blackrain;5659012 said:
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DNB1;5657710 said:
Lol @ some of the comments...
What you niggas fail to realise is that if you need to beat a child with a cable cord, you already lost with you're parenting skills. Just goes to show that you can't handle reasoning with them and showing them the error of there ways without physical contact....loser ass parents.
If you're child only understands physical discipline, the long term effects are negative and reoccurring. Hence the child grows up to be the same.
And these girls will probably end up with a man that beats they ass...and when daddy goes to the hospital to pick up his busted up daughters...he can blame himself.
They say that females are drawn to men that display the same qualities as there father....
When I usta get whooped it went like this
1st offense warning...
2nd harder warning...
3rd whooping( belt)
4th extinction cord..
Most parents dont come out da gate wit da cord unless they told u multiple times about somthing or u doing somthin COMPLETELY out of line i.e. being a 12-14 year old girl twerking on da net...
this is how i was taught. and you know something, i have much respect for my elders. i learned good or so i think they are good decision making skills, because i have to think about the consequence of my actions.
did my parents beat my ass...yes. did i always need my ass whipped, no.
did my dad talk to me after an ass whipping, yes.
Many times this part is left out. It's all "Whoop ass, don't explain shit to them. They're kids, they don't deserve an explanation"
but why does it need to be said?
why cant it just be assumed that it happened?
when my parents talked about my punishments ...they only said they whipped my ass.
when i talk about punishments with my kids...i just say i whipped they ass.
its assumed that a talk will follow unless its some crazy nigga we talking about.
I don't assume shit from people...and truthfully the way some folks talk about whooping their kids is like they get some sadistic pleasure out of it. Like they just waiting for the next chance to do it so they can have another "I whooped my kid's ass story". I hear and have heard way too many parents brag about how badly they were able to make their kid cry while whooping them. There's something wrong with that
i dont know one...not one parent that ever got joy out of whipping their kids. when people talk about the whippings its not braggin they just sharing "parent" stories an they are funny after the fact. most parents feel bad after they gotta whip they child but it has to be done
hell some people talk about how they got they ass beat by they parents...dont mean they braggin. i didnt get pleasure from that shit.
i talk about how my brothers used to whip my ass when we was little....dont mean i braggin or got some sort of pleasure out of it.
you say you are not assuming....but you did assume he didnt say shit to them. you did think he was too hard on them. you dont know the background yet, you can say he was too hard on them.
i think you are looking at this too deep or maybe you have your reasons why you feel like this outside of the fact you feel its just not right....just saying