent now that they can lay down with someone that does not look like them. Keep your eye on the prize.

 

[kzzl]

In that interview he was saying the same thing that was mentioned in that original post. Damn near word for word. But so what if that nigga bragging bout his family? You want him to talk bad bout them? And honestly, he wasn't even bragging bout it. Just telling the shit how it is. Whatever ill intention you picked up from that is a personal problem probably. So what if he's praising himself? It's obvious he's earning his props.

He didn't get up there and say "black women are this, black women are that...", he wasn't like one of these IC niggas. I saw no obvious reason to question his shit. I question why the network would address the topic as I do agree the media has an agenda, but aside from that I saw no foul play on dudes part. His case probably just fell in line with whatever they got going. Unless, you're saying this whole thing is a farce to race bait... now that's a whole other level of the game.

Him being a former contestant on "Amazing Race", back in 2002's season 2 I believe, might have helped get him on Katie's couch, but that don't discredit him bringing to light the malice he received from that picture.It doesn't justify it happening to him. And if this is all about promotion... well, the ol' "snap a pic with my daughters so folks can call me a nigger" trick is a new one for the books. Like I said, a whole new level.

Frankly, you niggas sound jealous of whatever this guy has going. I see no fault in his actions and no evidence of fuckery. Sounds like you niggas was one of those on his facebook typing that bullshit if anything.

 

[UnderMiSensi]

what i say would only sound stupid to people who believe that we live in peace with these other races of people.

REALITY CHECK. We are not at peace with them, we are in an inferior position. WE control and own next to nothing we can't change that as long as we are race mixing. ALL you have to do to see the future of black people in america is look at how blacks are treated in south america something similar is going to happen right here.

Bruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh we get it blacks are at a low position and 95% of blacks date out, sell out or are full of shit. We must win win win, build our banks, develop technologies, start black owned businesses, control our media etc blah blah blah ad nausem. Look getting on a soap box ain't gonna change shit , while you're preach on here some billionaire white dude is stealing our resources or ideas, making money and protect his assets, starting shadow etc and you won't even now his name or where he's doing because he is doing not talking and he's putting his money where his mouth is.

So either shut the fuck up and help out the black community that you feel is so downtrodden or shut the fuck up and do you. Either way just SHUT THE FUCK UP. Your shit is getting more or just tired as the coonery I see on here Gawddamn!

I don't give a fuck what you feel this is the internet i came here to talk in the first place. I do help out but i only give my time money and resources to those who are worthy. Those who see what i see and i will never stop speaking against the bullshit. You want to keep your mouth closed and get money fine but i have done that already and it's not enough. Your way just leads to another boule black elite class of high paid house niggers that shit on their brothers. i know because i have done business with these kinds of people, I AM actually quite financially sucessfull and i would help out some of the people here but i can't because i don't see eye to eye with most of you on the matters that are really important.

WE have to convince the masses to change how they think

Don't assume what my way of success is, my goal is well above most peoples comprehension even yours. It's past monetary and my game plan will help those in need, change the way energy is used and I want to start in Africa. Anyway I know of those bourgeoisie blacks I went to some of them with my idea and they refused to inves because they think blacks don't really invent or they just ain't investment minded which is cool, but what gripes me is that they take the money and help white folks win everyday by being consumers spending money in their economies making them rich and then turn around any us black folks need to do better and think better pick ourselves up by our bootstraps etc man I like STFU already ya'll don't invest in black businesses or technologies nearly as much as you invest in other racial groups yet want to talk slick like ya'll care gtfoh.

On another note you're an elitist nigga too "those who are worthy" "i would help out some of the people here but i can't because i don't see eye to eye with most of you"

you are self righteous as fuck and blinded by bitterness. America does business with china and they don't seee eye to eye on "important" manners but they do see eye to eye on objective necessary manners like trade and economic growth so they work together to get ahead it's all chess China doesn't say I don't fuck with America because the way they think isn't worthy so to hell with what they got to offer that's some bitch shit. As far as convincing the masses, well that is done by leading by example, not by getting on a forum to shout on your irrelevant soap box which is getting old, very old. So as I strive to make a change, hunting for investors so to build a billion dollar company that will redefine how energy is used while making African countries first world nations and I see folks like you who are doing well but just shouting about what the next man is not doing right, who he shouldn't be dating and how blacks are at the bottom, what i say to that is shut that bullshit up and talk real world solutions. Interracial dating is a by product of elitest self rightous rich niggas like you who complain but don't actively try to help build up their communities.

 

[zombie]

what i say would only sound stupid to people who believe that we live in peace with these other races of people.

REALITY CHECK. We are not at peace with them, we are in an inferior position. WE control and own next to nothing we can't change that as long as we are race mixing. ALL you have to do to see the future of black people in america is look at how blacks are treated in south america something similar is going to happen right here.

Bruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh we get it blacks are at a low position and 95% of blacks date out, sell out or are full of shit. We must win win win, build our banks, develop technologies, start black owned businesses, control our media etc blah blah blah ad nausem. Look getting on a soap box ain't gonna change shit , while you're preach on here some billionaire white dude is stealing our resources or ideas, making money and protect his assets, starting shadow etc and you won't even now his name or where he's doing because he is doing not talking and he's putting his money where his mouth is.

So either shut the fuck up and help out the black community that you feel is so downtrodden or shut the fuck up and do you. Either way just SHUT THE FUCK UP. Your shit is getting more or just tired as the coonery I see on here Gawddamn!

I don't give a fuck what you feel this is the internet i came here to talk in the first place. I do help out but i only give my time money and resources to those who are worthy. Those who see what i see and i will never stop speaking against the bullshit. You want to keep your mouth closed and get money fine but i have done that already and it's not enough. Your way just leads to another boule black elite class of high paid house niggers that shit on their brothers. i know because i have done business with these kinds of people, I AM actually quite financially sucessfull and i would help out some of the people here but i can't because i don't see eye to eye with most of you on the matters that are really important.

WE have to convince the masses to change how they think

Don't assume what my way of success is, my goal is well above most peoples comprehension even yours. It's past monetary and my game plan will help those in need, change the way energy is used and I want to start in Africa. Anyway I know of those bourgeoisie blacks I went to some of them with my idea and they refused to inves because they think blacks don't really invent or they just ain't investment minded which is cool, but what gripes me is that they take the money and help white folks win everyday by being consumers spending money in their economies making them rich and then turn around any us black folks need to do better and think better pick ourselves up by our bootstraps etc man I like STFU already ya'll don't invest in black businesses or technologies nearly as much as you invest in other racial groups yet want to talk slick like ya'll care gtfoh.

On another note you're an elitist nigga too "those who are worthy" "i would help out some of the people here but i can't because i don't see eye to eye with most of you"

you are self righteous as fuck and blinded by bitterness. America does business with china and they don't seee eye to eye on "important" manners but they do see eye to eye on objective necessary manners like trade and economic growth so they work together to get ahead it's all chess China doesn't say I don't fuck with America because the way they think isn't worthy so to hell with what they got to offer that's some bitch shit. As far as convincing the masses, well that is done by leading by example, not by getting on a forum to shout on your irrelevant soap box which is getting old, very old. So as I strive to make a change, hunting for investors so to build a billion dollar company that will redefine how energy is used while making African countries first world nations and I see folks like you who are doing well but just shouting about what the next man is not doing right, who he shouldn't be dating and how blacks are at the bottom, what i say to that is shut that bullshit up and talk real world solutions. Interracial dating is a by product of elitest self rightous rich niggas like you who complain but don't actively try to help build up their communities.

How nations do business and how people on a 1 to 1 basis do business are two very different things

once again this is a discussion forum I come here to talk people come here to talk. the discussion is about race mixing and manhood not about The real world solutions to the international energy problems faced by africa. The purpose of coming here is to talk you can't fix social issues without talk. Talking is the real world solution to this kind of problem as the only way to convince someone not to date outside the race is to convince them not too. if you don't like the topic or you are tired of hearing it don't read it and log off and you talk like you know me you don't know me You don't know what i've done or do.

i understand what you are trying to say but it does not apply to this topic this is firstly a social problem and they cannot be solved simply by leading by example there are already many examples of successful black families yet foolishness still goes on.

 

[playmaker88]

Niggas be like.. "So and so is coon"

and in the same token they do the same shit..

Spoiler

Niggas

 

[zombie]

People are not just going to give you money because you have a good idea there are millions of people with good ideas. Investors are not going to refuse you simply based on you being black, you have to sell your idea you have to convince them. Your talent in doing that often times will decide your success.

The sad reality is that if you want a certain class of black people to invest with you you first need a white person to invest in you. Black people lack confidence in each other and ourselves. This lack of confidence is displayed by our BEHAVIOR from business to love and in every area of black life.

 

[blackrain]

How in the hell do some of y'all manage to talk bad about a man for bragging about his wife and kids? Is he supposed to say fuck that bitch and those kids or something?

 

[blackrain]

In that interview he was saying the same thing that was mentioned in that original post. Damn near word for word. But so what if that nigga bragging bout his family? You want him to talk bad bout them? And honestly, he wasn't even bragging bout it. Just telling the shit how it is. Whatever ill intention you picked up from that is a personal problem probably. So what if he's praising himself? It's obvious he's earning his props.

He didn't get up there and say "black women are this, black women are that...", he wasn't like one of these IC niggas. I saw no obvious reason to question his shit. I question why the network would address the topic as I do agree the media has an agenda, but aside from that I saw no foul play on dudes part. His case probably just fell in line with whatever they got going. Unless, you're saying this whole thing is a farce to race bait... now that's a whole other level of the game.

Him being a former contestant on "Amazing Race", back in 2002's season 2 I believe, might have helped get him on Katie's couch, but that don't discredit him bringing to light the malice he received from that picture.It doesn't justify it happening to him. And if this is all about promotion... well, the ol' "snap a pic with my daughters so folks can call me a nigger" trick is a new one for the books. Like I said, a whole new level.

Frankly, you niggas sound jealous of whatever this guy has going. I see no fault in his actions and no evidence of fuckery. Sounds like you niggas was one of those on his facebook typing that bullshit if anything.

These niggas lives so fucked up they see a happy person with a happy family and its no way it can be real. Its got to be a set up to see someone in a happy marriage with kids being happy.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

this is getting very interesting.

@zombie and @greencapitalist90

maybe you two should slow down an take the time to hear what the other is saying.

instead of the insults, ask questions and dont assume.

maybe you two can work together and create a bigger accomplishment.

i agree with you both..

blacks need to help blacks more.

i have been on both sides. the asking for money side and the side of investing.

asking for money can get frustrating when you think people dont believe in your dream

investing can get just as frustrating when people think you dont know because you say no.

i have learned alot about both. and i think outside of race..wording and delivery is everything.